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Number of ratings237 Number of reviews92 Listens toTeens & Over 18 LanguagesFrench Listener sinceOct 9, 2015 Last activein last week GenderNon-Binary PathStep 1,290 People helped370 Chats2,644 Group support chats3,266 Listener group chats5,186 Forum posts1,895 Forum upvotes3,836
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English will follow 


Bonjour! Je suis patate! Je suis un écoutant "vérifié" et je suis ici pour vous apporter écoute, support et réconfort dans les sujets suivants:

- Anxiété, stress, attaques de panique
- Autisme et TSA
- Automutilation 
- Vivre avec un handicap physique
- problèmes de santé physique
- maladies chroniques et/ou dégénératives
- Intimidation, taxage, discrimination
- Diversité culturelle
- LGBTQA+
- Gestion des émotions
- Gestion du poids, adopter un mode de vie sain. (Je prône l'alimentation intuitive, pas les diètes)
- Victimes d'abus, Victimes de crimes
- Expérience traumatiques, État/Trouble de Stress Post-Traumatique (ESPT/TSPT)
- Travail autonome, lancement d'une entreprise
- Troubles du comportement alimentaire
- Stress financier
- Vie étudiante

Je NE prend PAS les clavardages sur les sujets suivants:
- Relations
- Ruptures amoureuses
- Santé sexuelle
- Problèmes "de garçon/d'homme ou de fille/femme"

J'accepte les nouveaux membres, adolescents et adultes.

Du au nombre de chats inappropriés, les requêtes hors-ligne sans sujet spécifiés ne seront pas répondu.


Mentorat

J'accepte les nouveaux mentorés. Si tu es un.e écoutant.e intéressé.e à améliorer tes compétences en écoute active, apprendre à mieux répondre aux besoin des membres ou animer des discussions de groupe, contacte moi.
Que tu sois nouveau ou perdu sur le site, que tu ais besoin d'aide pour mieux répondre aux besoins des membres, que tu ais besoin de support durant un chat plus difficile ou après un mauvais chat, que tu veules t'impliquer dans des projets ou trouver le rôle qui te convient le mieux, ou simplement que tu veules animer des discussion de groupe ou t'améliorer comme un écoutant, Je peux t'aider!  
Spécifiques projets pour lesquels j'offre un plus grand accompagnement car je suis engagé dans les rôles: 
*Group Support Mentor* (Support Team Leader for Healthy Living)



Hello ! I'm Patate and I'm a verified listener. I am here to listen, support and comfort you in the following subjects: Anxiety, stress, panic attacks - Autism and ASD - Self-harm - Living with a physical disability - physical health problems - chronic pain - chronic and/or degenerative diseases - Intimidation, bullying, discrimination, stigmatisation - Cultural diversity - LGBTQA+ - Managing emotions - Weight management, adopt a healthy lifestyle. (I promote intuitive eating, not diets) - Victims of Abuse, Victims of Crime - Traumatic experience, Post-Traumatic Stress State (PTSD) - Self-employment, starting a business - Eating disorders - Financial stress - Student life. 

I DO NOT accept chats on the following topics: - Relationships - breakups and divorces - Sexual health - "Boy/man" or "girl/woman" issues.

I currently accept new members, teens and adults.
Take note that English is limited and NOT my first language. If you prefer someone fluent, you may want to check for a different listener.
Due to the number of inappropriate chats, offline requests with no subject specified will not be answered.

Mentoring:

I accept new mentees. If you are a listener interested in improving your active listening skills, learning how to better respond to members' needs or facilitating group discussions, contact me. Whether you're new to the site or lost, need help to better meet member needs, need support during or after a bad chat, want to get involved in projects or find the role that suits you best, or simply want to lead group discussions, I can help you! 

Healthy Living Team

Are you a member or listener interested in leading healthy living discussions?!  
The healthy living team is recruiting new discussion leaders to help members to develop good healthy habits, get support and motivation, and discuss topics in relation to their health. We have a lot of approved discussions available for you to lead! 
If you are interested, message me in English or French and specify its about HL team or +Click here for more information



Twin
My listener twins are @Jenna , @PoliteOcean and @HopieRemi <3



Recent forum posts
AMA - Group Support Program - May 2nd [Adults]
Group Leadership & Development / by vivelespatates
Last post
April 30th, 2023
...See more Join me (vivelespatates) in the 7cups academy room for an "AMA" (acronym for "Ask Me Anything") about the Group Support Program. It is an opportunity for you to learn about the program and ask your questions. Who: Adults members and listeners Where: In the 7 Cups Academy room (open 5 min before the session) When: Tuesday, May 2nd at 6 pm (eastern time Canada/USA) check your time conversion here [https://rarelycharlie.github.io/7cupstime]. What: AMA about Group Support Support I hope see you there! Save in your calendar [https://tockify.com/e/7cups/detail/8452/1683064800000]
Spring is coming! Join us in the Healthy Living room on 20 march at 5 pm !
Healthy Living / by vivelespatates
Last post
March 21st, 2023
...See more Come celebrate with us the arrival of spring! Healthy Living rooms will be open for a special event to celebrate the best season ever! Both, teens and adults rooms will be open so everyone can join and participate! You can start to prepare yourself and thinking of anecdote or something you love about spring that you would like share with community! (Healthy) Cookies will be served as well !
Healthy Living Discussion Schedule - August 22 to 28
Healthy Living / by vivelespatates
Last post
August 23rd, 2022
...See more Adults Vivelespatates Wednesday 24 Aug 5:00 pm Back To School Healthy Preparation SpritelyStrawfruit Friday 26 Aug 6:00 am Guess the veggie Trivia azuladragon34 Friday 26 Aug 1:00 pm Managing PTSD through Healthy Living WingedSoul Saturday 27 Aug 7:00 pm (topic to be determined) SirenOfSerenity Sunday 28 Aug 6:00 pm Healthy Ways To Be More Productive Teens Vivelespatates Wednesday 24 Aug 5:00 pm Back To School Healthy Preparation In the
Healthy Living Discussion Schedule - August 15th to 21st
Healthy Living / by vivelespatates
Last post
August 19th, 2022
...See more ADULTS Join @Vivelespatates on Wednesday, 17 Aug @ 5 pm for a discussion on 10 Tricks for Getting Healthy Join @azuladragon34 on Friday, 19 Aug @ 1 pm for a discussion on FALL DISCUSSION: Making this your most productive season Join @SirenOfSerenity on Sunday, 21 Aug @ 6 pm for a discussion on Veganism TEENS Join @Vivelespatates on Wednesday, 17 Aug @ 5 pm for a discussion on 10 Tricks for Getting Healthy In the Healthy Living room (room open 5-10min before discussion) All times are in Eastern Time (Canada/USA) [Vote for my next topics by clicking here [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfPy5X5fzH6hpXDwyJuDDgYiDH5nJPXCC8XnlA_hwzFBgzWuw/viewform]] Healthy Living Team is recruiting new discussion leaders. Click here for more information [https://www.7cups.com/forum/HealthyLiving_141/HealthyLivingAnnouncements_828/LovebeingaleaderindiscussionsHealthyLivingteamrecruit_280892/] If you want to save the calendar to access easily from your google calendar/agenda, here are links: [Adult Healthy Living Schedule [https://calendar.google.com/calendar/u/0?cid=aW9oMnVpdmJiNDZldmppdWwxbDlmbm9wZm9AZ3JvdXAuY2FsZW5kYXIuZ29vZ2xlLmNvbQ]] [Teen Healthy Living Schedule [https://calendar.google.com/calendar/u/0?cid=Nmk2MHJtMWdxbjE2dTJoZjg5OWpqNnJuMGdAZ3JvdXAuY2FsZW5kYXIuZ29vZ2xlLmNvbQ]]
Healthy Living Discussion Schedule - August 8th to 14th
Healthy Living / by vivelespatates
Last post
August 7th, 2022
...See more Adult sessions Join @Vivelespatates on Wednesday, 10 Aug at 5 pm for a discussion on 7 Inspiring Reasons to Get Moving (voted by members) Join @azuladragon34 on Friday, 12 Aug at 1 pm for a discussion on Let's Talk Stereotypes Join @WingedSoul on Saturday, 13 Aug at 7 pm for a discussion on Benefits of Mindfulness on Your Health Join @SirenOfSerenity on Sunday, 14 Aug at 6 pm for a discussion on Emotional Detoxification Teen sessions Join @Vivelespatates on Monday, 8 Aug at 5 pm for a discussion on 7 Inspiring Reasons to Get Moving In the Healthy Living room (room open 5-10 min before discussions) All times are in Eastern Time (Canada/USA) [Vote for my next topics by clicking here [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfPy5X5fzH6hpXDwyJuDDgYiDH5nJPXCC8XnlA_hwzFBgzWuw/viewform]] Healthy Living Team is recruiting new discussion leaders. Click here for more information [https://www.7cups.com/forum/HealthyLiving_141/HealthyLivingAnnouncements_828/LovebeingaleaderindiscussionsHealthyLivingteamrecruit_280892/]
Healthy Living Discussions - week of August 1st to 7th
Healthy Living / by vivelespatates
Last post
August 2nd, 2022
...See more Adults Join @vivelespatates on Tuesday, 2 August @ 8pm for a discussion on Getting Started (voted by members) Join @vivelespatates on Thursday, 4 August @ 8pm for a discussion on Healthy Living with Disabilities Join @WingedSoul on Saturday, 6 August @ 7pm for a discussion on Benefits of mindfulness on your health. Teens Join @vivelespatates on Monday, 1st August @ 8pm for a quizz on Getting Started Join @vivelespatates on Wednesday, 3 August @ 8pm for a discussion on Healthy Living with Disabilities In the Healthy Living room (room open 5-10min before discussions) continue to vote for my next discussion topics here: [vote the topic [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfPy5X5fzH6hpXDwyJuDDgYiDH5nJPXCC8XnlA_hwzFBgzWuw/viewform]]
Healthy Living Discussion Schedule - July 25 to 31
Healthy Living / by vivelespatates
Last post
July 25th, 2022
...See more adults Join @vivelespatates on Tuesday, 26 July @ 8pm for a quizz on Are you Healthy? (voted by members) Join @vivelespatates on Thursday, 28 July @ 8pm for a discussion on Healthy ways to calm your anxiety. (voted by members) Join @WingedSoul on Saturday, 6 August @ 7pm for a discussion on Benefits of mindfulness on your health. Teens Join @vivelespatates on Monday, 25 July @ 8pm for a quizz on Are you Healthy? (voted by members) Join @vivelespatates on Wednesday, 27 July @ 8pm for a discussion on Healthy ways to calm your anxiety. (voted by members) In the Healthy Living room (room open 5-10min before discussions) continue to vote for my next discussion topics here: [vote the topic [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfPy5X5fzH6hpXDwyJuDDgYiDH5nJPXCC8XnlA_hwzFBgzWuw/viewform]]
Healthy Living Discussion Schedule - July 11 to 17
Healthy Living / by vivelespatates
Last post
July 12th, 2022
...See more ADULTS Tuesday, july 12 @ 9 PM, join @vivelespatates for a discussion on Addictions (voted by members) Thursday, July 14 @ 9 PM, join @vivelespatates for a trivia on Random Facts (voted by members) Friday, July 15 @ 1 PM, join @azuladragon34 for a discussion on Coping with Eating Disorders TEENS Monday, July 11 @ 9 PM, join @vivelespatates for a discussion on Addictions (voted by members) Wednesday, July 13 @ 9 PM, join @vivelespatates for a discussion on Coping with Eating Disorders (voted by members) in the Healthy living room continue to vote for my next discussion topics here: [vote the topic [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSfPy5X5fzH6hpXDwyJuDDgYiDH5nJPXCC8XnlA_hwzFBgzWuw/viewform]]
Feedback & Reviews
They really are very sweet and just someone thats nice to talk through my anxiety and overwhelm
A really amazing listener. They were so kind to me. I really appreciated it. They were patient with me and asked all the right questions. I am grateful for having the chance to talk with them.
Very understanding 😃
Lovely person, although I selected the wrong listener as they do different topics and I’m new here they were very understanding and lovely anyway
A patient and understanding listener. Makes me feel that I’m being understood and cared. Highly recommend.
Gentle and calm
Great listener! Super nice
Amazing mod! One of my favourites!
Very kind, understanding and helpful
They are so good at letting me find the words I need to share supporting me but also letting me discover I can do it on my own too. They are a great combination of teaching me and letting me find answers on my own also. They are perfectly amazingly empathetic , funny and considerate. And always fosters growth in me.
Great listener
Very very understanding and caring
Vive is creative, patient, and helpful. She puts the member first.
i love them really responsive
Kinda, open, and empathetic
I really appreciated that this listener checked on le after two weeks without talking to each other.
I was having a sort of anxiety attack and my listener took the time to listen to me, which helped me calm down.
Super fast replies, helpful, straight to the point
I think this listener was very polite and helpful. I totally recommend this listener to others! :)
Amazing listener, thank you so much
Awesome chat! Vive is amazing~
Really good, very professional and I felt he knew what he was saying. Thanks
Very understanding and compassionate
Patient and wise.
Amazing chat nice person
Good listener. Kind
Bonjour! Merci!
Really helped me when I was having some issues!
The best listener ever ! 💜
Ecoutante d'une grande gentillesse, patience et intelligence émotionnelle. Elle m'a vraiment aidé a m'enlever la pression, tout en validant et affirmant calmement mes besoins. Je suis très reconnaissante pour cette session et je me sens beaucoup plus légère. Merci !!
Vivelespatates is very understanding listener!
Really helpful, Viv made me feel better, they are a great listener and I loved the honesty and kindness they gave me.
I always have great chats with vivelespatates
Les poids ont levé.
Sweeter than molasses
Very active. One of the most quick and active listeners here. Patates is incredible and I felt their presence near me and learnt quite a lot!
Vive helps me with things going on around the site and is super supportive!
Patate has been the most wonderful listener. They helped me feel less lonely and has shown me incredible kindness when they didn't have to. Such a great person.
C’est tres bon, merci
Connais comment aider à les bon mots
Absolutely amazing!
Beaucoup de bienveillance.
Il était gentil et gentil, il était génial! Merci beaucoup.
bon m'a vraiment écouté et ce que j'avais à dire
Very helpful! I really felt listened to, especially since I was just having many bad experiences with listeners! It's a breath of fresh air to have someone like them listen to me!
They are so good! Really understand you and more!
caring professsional listener, great focus in the chat and conversational skills. Vive is amazing!
Vraiment un excellent écouteur qui a des réponses apaisantes!
Très bon écouteur
Le meilleur listener
Thoughtful.
Viv is great
:)
L'écoute et le retour nécessaires, dans une ambiance confortable
merci pour ta presence, ton ecoute et ton support, j'espere parler de nouveau avec toi bientot, tu es genial
toi t'as la patate!
très amical, il sait comment rassuré
The best listener I have connected with. Thank you so much for everything!
merci de ta présence et de ta patience ;)
great
calm et professionnel, il ma vraiment aider a me calmer quand j'etait paniquer
Merci pour ton écoute et ta disponibilité :)
merci de m'avoir écouter
patate était patient, j'avais du mal a m'exprimer et il a prit toute son temps pour me mettre a l'aise, était attentif et ne m'a jamais juger. puis maintenant je me sentir vraiment mieux et j'espere lui reparler bientot
Merci, LW4330
super! thanks
you really helped me a lot. thanks
patate est TROP cool. elle m'a écouté sans me juger et sans me dire ce que je devais faire. elle m'a supporté et approuvé dans mes propres choix. je l'adopte comme listener, elle eset simplement la meilleure!
il est cool, professionnel et compréhensif
patates m'a vraiment aidé à me sentir mieux!
Empathic, and stayed with me the whole time, listened without judgement.
Let me know about the self care guidelines, helpful
il est vraiment sympa. il m'a écouté et compris tout de suite. il est génial. je recommande +++
il est vraiment attentif et attentionné
Merci pour ton temps et ton écoute
patate est un excellent listener!
merci de m'avoir écouter!
on se sens compris et respecté, elle est vraiment génial.
thank you for understanding, not many people can understand me
il est vraiment cool, amical et professionnel. Il a su m'écouter et m'outiller pour que je puisse aller de l'avant. J'espère lui parler de nouveau dans le futur.
Awesome listener!
vraiment top!
c'est un excellent listener
le meilleur listener que j'ai vu sur ce site!
vraiment sympa, sa fais du bien de trouver quelqu'un qui peux me comprendre.
Great listener.
ce fut très agréable de parler avec toi ! et très utile ! merci !
très amical, un excellent listener, il m'a beaucoup aidé
Elle m'écoutait quand j'avais besoin de quelqu'un. C'est un peu effrayant de confié a qui que ce soit, je suis content qu'on a rencontré. Merci.
Il a su me mettre à l'aise et m'a permit d'extérioriser toutes mes émotions sans me juger. Il est vraiment sympa et amical. Je recommande.
je t'adore :D
my favorite listener
Il est vraiment génial !
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