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sociableNest1460
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Relationship Stress / by sociableNest1460
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February 1st
...See more Hi my name is Naddy and I am Thai woman that just moved to Australia with my own Resident Visa...and I being with my partner who’s Australian for 3 years now...I just want to manage my thinking about things because he said I have a problem with it....since the first start we are doing long distance relationship nearly 2 years and moved in together in May 2025... first start of this relationship it’s sweet as normal until I found out that when he was young...he was getting raped by the bus driver .... And I feel so sorry for him so much but after that I found out that he have been hooked up with man and gays.... For a while before in the relationship with me but once we in the relationship he never back to that again... I know I a bit naive and dumb but I trust him....i have experienced his FWB text me about how he being gays but be honest....before he be with me he have been in the relationship with women all the times just the time that he single he said gays is easy to hooked up so that it’s okay but I also found out later after moving in that when we first chatting first couple months he lied to me that he going to fix some friends farm machine but he ended up going to other woman house....i still forgive him and continue our relationship until now....and in December 25 he proposed to me...but after that 3 weeks we have a big argument and he said something that hurt me and break me... ‘you are b*tch get out from my life....get out from my house and go back to your country’ it’s really kill me but later he cried infront of me and apologized and yes...I still here....he’s working DIDO from our town to Kalgoorlie...which is took him 3 hours away driving....but last 4 days he have his friend who lives in the same town but this boy is his ex girlfriend brother he used to be gays but I don’t know both of them background before...he always on called with me but every time he always said I am tired I need sleep but this times is different he have talked with that boy till 9pm and at 4am I woke up to said good morning to him but I saw he enjoyed smoking and laughing with that boy so I msg him Hi my love and he stop all of that smile....and making more stressful face to me. I bring this up and he end up told me that I don’t want you in my life. But today he back to called me and we always spending times together at dinner time to have a chat about our days but today is different that boy in his room and having dinner and watching movies with him I said why our routine changed he said I have mouth why I don’t say what I want so later I said what I truly want he straight up that I controlling him... what should I do to manage my situation and my emotions....i am apologize for long msg
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