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softNutella25 |
Listener - Scholar 3

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5.0 star rating

Hello I'm glad that you have contacted me on 7 Cups of Tea! I enjoy supporting people who struggle with anxiety, depression, family/work stress, emotional issues, financial issues, health stress, and more. I have experienced many of these issues in my own life (and still do) and I know how helpful a supportive and listening ear can be. Please feel free to contact me if I am online so that we can set up an appointment to chat. If I am offline, please send me a message so that we can set up a time to connect!






Number of Ratings: 117
Number of Reviews: 53
Listens to Over 18
Languages English
Listener Since Dec 11, 2015
Last Active in last 6 months
Gender Female
Progress Path Step 151
Cheers 44,478
People Helped 131
Chats 712
Group Support Chats 0
Listener Group Chats 2
Forum Posts 14
Forum Upvotes 14
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Feedback & Reviews
Amazing, wise, kind.
the best, the end!
she is the best.
the best - caring, patient, attentive
she is the best ❤
she is the best
she is the best!!!
always a great chat
I always enjoy my chats with her. She is more than a listener to me. She is someone I can talk to and not feel judged. Keep up the good work.
everything good
she is the best
So helpful and kind! Very understanding and supportive. Never had a better conversation on 7cups :)
the best
I like chatting with SoftNutella25 when we do talk. She responds well, is help, kind and patient. I recommend her for anyone. Keep up the god work.
she is the best, hands down. kind, warm, decent, honest, open, wise
I feel she is very empathetic and supportive. I recommend her for anyone! Keep up the good work!
warm, amazing, kind, responsive, funny
Was kind, attentive and empathetic. Was there for me when I needed. I am grateful for the opportunity and help.
warm, caring, kind, honest and open
a great listener. Warm, caring, kind
she is amazing, warm, approachable, wise and giving. A lovely person and a fantastic listener
just an amazing human being
Lovely, thankyou!
I enjoy chatting with softNutella25. She is an awesome listener. She is very supportive and patient. She sees the good in people. Keep up the good work.
Fantastic listener.
SoftNutella25 is an excellent listener. She is very patient and understanding. I recommend er for anyone.
Amazing listener for the first time I felt like I could truly talk to someone
I know people don't always know what to say about some situations but don't tell you that. But SoftNutella25 was open with me about that. She is a good listener and is very kind and patient, as well as encouraging. I recommend her to anyone. Keep up the good work.
Thank you
You rrally listened and did not judge. Thank you for taking the time to talk with me.
The best listener and a friend if I may say so... :)
I like talking to softNutella25 because she is very kind, patient, considerate, and is a great listener all around.
Such a kind listener. Exactly what I needed! I feel better now :) Thank you!
the best
She's so amazing! She was so supportive and sweet. Perfect listener right there. Truly cares about what you are going through and is very open minded and just perfect! Thank you for your time and I am glad that I'll be talking to you soon again. 100% recommended!
Very professional and a great conversationalist.
They were very helpful. Thank you, Soft Nutella.
Very kind, patient, and insightful. Sometimes you just need someone with another perspective to be a set of ears -- this listener was great.
Super supportive and understanding!
Kind, compassionate person!
Cool as heck.
Very good advice, excellent listener and very sympathetic and empathetic. Really made me feel like you cared about me
Thank you so much :)
The chats I have had have gone pretty well. Keep up the good work.
They have been there for me a lot lately. I really appreciate the time they take to help me through things that have been going on. Good job! Keep up the good work!
I like the encouraging words I received. This person has definitely been a good listener. Keep up the good work!
I like the fact we spent a lot of time talking. This listener was very encouraging and truly listened to what I had to say.
Thanks and keep up the good work.
very supportive and professional...and this is my first time using this website.. i will be looking for this listener in the near future!!
I appreciated the time and patience, as well as the understanding I received.
compassionate and understanding.
Best listener!
Fantastic all around.
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Questions Answered
What is the difference between sadness and depression?
December 16th, 2015 8:41pm
I've been depressed my entire life, what is it like to not be depressed?
December 16th, 2015 8:39pm
Do I need to tell people that I'm depressed?
December 13th, 2015 4:19am
How do I know if I'm sad or depressed?
December 16th, 2015 8:43pm
Why is talking about having depression almost like talking about a taboo subject?
January 4th, 2016 5:43am
What is the point of taking classes to get a degree I will never use?
December 26th, 2016 3:52pm
How do I focus on what I want and stop trying to please everybody?
December 27th, 2016 3:24am
How can I help people with depression?
January 4th, 2016 5:56am
How can I volunteer and talk to elderly?
March 19th, 2018 9:06pm
I need help with depression
December 21st, 2015 11:59pm
How to forgive yourself for cheating or lying?
January 29th, 2017 10:03pm
How to forgive yourself for hurting someone?
June 6th, 2018 3:15am
What to do when you're lonely and have no friends?
July 2nd, 2016 3:21am
How can I tell my parents that I think I'm depressed?
December 28th, 2016 3:02am
Do I have the right to feel depressed even if I'm privileged?
July 20th, 2016 6:43pm
What should I do if I am feeling suicidal, but don't want to tell anyone?
July 3rd, 2016 8:08pm
I am struggling with codependency and depression. I cannot afford therapy. What can I do to get help?
July 29th, 2016 1:06am
How can I deal with feelings I can't find words to express?
December 22nd, 2016 1:22am
What role should medication play in managing emotions like anxiety and depression?
July 18th, 2016 2:12am
How do I manage my panic attacks without becoming addicted to Xanax?
December 27th, 2016 3:33am
How do I stop worrying about the pressures of society?
January 4th, 2016 5:41am
How do I prevent negative thinking?
July 3rd, 2016 8:07pm
I am worried about losing my job, what can I do?
March 2nd, 2017 11:04pm
I don't like my job anymore. Should I quit or continue doing it?
December 16th, 2015 8:45pm
Why can't I complete a task I've been assigned?
January 4th, 2016 5:50am
How can I tell if my co-worker dislikes me?
January 4th, 2016 5:52am
How do I tell my boss I'm leaving? (nicely)?
December 22nd, 2016 1:20am
What to say when quitting a job you just started?
July 29th, 2016 12:46am
My manager is very impatient and often criticises me. I cant take criticism well and have a low threshold of stress. What can I do to get stronger (to cope) on my own and without changing her at all?
June 21st, 2018 10:04pm
How do you effectively confront people who are spreading negative rumors about you?
November 29th, 2019 7:16am
Why can't I look at myself without seeing the most horrible thing ever?
April 4th, 2017 5:51am
Is there a midpoint between normal eating and anorexia?
March 19th, 2018 9:04pm
How can I tell others that that even though I am a male and not effeminate, I also have an eating disorder?
April 4th, 2017 5:55am
How can i start eating again?
January 30th, 2018 12:34am
Is it possible to have a binge eating disorder but still be skinny?
January 29th, 2017 10:01pm
What are the main symptoms of panic attacks?
December 16th, 2015 8:38pm
Does it help to identify panic triggers?
January 7th, 2016 4:34am
Are panic attacks normal? I feel like I'm going crazy.
January 7th, 2016 4:35am
How do paper bags help with panic attacks?
December 16th, 2015 8:48pm
How can I calm down during a panic attack?
December 16th, 2015 8:50pm
How do you deal with pulling yourself out of a panic attack when others just say "Snap out of it!" ?
January 4th, 2016 5:48am
Why don't I get the symptoms most commonly described, like clammy hands and a tight chest? Is it my adrenal system or something?
January 7th, 2016 4:36am
Why do i wake up in the middle of the night with a panic attack?
April 25th, 2016 1:26am
Can anxiety cause me to feel depressed?
December 13th, 2015 4:21am
How can I overcome feeling anxiety every time I have to travel and leave the house?
April 25th, 2016 1:27am
Is it normal to think everyone is out to get me?
January 4th, 2016 5:44am
What should I do if people think I am lying?
January 24th, 2018 11:20pm
Why do I always think I've got cancer?
July 29th, 2016 12:54am
How frequent are anxiety attacks usually?
July 29th, 2016 1:02am
What are alternative ways besides medication to deal with the physical symptoms of anxiety?
July 29th, 2016 12:57am
Why do I constantly wake up with nightmares?
April 4th, 2017 5:53am
How do you deal with the temptation to contact your ex?
June 6th, 2018 3:13am
I want to break up, but I'm scared that no one will ever love me again. What should I do?
November 8th, 2020 8:11pm
Why is it so hard to talk to an ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend?
January 24th, 2018 11:20pm
I broke up with him even though I do love him and he loves me. I had to! How can I move on from someone I can't find a reason to hate?
January 24th, 2018 11:22pm
Why are we fighting over small and stupid things?
December 28th, 2017 2:56am
My ex thinks I mentally/emotionally abused her I loved her and still love her It's been 3 months. We share the same friends I accept its over.I'm grieving but it kills me she thinks I abused her Help?
December 30th, 2019 4:00pm
How can I stop drinking or taking drugs?
June 6th, 2018 3:08am
I failed a drug test at work-will I lose my job?
April 4th, 2017 5:56am
How to trust someone again who has consistently lied?
May 10th, 2017 10:31pm
My parents don't listen to me, what should I do?
July 29th, 2016 12:50am
Why am I not good enough for my parents?
December 22nd, 2016 1:55am
How can I tell if my mother has dementia?
July 2nd, 2016 3:23am
How can I tell if my mother in law likes me?
December 8th, 2019 4:08pm
How do I know if my friend has postpartum depression?
December 22nd, 2016 1:32am
I hate my husband or wife. Why?
July 29th, 2016 12:55am
How do I live with a mentally-ill parent?
April 7th, 2018 3:17pm
My father is having an extramarital affair. Part of me wants to end my relationship with him for cheating on my mom, but i worry that he will be depressed as he loves me a lot. How do I deal with this situation?
December 22nd, 2016 1:46am
Is there anyway to remove all of your sexual desire?
July 29th, 2016 12:51am
Is there an association between chronic pain and social rejection?
December 23rd, 2019 11:34pm
Is it normal for me to have recurring dreams about my rapist (even though the incident happened years ago)?
December 26th, 2016 3:54pm
My OCD doesn't seem to fit the stereotypes. Are there different types of OCD?
July 29th, 2016 1:01am
How not to sound weird when talking to authority?
July 29th, 2016 1:04am
I think I might be schizophrenic, but I'm afraid if I bring my concerns to a doctor, they'll tell me there's nothing wrong even if there is, because I already think I have it. What do I do?
October 22nd, 2016 9:08pm
How can I be happy without friends and family?
June 6th, 2018 3:11am
What's the best way to deal with emotional blackmail from a partner?
March 2nd, 2017 11:02pm
How do you tell your friend that you disagree with them without hurting their feelings?
July 29th, 2016 12:47am
I'm too short for a guy to date. What can I do?
October 26th, 2017 1:45am