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...See more I don't know what to do at this moment. My friend and I had a fight last night, it was a heated argument. I just wanted her out of my hair, she was a hyprocrite, the one who never ever got in trouble (even if she was in trouble), she never thinks before she says, and I tried to tell her about it one day. Unfortunately though, I knew the way I said it was not right. I accused her of things and, in the end she just was begging for forgiveness (this was not the heated argument). My best friend also was getting annoyed with her a lot, and we tried to talk to her about it, it ended up with her not doing anything about her attitude. Anyways, one day my best friend was trying to be nice and corrected the girls friend. Lets just say at that moment I had the last straw because of the reaction she had. The girl had called my best friend some mean things immaturely and her friend was defending her like if she had done nothing wrong. Though my best friend just corrected her friend politely. Sounds stupid I know. Anyways, I jumped in, and released all the anger I've been bottling up for months. It ended up with her friend defending her saying that it was a joke. I don't know what to think about it anymore, as I know that the girl is probably going to tell all her friends about what happened. (Shes suicidal and has been emotionally abused, though she doesn't do anything about it after a lot of her friends told her advice) And then at that moment I thought to myself. "So you're saying that calling someone mean and being mean yourself is okay? You're going through something in real life, you don't think thats a joke. So why are you saying that it is?" Lets just say I really was angry, but also very regretful about trying to be the hero in this situation. Because they acted like they did nothing wrong whatsoever. And it just bothers me so much thinking that shes going to tell around 32+ people about what happened (in a group chat) . Its foolish being paranoid like this- I know. though I'm just afraid. I've been around her possee of friends to, and they're the kind who likes to send hate to whoever hurt there queen, (in this case, the girl is the queen). My best friend ressured me telling me that they aren't worth my time, though it hurts to know that people will probably through shade because of something I've said, as Its difficult to take that in. Not to mention that I've seen them all talk, and whenever their queen (the girl) is sad, they're all like "oh my god are you okay, im sorry it will be okay!!" but when its with someone else, its like they don't even care about their situation, (acting like the girl is the only one in the world going through something, but in reality thats not even accurate) I guess i've been going into the wrong groups, but I don't know how to get it out of my head. I provoked the past and yelled at her, I don't know what to do anymore, so what I do is run away from the problem. I want to take initiative on this when the situation cools down and fix what I did wrong in a calming mannerr, though I know were both wrong; and I've had my last straw with her. It was wrong of me to provoke the past instead of solving problems the right away, it was wrong of her to give an excuse to being mean, it was wrong of me to try and jump into the conversation, and it was wrong of her to react to it like she didn't do anything wrong (maybe she didn't know, but she always gives excuses to when she does something wrong). It was also wrong of me to lash out at her, but it was wrong of her to take a defensive approach to just a spelling correction. Advice please...

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