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Bullying
Relationship Stress / by vintageParis
Last post
 March 29th, 2021
...See more I don't know if this is going to be short or long, but it's about my best friend. In 2018 and 2019, and in the beginning of 2020, I was bullied by a gang. To be honest, it was one person who started this and everybody said a word or two to take part in it. This person was a boy named Pp (not the real name). I had a moustache which I think every girl does lol. P.S. I'm a girl too. He ran around telling this to everyone and started making fun of them. He didn't miss a chance to tell me I look like a boy, or thag I'm ugly, have acne, frizzy hair, weird laugh. Whatever you can think of. Pp went on to call me trangender and gay (which I am not, but I don't know why he thinks it's an insult...it's not). I'm writing all of this because all those things hurt me like crazy and the thing I'm about to say is somehow related. There's this girl in my class she used to be friends with Pp. Her name is izzy. She was also bullied by Pp back then but didn't say much. Now coming back to me, izzy is my best friend. Yes, the girl i was talking about. She told me she hated Pp, but she's back to talking with him. I just asked myself...would I have talken to someone who would've bullied my best friend? No. So why should I tolerate a behaviour I won't ever exhibit? izzy also told me twice or thrice to forgive him and that he may not have 'intended' to do so, but we all know how bullies are. And her saying this to me feels like she's disregarding my feelings. Not too long ago, I decided to send a final text to Pp, to get everything off my chest. So I did. It wasn't even an angry message, it was so peaceful yet I put my point, forgived him and told him the effect of his actions because doing so made me feel better, if not him. But Pp's mom read my text and scolded him after knowing what he did. and you know what? izzy texted me saying I should not have texted him at that time because he has a lot of problems going on in his life and his mom shouldn't have read it. Who is she to tell me what to do? And why should I care about the consequences of HIS actions? And why on earth is she taking his side? Anyways, turns out that izzy and Pp might have feelings for each other, Pp even told one of my friends from our group so. She didn't tell me because she didn't want to "hurt me". As if hiding something and disregarding my feelings doesn't hurt at all. Really. So I think she might have been a part of the bullying, that is why she seems so ignorant to it. Also, she doesn't care about me. Anyways I've actually ended the friendship but I just wanted to write this out somewhere and get a little opinions on my story. P.S. sorry if there's a grammatical or spelling error, i typed it out real fast.
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