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starryRiver83 |
Listener - Scholar 6

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5.0 star rating


Number of Ratings: 82
Number of Reviews: 17
Listens to Over 18
Languages English, German
Listener Since Dec 7, 2014
Last Active over 6 months ago
Gender Female
Progress Path Step 561
Cheers 46,408
People Helped 194
Chats 842
Group Support Chats 45
Listener Group Chats 6
Forum Posts 187
Forum Upvotes 120
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Feedback & Reviews
Excellent listener, helped work though problems I was dealing with, exactly what I needed.
Wonderful, carrying person.
Very friendly
Best listener I've come across. So kind and caring and actually listened.
Very understand and helpful. I was about to have a panic attack before I spoke with her but she helped me work through a lot of feelings.
She really seemed to understand what I was saying. She helped me to stop worrying and provided me with some good tips. Thank you! :)
Very helpfull talk , great advice
You really helped me out a lot in such short period of time ... thanks a bunch !
Really loved how this listener held the focus of the conversation, by re-phrasing what I was feeling and making a kind of resume of it, it helped me get a better understanding emotionally about how I was feeling and what I was struggling with. Really appreciated that, also liked that there also were some practical suggestions on how to work through this! Great job! :)
Understanding and gets what I am going through and provided great feedback to my messages that helped me clarify some of the things in my mind
She is such a lovely person and is so kind and understanding already!
The best listener.. so kind, so helpful, really care, willing to walk together and trying her best to help me.. so lucky to found her here
So lovely, so real and honest, no pretence, just true.
It took a while for her to get back to me, but she was super nice and listened very well!
thank u so much... i did good
Badges & Awards
Listening Ear Long Ears Magnet PenPal Jester of Smiles Clerk of Bear Hugs Piper of Dedication Anxiety Depression Eating Disorders Managing Emotions Panic Attacks Surviving Breakups Traumatic Experiences Crisis Intervention Listener Oath Work Related Stress Self Harm Sexual Abuse Alcohol & Drug Abuse Family Support Cultural Diversity Verified Listener Bullying Chronic Pain Psychological First Aid Family Stress Sleeping Well Graduate Master Love Bug Refresher Voice Talker Ray of Hope College Guide Loneliness Guide Test Anxiety Exercise Motivation ACT Therapy Affirmative Reflection Chat & Text Listening Ace Active Listening Startup Support Perinatal Schizophrenia Social Anxiety Surviving Domestic Assault 2nd Birthday Party Sparkler Loyal Friend Tick Tock Fellow Friend Steadfast Soul I Reconnection Hero I First Chat Five Steps Hang 10 Open Door
Questions Answered
How do I stop thinking about all the dark thoughts and become happier?
February 2nd, 2015 12:05am
How do you go about living with regrets?
March 14th, 2015 6:47pm
When does depression go away?
March 1st, 2015 5:03pm
How can I manage looking for a new job while busy with my current one?
December 28th, 2014 12:36pm
How do I negotiate salary?
December 28th, 2014 4:33pm
Am I a bad employee if I skip work because of work stress?
January 3rd, 2017 1:04pm
How can I tell my boss how stressed I am without it sounding like I'm incapable of doing my job?
December 28th, 2014 10:08pm
How do you stop a stressful job from taking over your mind outside of working hours?
January 7th, 2015 2:50pm
How do people manage to juggle their work life and maintain a happy social life?
December 28th, 2014 4:32pm
Sometimes it feels like I work so much that I don't make any time for me, what can I do?
June 2nd, 2015 10:53pm
How should I deal with overly competitive co-workers?
December 28th, 2014 10:05pm
Why do I wake up thinking about incomplete work?
June 6th, 2015 5:57pm
How can I help other balance stress at work and stress at home?
February 1st, 2015 9:46pm
How do you leave the stresses of your job at work and not bring them home with you?
March 14th, 2015 6:46pm
How do you manage your work when everything piles on at the same time?
June 29th, 2015 12:51am
How can I find a job with no previous work experience?
June 29th, 2015 12:56am
What are some strategies I can use to become less stressed and more pumped up/excited before I leave for work?
January 30th, 2015 9:25am
If I'm being bullied is it better to pretend I am not affected by it or show to the bully that it's upsetting me?
February 17th, 2015 11:39pm
How do I stop thinking about the names I get called?
February 16th, 2015 10:06pm
Who should I tell that I am being bullied?
February 16th, 2015 10:17pm
How do I maintain a strong sense of self-confidence after being bullied?
January 16th, 2015 1:33am
Why can't I stop the wanting of throwing up my food?
December 26th, 2014 12:46am
How can I give up control of my eating disorder without moving on to another unhealthy coping skill?
February 17th, 2015 10:08pm
Is it normal to count calories?
March 14th, 2015 6:25pm
Why don't people understand that you don't have to be skinny to have an eating disorder?
January 3rd, 2017 1:01pm
Is there ever going to be a time where I eat normally again without having the binge-purge mindset?
March 14th, 2015 6:36pm
Why is being too thin a bad thing?
March 14th, 2015 6:51pm
How long does a panic attack last?
March 14th, 2015 6:43pm
Why do I feel like I'm there but I'm not there when I get a Panic Attack? Is that normal?
February 16th, 2015 10:11pm
How do I know if I'm having a panic attack ?
February 16th, 2015 10:01pm
What are some good techniques to try to stop a panic attack before it happens?
January 3rd, 2017 1:09pm
What's the difference between anxiety and worrying?
December 24th, 2014 8:11pm
Why my body starts shivering and mind becomes upset when I face the audience?
February 16th, 2015 10:13pm
Are there any exercises or things I can do to calm my anxiety?
March 14th, 2015 6:42pm
What can I do to stop overthinking and analyzing everything?
February 15th, 2015 9:33pm
Does anxiety bring depression too?
February 17th, 2015 11:30pm
If my partner is out of the closet and I'm not out yet, will this cause a lot of issues in our relationship?
February 20th, 2015 11:15pm
How do I deal with bullies at school or confrontations in public/online?
February 16th, 2015 9:59pm
What can I say to people that tell me that my sexuality can be "cured" or fixed?
February 16th, 2015 9:41pm
Are people born gay?
February 15th, 2015 9:27pm
How can we get support people who self-harm and don't want to quit?
May 20th, 2015 9:17am
What to do when coping skills stop you from harming, but mean you're still feeling really distressed?
February 18th, 2015 12:13am
What would be a better, non-harmful, alternative to self-harm?
March 15th, 2015 11:42am
What is the best way to cope in a very stressful situation without reverting to self-harm?
February 16th, 2015 9:38pm
Why do I feel like I need to hurt myself in order to feel better?
February 16th, 2015 9:45pm
How can I stop Self Harm if its the only thing that's keeping me from my anxiety?
May 20th, 2015 9:31am
My daughter told me she self-harms but I don't understand, what does it feel like to do something like this to cope?
May 20th, 2015 9:25am
What can i do instead of hurting myself?
June 3rd, 2015 10:09am
Why do I always resort to this form of coping first instead of a more healthy approach?
March 15th, 2015 11:36am
Why can't I convince myself that self harm alternatives may work?
January 16th, 2015 1:40am
Why do I have to pretend that everything is okay?
February 17th, 2015 11:28pm
Do the thoughts of self harming ever go away, even if you've officially stopped?
June 23rd, 2015 8:43am
why can't I just walk away from sef-harming when I know it's bad for me?
June 23rd, 2015 8:46am
What do I do if my ex keeps contacting me?
June 3rd, 2015 10:04am
Why are breakups easier for guys than women?
December 26th, 2014 12:42am
Why are breakups so hard to get over?
December 26th, 2014 12:44am
Why do I always feel useless and unloved after a breakup?
February 20th, 2015 11:21pm
Why do I always feel so pressured by my parents?
March 14th, 2015 6:16pm
How can I stop my parents from expecting me to follow their career advice rather than what I want to do?
February 15th, 2015 9:34pm
How do I tell my family that they aren't helping, rather, hurting me in my recovery
February 17th, 2015 10:03pm
How do I cope when my Mum and my Sister both talk to me about each other?
February 16th, 2015 10:02pm
How do I maintain healthy boundaries if my parents are fighting with each other?
June 2nd, 2015 10:43pm
How can I help a family member experiencing depression?
June 2nd, 2015 10:48pm
How can I give myself grace for the mistakes I have made and remain positive, rather than get depressed, angry, and anxious?
February 17th, 2015 11:36pm
How am I going to get everything I need to get done today?
June 23rd, 2015 8:41am
How can I keep everything from piling up?
February 16th, 2015 10:08pm
At what point in studying should I give up for the night?
February 22nd, 2015 11:57pm