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Hey there! I'm glad that you chose to be a part of the 7 cups family.
I am sorry that you are hurting. I am sorry that it has to be this way. But hey, we are in this together.
Allow me to provide you the safe space to be vulnerable and your authentic self while maintaining complete anonymity. 
If I'm online, then please feel free to start a chat. If I'm offline, you may leave a message and I will surely get back to you. 
Apart from being a verified listener, I'm also a peer support listener - so if you are an active listener/intern who needs to vent after a triggering chat, feel free to shoot a message.

P.S. If you are hurting over relationship issues, there are a few things that you may want to ponder up on - 
More than anything else we often suffer from issues linked to self-worth that are intrinsically connected to our childhood experiences and relations. We tend to replicate the unhealthy patterns we learned in our childhood relationships when we enter into adult relationships. You might find yourself getting attracted to certain type of people - emotionally unavailable, unresponsive, abusive, those who subject you to the silent treatment and trigger your emotional injuries. When you are physically wounded do you keep digging your wound? You don't right? Then why do you do the same with your emotional injury? It doesn't have to be this way, does it?


 
Number of Ratings: 63
Number of Reviews: 18
Listens to Over 18
Languages English, Bengali, Hindi
Listener Since Aug 27, 2014
Last Active in last week
Gender Female
Progress Path Step 283
Cheers 34,438
People Helped 126
Chats 635
Group Support Chats 23
Listener Group Chats 27
Forum Posts 168
Forum Upvotes 88
Categories
Managing Emotions
Work Stress
Breakups
Family Stress
Financial Stress
Loneliness
Student Life
Relationship Stress
Men's & Women's Issues
Self-Esteem
Depression
Self-Harm
Growth Path Timeline
  • Exercise completed!
    Member Welcome Program
    Completed step number is 279, on April 7th, 2017
  • Exercise completed!
    Emotional Wellness Test
    Completed step number is 278, on October 24th, 2016
  • Exercise completed!
    Emotional Wellness Test
    Completed step number is 274, on October 12th, 2016
  • Exercise completed!
    Emotional Wellness Test
    Completed step number is 272, on October 9th, 2016
  • Exercise completed!
    Emotional Wellness Test
    Completed step number is 270, on October 6th, 2016

Feedback & Reviews
Shilpa carefully listens to you and she really wants you to do better
She is a nice listener.
awesome so far!
I absolutely loved talking to her. She chats with you like a great friend and leaves a hearty impression by the end of chat, making you feel better about yourself. That's one of the rarest thing one could be able to experience after having gone through tumultuous emotions.
Such a sweet person, one of the best listeners of 7 cups
The sweetest person I've ever met, made me feel so good when I was so down with me thoughts. Such a good listener, I hope you always be happy. God bless
Such a warm soul
Great
I wish i could always write with shilpa.... so understanding and made me smile
Thank you so much for being there today. it meant the world!
Very friendly, helpful and provides great resources :)
Amazing listener, first person I ever connected with here and the person that made me sign up for an account. If you want someone to truly listen to you and to actually calm you down and help, it's this one here. Could not rate enough, absolutely perfect at listening and being helpful.
Made me feel so comfortable. Take care!
cool :)
Thank you so much sweet friend , you always calm me down .
Thank you friend. It calmed the storm inside me a lot.
thanks a lot
You made my first experience with 7cupsoftea a very good one, thank you.
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Questions Answered
How do I know if I'm in a toxic relationship?
September 3rd, 2016 5:42am How is college different to high school?
September 4th, 2016 5:09am Is polyamory wrong even when everyone involved is happy and consent is given?
September 4th, 2016 10:54am