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softplop
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Bio

I'm Brian.


I'm a polyamorous pansexual trans man.


I'm also an undergrad junior college student double-majoring in Philosophy who lives in the United States. I'll be online every once in a while.

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November 19, 2017
Relationship Stress / by softplop
Last post
 December 16th, 2017
...See more I've begun to have my first sexual experiences with a good friend of mine over the last month. I've known him (and quite liked him) for three years. We are in a partnered relationship now and our relationship is going very well. We see each other about once a week and we are getting closer every time we see each other. I showed up at his apartment late tonight, after dark. We went out to eat and while we were out I felt very vulnerable and awkward. I tend to in public situations I'm not familar of. We went back to his place and cuddled on the couch joking around and talking for a while, then he asked if we should cuddle in his room. We went into his room and cuddling soon turned into foreplay which turned into... "I know I don't have time to finish this activity, but I want to tease you and make you feel good." I let him know this, and he called me a naughty boy which made it much harder to leave him hanging. He teased me back right before I had to go. Before we left his room I let him know I'm open to kinky things we might not have tried yet, and it sounds like he is going to take me up on that offer. We made plans to see each other again next week and overall I'm extremely happy with tonight's experience.
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Finally Accepting My Body
Relationship Stress / by softplop
Last post
 October 3rd, 2017
...See more I'm a trans man. I have been out of the closet as trans and not-straight for three years now and I'm finally on testosterone. The scariest idea used to be sex for me before I was on testosterone. I am now experiencing clitoris growth and I feel like my parts are less like a cis female and this makes me very happy. I had a sexual experience last night between me and someone I have known and had a crush on for a long time. We didn't go "all the way", but it was an extremely sex-positive experience. He confided in me and told me he had never been intimate with another guy before and I felt extremely special. I wasn't even worried about being too feminine. I just enjoyed the moment. I'm really proud of myself for learning that it's okay to be trans and that it's okay to be intimate with others as a trans person. I'm finally feeling like the man I was always supposed to be and ready to tackle more sexual experiences to empower myself, but of course, I'll always be safe about it.
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I'm Not Alone
Trauma Support / by softplop
Last post
 March 31st, 2017
...See more Today, I put a teal ribbon on my lamp near my desk. When the memories and anxieties start to take over me, I might look at it and remember that there is still a place of warmth and love where I belong in this world. I'm not broken. I've just changed.
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Tomorrow
Trauma Support / by softplop
Last post
 April 10th, 2017
...See more It's the first day of me concurring my experience and occurrence of rape and sexual assault. It's been three years, and it's the first time I've felt brave enough and ready to talk about what happened and try my hardest to move past it. I've been stuck here for years, and I'm ready to get out. I'm nervous for what is to come.
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