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sunnyWheel2300
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Addiction Support / by sunnyWheel2300
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 March 12th, 2020
...See more Hello community. I am really struggling with my fiance. He used to watch porn but has replaced it with lingerie models, young girls doing yoga on YouTube, etc. A handful of times, he has taken screenshots of young girls out in public. The absolute worst part is that he has an attraction to my daughter who is 18. For almost 2 years, he viewed pictures of her through through his gallery on his phone and texts. Through screenshots, I can see that he zooms up on her private body parts. I have confronted him on this but he denies it up and down. He usually tries to change the subject and tell me my faults of being messy and always being late, etc. Also, he says I have to learn to forgive and says I need to move forward or that he grew up with that or men are prewired to look or I'm extra sensitive to it since I was sexually abused. It's confusing because he treats me well and my daughter well. He doesn't make her feel uncomfortable but I am beside myself because I know what is going through his head. The porn was hard enough to deal witj but the attraction to my daughter is beyond words. Any guidance?
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