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whymike
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Number of ratings112 Number of reviews31 Listens toOver 18 LanguagesEnglish Listener sinceAug 17, 2015 Last activeover 6 months ago GenderMale PathStep 48 People helped209 Chats2,695 Group support chats881 Listener group chats7 Forum posts40 Forum upvotes59
Bio

Hi I'm Mike, a 40 something guy who is a trained active listener. I've lived all over the world and have had lots of experiences of long distance relationships, marriage, trust issues and dating in general - very happy to help with that. I've started businesses and been a senior manager so I've had to cope with lots of work stress both on myself and my team.
I'm 100% non-judgemental about anything - so long as its not some kind of discrimination.
I'm glad you stopped by, if I'm online feel free to start a chat. If I'm not then drop me a message and we'll find a way to connect.

Feedback & Reviews
very good help
he is a great listener, i feel so good after i had talked with him. he is very compassionate
One of the good guys. Thank you.
He was kind and caring, very relatable and seemed like he genuinely cared about me, my life, and my problems.
Absolutely the best and most constructive listener I have ever come across. Helped talk me through relationship issues and figure out where I stood. They gave me so much more confidence. Can't thank them enough!
Kind, considerate, takes the time to check up on you and helps you find your way around this website and in your life. A relaxed kind of professionalism that I'd like to gain one day. Also a pretty great moderator.
From being absolutely lost and needing someone to talk to, to feeling like I had a friend. Mike will be the only person I will ask to talk to. A+
Thanks Mike!!!!
Mikes a great guy! thank you:)
amazing
Mike is amazingggggg. Listened to all of my rants and helped so much. Daisy :D
This listener was very casual and easy going. I never felt judged. It was like talking to a friend who just wants to understand what you are going through.
A brilliant listener, he knew exactly what I was getting at and reassured me greatly - thank you :-)
He may be very busy but he is caring beyond. He is a rock star listener. If all listeners were this amazing, there would be no sad people in the world. Always has idea's for solutions to problems. So compassionate it is unreal.
Excellent. amazing listener. Could not have asked for someone better to bare my wounds to. So understanding.
Best listener on 7 cups. He was able to talk to me about everything I needed and made me feel better
Thanks for the brainpan pick!
Helpful, and really did understand where I was coming from but also was open to the realistic non emotional thing to do.
Very helpful and a great listener! Definitely helped ease my mind.
Thoroughly impressed with whymike. He was attentive, empathetic, incredibly patient and a great listener! It was nice to hear some advice on specific and complex questions I asked, and he offered positivity and hope in his answers to me. He offered a few different perspectives on things which really showed his active listening to the situation. Definitely recommend him if you want a mature and attentive listener. Thanks whymike. :)
from the maybe 10 listeners i tried, was Mike i clicked with, feel is my lucky day to have found him here today to talk..thank u Mike!
Mike was one of the most understanding and supportive listeners I have ever had. I loved his demeanour throughout our conversation. His optimism and insight gave me a new perspective on my situation. He really made me feel better and I am grateful for his kindness.
A beautiful soul. The poetry of his thoughts - absolutely stunning. - Dostoevsky
The best help a person could ask for. Thanks so much
He helped me see the light at the end of a very dark tunnel.
He is very easy to talk to. I felt like I was talking to a friend right away.
whymike is a perfect example of how a listener should be, was a pleasure talking with him. Hope to speak to him again. UtahRider
quiet answer and he is very kind and mature
Amazing listener 😊 highly recommend.
Helped me build a better C.V How cool is that!. :D
He was very insightful and really listened without judging, and gave me great advice! Thanks Mike
Great listener thanks so much
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