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Hi there, my name is Sola. I have a love and passion for supporting people in any way I can! Everyone is going through a lot, but not everyone has a person to talk to about it. So if I can be that person for you, even if it's only one time, for an hour, or even just 10 minutes, I'd be completely honored. If I'm online, please feel free to start a chat. If I'm offline, send me a message and we can set up a time to connect.

“Make a radical change in your lifestyle and begin to boldly do things which you may previously never have thought of doing, or been too hesitant to attempt. So many people live within unhappy circumstances and yet will not take the initiative to change their situation because they are conditioned to a life of security, conformity, and conservation, all of which may appear to give one peace of mind, but in reality nothing is more damaging to the adventurous spirit within a man than a secure future. The very basic core of a man’s living spirit is his passion for adventure. The joy of life comes from our encounters with new experiences, and hence there is no greater joy than to have an endlessly changing horizon, for each day to have a new and different sun. If you want to get more out of life, you must lose your inclination for monotonous security and adopt a helter-skelter style of life that will at first appear to you to be crazy. But once you become accustomed to such a life you will see its full meaning and its incredible beauty.”
— Jon Krakauer


 

Number of Ratings: 23
Number of Reviews: 9
Listens to Over 18
Languages English
Listener Since May 18, 2014
Last Active over 6 months ago
Gender Non-Binary
Progress Path Step 157
Cheers 3,662
People Helped 19
Chats 84
Group Support Chats 0
Listener Group Chats 6
Forum Posts 17
Forum Upvotes 36
Categories
Depression
Managing Emotions
Eating Disorder
Panic Attacks
Anxiety
LGBTQ+ Issues
Self-Harm
Breakups
Alcohol/Drug Abuse
Chronic Pain
Weight Management
ADHD
Domestic Violence
Forgiveness
Social Anxiety
Getting Unstuck
Loneliness
Student Life
PTSD
Disabilities
Relationship Stress
Growth Path Timeline
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Feedback & Reviews
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Amazing , have deep understanding, will give you proper reply
Wonderful.
Best listener I have ever had. She is a beautiful, beautiful soul. I wish her well in life. So incredibly empathetic.
Amazing. SOO helpful.
Great help.
thanks for elaborative responses and listening to me. from Bangalore, India
We never found a root to my problem, nor a breakthrough, but she definitely helped calm me down and make my stress levels lower by a lot.
Badges & Awards
Jester of Smiles Anxiety Depression Managing Emotions Panic Attacks Surviving Breakups Traumatic Experiences Crisis Intervention Listener Oath Work Related Stress Self Harm Sexual Abuse Alcohol & Drug Abuse Cultural Diversity Verified Listener Love Bug Self-Care Self-Love Affirmative Reflection Chat & Text Listening Ace Active Listening 7Cups Guide Loyal Friend Tick Tock Fellow Friend Five Steps Hang 10
Questions Answered
I feel like life is pointless. How can I find meaning in my life?
June 29th, 2017 6:41pm Why do I always think everything I do is wrong?
June 29th, 2017 6:39pm Can you be thin and have a binge eating disorder?
June 30th, 2017 5:55am what are some good and healthy distractions from my anxiety when it gets really bad?
June 30th, 2017 6:02am How do I come out as nonbinary?
June 30th, 2017 5:29am why does cutting make me feel better but then bad afterwards?
June 30th, 2017 5:45am I broke up with him even though I do love him and he loves me. I had to! How can I move on from someone I can't find a reason to hate?
June 30th, 2017 5:58am My long-term boyfriend told me that my mental health has affected him and he just wants to be friends as though nothing more ever happened. This really hurts me. What should I do?
June 30th, 2017 5:54am Am I allowed to start being upset and getting help for emotional abuse 3 years after it happened?
June 30th, 2017 6:04pm How do you tell your friend that you disagree with them without hurting their feelings?
June 29th, 2017 6:42pm