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shimmeringScarlet4420
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I need help evaluating a relationship.
Relationship Stress / by shimmeringScarlet4420
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 December 10th, 2023
...See more Hello everyone,  I recently just had a breakup with someone I was with for almost 7 months. It ended quite abruptly, but I felt it coming because of how they seemed distant. It was online (yes, I know I'm very dumb for this). I know this is my fault for trusting someone I didn't know. But they treated me so nicely, it felt unreal. I gave them my entire heart and now it's in pieces. Im left alone to pick the pieces up and put them together like always. I would complain to them about how cruel this world has been when they were no different (?) I still love them, but I'm hurt. My naive brain just can't detect fake/lies, and I just tend to believe that every one who smiles at me is nice. I hate it. Can someone please help me evaluate the relationship? I either think too good of them, or I just start blaming them for things. I can't seem to find a conclusion. And I cant seem to move on :(. This was my first relationship, and my first ever love. Which is also why it hurts so much :(.
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