Bio
Hi,
I really like logic and philosophy. I like trying different strategies, but I don't believe there is an ideal strategy for me. I would love to talk to you about what IS working for you, I think about how this site is laid out a lot. I believe as a listener it is my job to first listen, but if you ask for advice I need to point you to the classes on here. I believe those classes offer good advice, but I haven't had enough training to gently convince you of that. I may seem unsympathetic because:
I am a 57 years old happily married man. I like to chat, but I seem to do better with members who are over 25. I think before I was 25 I didn't realize how things can change. When presented with the horns of a dilemma I prefer to look for a way to jump between them. If you are viewing the world in black and white terms my questions may seem callous, annoying, or naive. If that is how I seem to you, please let me know. I am listening to make myself a better person.
So caveat emptor, but I really appreciate you giving me a try. Even if I don't help you, please know that you have helped me to learn to be a better listener. Any advice you give me will be greatly appreciated 🤗
If we talk multiple times I'm probably going to refer you to:
https://www.smashwords.com/books/view/611898
the philosophy of why 7 cups seems to work.