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Listener - Apprentice 5

Listener Rating
5.0 star rating

.. ❝ hope is the thing with feathers ❞



.. inquiries


｢ 01 ｣ I only listen to one person at a time. Be mindful of my availability status, please.



｢ 02 ｣ It would be best to select another listener if you need frequent support. My hours here vary due to personal obligations.







.. about me


My name's Fenris. I'm a writer and a tired call centre employee. I enjoy creating websites and listening to podcasts in my free time .


I am transgender, gay, and polyamrous. I live with my husband and our two animal children (a cat and a tarantula). We spend a lot of time gaming on call with our long-distance boyfriend.



The moto I live by is "progress, not perfection". I'm a work-in-progress. I may not be where I want to be, but I've come far..





.. subjects



｢ 03 ｣ I have personal experience with: with: anxiety, depression, PTSD, dissociation, psychosis, gender dysphoria, transphobia, homophobia.




｢ 04 ｣ I cannot listen to those who want to speak about: motherhood, eating disorders, weight management, graphic sexual abuse.










Number of Ratings: 19
Number of Reviews: 10
Listens to Over 18
Languages English
Listener Since Dec 23, 2015
Last Active over 6 months ago
Gender Male
Progress Path Step 26
Cheers 8,204
People Helped 17
Chats 115
Group Support Chats 10
Listener Group Chats 16
Forum Posts 22
Forum Upvotes 20
Categories
Depression
Work Stress
Anxiety
LGBTQ+ Issues
Self-Harm
Sleeping Well
Family Stress
Chronic Pain
Obsessive Compulsive Disorder
Social Anxiety
Loneliness
PTSD
Relationship Stress
Spirituality
General Mental Health
Recovery
Sexual Health
Panic Attacks
Breakups
Alcohol/Drug Abuse
Disabilities
Self-Esteem
Growth Path Timeline
  • Exercise completed!
    Nominate a Listener
    Completed step number is 25, August 9th, 2020
  • Exercise completed!
    Chat Session Reflection
    Completed step number is 24, August 9th, 2020
  • Exercise completed!
    Treat Yourself Like a Friend
    Completed step number is 22, August 9th, 2020
  • Exercise completed!
    Take a General Request
    Completed step number is 18, August 9th, 2020
  • Exercise completed!
    Listening is important Work
    Completed step number is 17, August 9th, 2020
  • Exercise completed!
    Take a General Request
    Completed step number is 16, August 8th, 2020
  • Exercise completed!
    Listener Oath
    Completed step number is 13, August 8th, 2020
  • Exercise completed!
    Most Important Thing
    Completed step number is 11, August 8th, 2020
  • Exercise completed!
    Simple Breathing Exercise
    Completed step number is 10, August 8th, 2020
  • Exercise completed!
    Member Welcome Program
    Completed step number is 9, October 21st, 2018

Feedback & Reviews
He genuinely cares for you and would bring immense positivity in your life. He will stand with you and understand your situation very well. He helped me to boost my confidence. Who ever encounter him is a blessing
Great listener and very helpful :)
Amazing listener, so comforting and empathetic.
Really helpful, gave me a ton of resources and was really kind.
Nice person to talk to :)
I feel as if I've found a long lost friend. Fen was helpful and kind! For the first time in my life, I knew what it was like to meet someone else with this mental illness! He made me feel a whole lot better for it. I no longer feel like I'm alone. Thank you so much!

Fenris was the best listener I've had on this site so far. Compassionate, empathetic, and open-minded. He held the light up so I could see my path and guided me to the right decisions.
An absolutely wonderful listener! He was kind and non-judemental. feel safe knowing people like this are on this website. Fen did more for me in ten minutes than my friends did in ten months.
Wonderful listener, I have a very unusual life story, dark secrets and he was willing me to hear me out and give me advice. Helped me tremendously.
I have used this site so many times and most of the listeners I have encountered have never been so understanding as Fen! I was so scared he would disconnect/block me/or not understand as I have had with many listeners in the past. However he was not judgmental and he made me feel so safe to open up about some of my most hurtful secrets. This is the first review I have ever given to anyone on this site and he is beyond amazing. A great listener, friend, nonjudgemental, understanding, empathetic, caring, and he's filled with so many advice and offers you so many solutions that it's impossible to leave the conversation feeling hopeless. Definitely am so glad I was able to get the chance to talk to him :)
Badges & Awards
Jester of Smiles Ellen Jump Start Anxiety Depression Eating Disorders Managing Emotions Panic Attacks Surviving Breakups Traumatic Experiences Crisis Intervention Listener Oath Work Related Stress Self Harm Sexual Abuse Alcohol & Drug Abuse Family Support Cultural Diversity Verified Listener Bullying Chronic Pain Psychological First Aid Family Stress Sleeping Well Graduate Master Scholar Love Bug Refresher Light Chat Help Angel College Guide Loneliness Guide Test Anxiety Exercise Motivation ACT Therapy Affirmative Reflection Chat & Text Listening Ace Active Listening Startup Support Perinatal Schizophrenia People of Color Guide ADHD Social Anxiety OCD Boundaries Forgiveness Grief Managing Bipolar Managing Finances Surviving Domestic Assault Getting Unstuck 7Cups Guide 12 Steps Community 101 Loyal Friend Tick Tock Fellow Friend NAMI Listener Steadfast Soul I First Community First Chat First Post Five Steps High 5 Hang 10 Open Door Weight Management Diabetes CBT Thankful Heart Gratitude Abound Hope Training Peer Pro Peer Training 01 Peer Training 02 Peer Training 03 Peer Training 04 Peer Training 05 Peer Training 06 Peer Training 07 Peer Training 08 Peer Training 09 Peer Training 10 Peer Training 11 Peer Training 12 New Mom Support Pineapple
Questions Answered
How do I stop having anxiety about having panic attacks?
March 1st, 2016 8:43pm What is the difference between sex and gender?
December 24th, 2015 8:37pm Sexual attraction: What's the difference between romantic attraction and sexual attraction?
December 24th, 2015 8:12pm Can gay people have stable romantic relationships?
December 24th, 2015 8:24pm What if you come out, and everyone turns against you?
March 1st, 2016 8:58pm Why do I love my scars so much?
March 1st, 2016 8:28pm Does self harming make me unimportant?
March 1st, 2016 8:33pm