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yellowJackfruit606
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PathStep 11 Compassion hearts22 Forum posts2 Forum upvotes4 Current upvotes4 Age GroupAdult Last activeNovember, 2022 Member sinceNovember 17, 2022
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Confidence and Contribution
Relationship Stress / by yellowJackfruit606
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November 28th, 2022
...See more I try my hardest to contribute to the relationship. However I feel like I can’t contribute much other than paying for their food, spending time with them, and give them love. They go to a pretty good school and are pretty smart so they help me a lot as well as help me mentally yet I feel like I don’t deserve that love. As much as I work hard to contribute I feel like I’m not doing it right. They keep assuring me that it’s okay and that it’s fine, but it just doesn’t feel right and I keep apologizing and they get irritated. They’ve done so much for me yet I feel like im not worth it for him. I told them I’m working on being more confident yet I feel frustrated with myself for every failure or inconvenience I cause them. I’m not sure whether to keep trying even harder or to just be okay that I’m not on the same level as them.
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Working on not being a red flag
Relationship Stress / by yellowJackfruit606
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November 20th, 2022
...See more I’ve been in a relationship and I’ve seen that I’m not in control of my emotions and secure as I thought. In the past I’ve dealt with self harm and depression because of love and not wanting to be in love because I was scared Ill get heart broken or rejected again. However I thought I would be able but my insecurities make me worry and cry and raise problems because of my fears and I hate myself and I cry more. For the past 3 months, they’ve been showing care yet I still get worried about cheating. I’m not too sure on how to be more confident and levelheaded?
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