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scarletVase1809
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Relationship Stress / by scarletVase1809
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 January 17th, 2019
...See more Not sure this is the right place to put this but here goes: I need to end a relationship but have tried hard to numerous times and not been strong enough. It is pretty toxic and unhealthy. There are a lot of issues including them trying to get me to do things I don't feel comfortable with. The issue is that despite everything I still love them. Despite them treating me badly and feeling really down myself about this situation I have tried to cut them off but in the end they talk me round staying and as hard as I try i don't have the strength to keep away. In spite of my own better judgement. I am not even convinced they love me anymore but whenever I try to tell them we need a break/space they just hold tighter. What adds to the complications is that they left a previous relationship to be with me. So although we are not happy, disappointed and I don't think they love me it is as if we are just stuck together. They've told me they want a life with me. But I just don't think that they are good for me. I just want to know if anyone has any thoughts/suggestions on what I should do? Thanks
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