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Number of ratings146 Number of reviews41 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceApr 6, 2017 Last activein last month GenderFemale PathStep 505 People helped228 Chats341 Group support chats13 Listener group chats8 Forum posts103 Forum upvotes187
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thank you for being brave enough to come on here and look for help. you've come this far and i know you can get through this to go even further!

hello! my name is victoria. i first joined 7cups as a listener 6 years ago — since then, i've graduated high school, moved continents alone, and am currently in my 4th year studying psychology in university. i am so excited to rejoin this community and am always more than happy to lend a listening ear! in the past, i have struggled with depression and anxiety, but am proud to say that things have truly gotten so much better and everything was worth it. i hope to help you on your journey to better days too :)

i appreciate you stopping by. if there's anything you need to get off your chest, please don't hesitate to send a message, and i'll get back to you as soon as i can <3

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Recent forum posts
forum discussion: eating disorders & mental health (day 4)
Eating Disorder Support / by viictoriia
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September 8th, 2017
...See more hello! you guessed it, i'm back again with yet another question for you guys c: thank you all for being so participative in my previous post, i really do appreciate it! you can check out the post emily made yesterday here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/EatingDisordersSupportCommunity_54/ForumDiscussions_1336/MentalHealthandEatingDisordersday3_82580/] where we talked about eating disorder patterns (: please remember to be respectful and supportive towards every participant. if you are in need of more personalized support or you feel triggered at any point during the discussion then please reach out to one of our wonderful listeners here: 7cups.com/BrowseListeners/ think about this today: what can be some causes of eating disorders? taglist: @Juniter @sujaypai @dancingRainbow45 @Impartialplane @Allycata @TheAsh @Laraland @dancingRainbow45@ErwineRommel @brightLight35 @Lavenderlove96 @cyanPlatypus6370 @Lavenderlove96 @Pizzare @BabyDragon1 @anomalia @hysterria @charli @sammie1997 @summertimesamness @euphonic @isha @pizzare @warriordreams @violinistmads @pioneeringdrum304 @bubblysun95 (you can sign up for/be removed from the taglist here [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSf_mTpXMolkEYbsuP6i8ddPo6iObOs-qQB_6Oxl-4RlRsLmSQ/viewform]!) as always my pms are open to anyone and everyone <3 have a great week ahead guys!
forum discussion: eating disorders & mental health (day 2)
Eating Disorder Support / by viictoriia
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September 8th, 2017
...See more hey everyone, welcome to another forum discussion that i will be co-hosting with @emily619! you can check out the post she made yesterday here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/EatingDisordersSupportCommunity_54/ForumDiscussions_1336/EatingDisordersandMentalHealthday1_82140/?notifyID=183342999] where we started out with a really nice icebreaker (: please remember to be respectful and supportive towards every participant. if you are in need of more personalized support or you feel triggered at any point during the discussion then please reach out to one of our wonderful listeners here: 7cups.com/BrowseListeners/ here's my question for all of you today: if you are told to express your current emotion in one word, what word will it be? and why? taglist: @Juniter @sujaypai @dancingRainbow45 @Impartialplane @Allycata @TheAsh @Laraland @dancingRainbow45@ErwineRommel @brightLight35 @Lavenderlove96 @cyanPlatypus6370 @Lavenderlove96 @Pizzare @BabyDragon1 @anomalia @hysterria @charli @sammie1997 @summertimesamness @euphonic @isha @pizzare @warriordreams @violinistmads @pioneeringdrum304 @bubblysun95 (you can sign up for/be removed from the taglist here [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSf_mTpXMolkEYbsuP6i8ddPo6iObOs-qQB_6Oxl-4RlRsLmSQ/viewform]!)
forum discussion: understanding anorexia (day 12!!)
Eating Disorder Support / by viictoriia
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August 16th, 2017
...See more guys! today is day 12 of our forum discussion on anorexia, which just so happens to be the end of the discussion! i'm sad that we've reached the end point but i have been so, so uplifted by all of your responses over the past few days and i'm so glad i had the opportunity to cohost this discussion and interact with all of you <3 just because this discussion has ended doesn't mean i'm no longer here for you! my pms are and always will be to anyone and everyone, and i only hope that this discussion has helped or inspired you guys in some way. this topic is sensitive and can be triggering to some audiences, if in any case you feel triggered, please feel free to leave this forum discussion and connect to a listener. please remember to be respectful and supportive toward every participant. if you are in need of more personalized support then please reach out to one of our wonderful listeners here: 7cups.com/BrowseListeners/ [http://7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] here it is, the final question: before we end, do you have any questions you would like to ask or anything you would like to share with us? yes, i am aware that this does not relate much to the topic of anorexia, but i think it's a nice way to end this discussion (: special thanks to @emily619 for being a lovely cohost and helping me out, and of course to all of you who have participated in this discussion! (pssst click here [https://goo.gl/images/wXAaGx] for a lil surprise) taglist: @Laraland @dancingRainbow45@ErwineRommel @brightLight35 @Lavenderlove96 @cyanPlatypus6370 @Lavenderlove96 @Pizzare @BabyDragon1 @anomalia @hysterria @charli @sammie1997 @summertimesamness @euphonic @isha @pizzare
forum discussion: understanding anorexia (day 10)
Eating Disorder Support / by viictoriia
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August 12th, 2017
...See more hello! i apologize for not being as active with these posts/replies lately as i am on vacation c: buuut i really hope you guys have been doing well and i'm glad to be back with a continuation of the forum discussion we've been having about anorexia! this topic is sensitive and can be triggering to some audiences, if in any case you feel triggered, please feel free to leave this forum discussion and connect to a listener. please remember to be respectful and supportive toward every participant. if you are in need of more personalized support then please reach out to one of our wonderful listeners here: 7cups.com/BrowseListeners/ [http://7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] here's what i have for you today: are you aware of any support groups or resources in your country that might help a person overcome anorexia? can you think of any tips for recovery? oooh, this is a good question and i think this thread will be a great place for everyone to pitch in and help out each other (: as always feel free to pm me if you ever need someone to talk to! taglist: @Laraland @dancingRainbow45@ErwineRommel @brightLight35 @Lavenderlove96 @cyanPlatypus6370 @Lavenderlove96 @Pizzare @BabyDragon1 @anomalia @hysterria @charli @sammie1997 @summertimesamness @euphonic @isha @pizzare
forum discussion: understanding anorexia (day 8)
Eating Disorder Support / by viictoriia
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August 10th, 2017
...See more hey guys, i hope all of you have had a good week c: i'm here with a continuation of the forum discussion we've been having about anorexia! this topic is sensitive and can be triggering to some audiences, if in any case you feel triggered, please feel free to leave this forum discussion and connect to a listener. please remember to be respectful and supportive toward every participant. if you are in need of more personalized support then please reach out to one of our wonderful listeners here: 7cups.com/BrowseListeners/ [http://7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] here's what i have for you today: people dealing with anorexia dont have a healthy relationship with food. their eating patterns may also differ from what an average person might consume. can you think of any challenges they might face in an event/ social setting/ gathering? taglist (click here [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSf_mTpXMolkEYbsuP6i8ddPo6iObOs-qQB_6Oxl-4RlRsLmSQ/viewform] to be added to it/removed): @Juniter @sujaypai @dancingRainbow45 @Impartialplane @Allycata @TheAsh @Laraland @dancingRainbow45@ErwineRommel @brightLight35 @Lavenderlove96 @cyanPlatypus6370 @Lavenderlove96 @Pizzare @BabyDragon1 @anomalia @hysterria @charli @sammie1997 @summertimesamness @euphonic @isha @pizzare
forum discussion: understanding anorexia (day 6)
Eating Disorder Support / by viictoriia
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August 5th, 2017
...See more hello! i hope everyone's been having a good day and that all of you are doing well. i'm here with a continuation of the forum discussion we've been having about anorexia! this topic is sensitive and can be triggering to some audiences, if in any case you feel triggered, please feel free to leave this forum discussion and connect to a listener. please remember to be respectful and supportive toward every participant. if you are in need of more personalized support then please reach out to one of our wonderful listeners here: 7cups.com/BrowseListeners/ [http://7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] you can check out the post emily made yesterday here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/EatingDisordersSupportCommunity_54/ForumDiscussions_1336/UnderstandingAnorexiaDay5_80151/] where we discussed about factors that may influence the probability of someone developing anorexia! this is today's question: can you think of any myths or misconceptions the society/media might have regarding anorexia? if so, what are those myths/misconceptions? i think this question is very, very interesting and i'm excited to see all of your replies & thoughts! once again, thank you to those who have been consistently responding to these posts! emily and i appreciate it very much and we really hope these are of help (: if you have any suggestions or comments, feel free to pm me or fill out this form [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSchTJigM0QnLli8WegYI4f0L3hPfx4WvhakSBBx8G_KO8SRyw/viewform]! taglist (click here [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSf_mTpXMolkEYbsuP6i8ddPo6iObOs-qQB_6Oxl-4RlRsLmSQ/viewform] to be added to it/removed): @Juniter @sujaypai @dancingRainbow45 @Impartialplane @Allycata @TheAsh @Laraland @dancingRainbow45@ErwineRommel @brightLight35 @Lavenderlove96 @cyanPlatypus6370 @Lavenderlove96 @Pizzare @BabyDragon1 @anomalia @hysterria @charli @sammie1997 @summertimesamness @euphonic @isha @pizzare
forum discussion: understanding anorexia (day 4)
Eating Disorder Support / by viictoriia
Last post
August 3rd, 2017
...See more hello everyone! i'm back again with another question. in case you've just joined in (welcome, by the way), this post is part of a forum discussion that will last for about a week. this topic is sensitive and can be triggering to some audiences, if in any case you feel triggered, please feel free to leave this forum discussion and connect to a listener. please remember to be respectful and supportive toward every participant. if you are in need of more personalized support then please reach out to one of our wonderful listeners here: 7cups.com/BrowseListeners/ [http://7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] you can check out the post emily made yesterday here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/EatingDisordersSupportCommunity_54/ForumDiscussions_1336/ForumDiscussionUnderstandingAnorexiaDay3freeglitter_79842/] where we discussed what anorexia is and how it's set apart from other disorders! here's the question for today: can you think of any symptoms/warning signs of Anorexia? have you or anyone you know experienced these? (psst, thank you to those who have been consistently responding to these posts! emily and i appreciate it very much and we really hope these are of help (: if you have any suggestions or comments, feel free to pm me or fill out this form [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSchTJigM0QnLli8WegYI4f0L3hPfx4WvhakSBBx8G_KO8SRyw/viewform]!) taglist: @Juniter @sujaypai @dancingRainbow45 @Impartialplane @Allycata @TheAsh @Laraland @dancingRainbow45@ErwineRommel @brightLight35 @Lavenderlove96 @cyanPlatypus6370 @Lavenderlove96 @Pizzare @BabyDragon1 @anomalia @hysterria @charli @sammie1997 @summertimesamness @euphonic click here [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSf_mTpXMolkEYbsuP6i8ddPo6iObOs-qQB_6Oxl-4RlRsLmSQ/viewform] to be removed/added to the taglist!
forum discussion: understanding anorexia (day 2)
Eating Disorder Support / by viictoriia
Last post
August 15th, 2017
...See more hey, how's everyone doing today? this is a follow up to the thread emily posted yesterday [https://www.7cups.com/forum/EatingDisordersSupportCommunity_54/AnorexiaNervosaSupport_233/ForumDiscussionUnderstandingAnorexiaDay1_79601/] and part of a forum session that will last for about a week. this topic is sensitive and can be triggering to some audiences, if in any case you feel triggered, please feel free to leave this forum discussion and connect to a listener. please remember to be respectful and supportive toward every participant. if you are in need of more personalized support then please reach out to one of our wonderful listeners here: 7cups.com/BrowseListeners/ [http://7cups.com/BrowseListeners/] today's question is – what is an eating disorder according to your own understanding? taglist:@Juniter @sujaypai @dancingRainbow45 @Impartialplane @Allycata @TheAsh @Laraland @dancingRainbow45@ErwineRommel @brightLight35 @Lavenderlove96 @cyanPlatypus6370 @Lavenderlove96 @Pizzare @BabyDragon1 click here [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSf_mTpXMolkEYbsuP6i8ddPo6iObOs-qQB_6Oxl-4RlRsLmSQ/viewform] to be removed/added to the taglist!
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