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wojiaozly123
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PathStep 490 Compassion hearts252 Forum posts69 Forum upvotes153 Current upvotes153 Age GroupAdult Last activeFebruary, 2024 Member sinceJanuary 8, 2020
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What Does Love Mean for You?
7 Cups Online Therapy / by wojiaozly123
Last post
 July 5th, 2023
...See more As I am still in the process of recovering from trauma, I am also re-learning the concept of love and self-love ❤️ However, in the deeper level of my heart, I feel very lost and I don't even know how true love feels or if I have the ability to love myself or others. Even though there is still a black hole in my heart, I am making changes everyday and I believe one day I will re-establish my self concept and self worth! 🔥 It's very difficult to describe love only by words; however, love can manifest in any way of life. At this moment, I feel love is the unconditional trust from my pets! 🥰 How does love mean to you? Feel free to share your thoughts and spread the loving energy together! ❤️🌈💐
Editing Features of Forum Posts
Site Updates / by wojiaozly123
Last post
 May 7th, 2023
...See more I found out one strange thing about the editing features of 7Cups forums when I was posting threads. I am able to edit the top post of my own thread but unable to edit all the replies I have made. I am not sure if I misunderstand/unaware of anything or 7Cups forums basically just don't allow you to edit your replies
Long-term Bug for the Android App
Site Updates / by wojiaozly123
Last post
 May 12th, 2023
...See more I have been using the chatbot Noni for a while and I set a couple of daily reminders by chat. However, when I was trying to remove one reminder there has ALWAYS been an error message that I can neither delete nor edit it🫤 I have submitted a support ticket 2 weeks ago but received no reply until now. I am not sure if anyone here can help with this issue
My Narcissist Ex Gives Me Cognitive Distortions
Relationship Stress / by wojiaozly123
Last post
 May 8th, 2023
...See more Hi everyone, at the beginning of last month I experienced a sudden breakup with my ex without any sign. At first I felt extremely sad and angry, but as the time passed, I began to realize this relationship was not really healthy and there were already a lot of warning signs before the breakup. Then, I did some research by myself and surprisingly found out my ex is a very typical narcissist. I was love bombed by him at the beginning of our relationship, then he started to gaslight and manipulate me over smallest things in life. He is a covert narcissist type and always acts so well that all of our mutual friends and myself could never tell he is this toxic type of person before this breakup happened. I told them he actually gaslighted me and gave me a lot of false accusations and all of them felt unbelievable, because they all thought he is a kind-hearted and gentle person. Right now I don't really feel sad but instead, I feel extremely traumatized because he covered himself so well and this is really the first time I deal with this kind of person who completely lacks of any human compassion (that's true and sometimes I even feel like he's more like a reptile than a human😰) I understand there are quite a lot of survivors of narcissists because the harm they bring are extremely deep and toxic, and right now I feel I don't have any courage to trust or to even socialize with people, because I cannot determine what's true and what's fake all thanks to him 🫤 I am not sure if anyone has specific advice for this kind of situation, and I really appreciate the help and understanding of all of you! Good and evil is a choice, and I hope all of us will still choose love and kindness even after we got hurt! 🙏🏻
Appreciation
7 Cups Online Therapy / by wojiaozly123
Last post
 February 19th, 2023
...See more I have been dealing with past issues these days and sometimes I feel really bad; however, no matter how horrible I feel, once I open my 7 Cups App and talk to everyone, I feel much better! Checking-in on 7 Cups has become my daily to-do list and thank you 7 Cups community! Sending a lot of appreciation and love 🥰❤️❤️❤️
My New Diary and Daily Progress
Trauma Support / by wojiaozly123
Last post
 March 2nd, 2023
...See more I have chronic mental health symptoms, was sexually assaulted last year and right now I am still in the progress of recovering. I do carry complex trauma and sometimes I feel really overwhelmed and lost and I don't know if I can get better. Therefore, in order to note down every small progress I made and to build meaningful connections with the community, I decide to write down how I am doing in the day everyday. I do procrastinate and I don't know how far I would go, but I will try my best to post at least one sentence each day 🙏
My healing journey from past trauma
Trauma Support / by wojiaozly123
Last post
 February 2nd, 2023
...See more I have complex trauma including serious abandonment wound and a history of sexual assault. However, at the beginning of this year, I made a promise of myself that I don't want to live in the old ways and I will transform. I have been going through therapy, reading self-help books, watching videos on YouTube, practice meditation, doing EFT Tapping and prayer, etc. Since it is not a very smooth journey, I decide to write down my progress of everyday and what I have learned and do well during the day. ❤️
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