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Hello, I’m dreamhope. I’m here to listen without judgment and hopefully make even a small, positive impact on someone’s day. Whether you need to vent, sort through your thoughts, or simply have someone listen, you’re welcome to be yourself here. Everyone’s experience is different, and I’m here to provide a safe and supportive space. 

My name is Iris and I am a junior in high school. Some of my favorite hobbies include hiking, ceramics, being outdoors, and spending time with my dog.

I'm open to listening/talking to anyone, about anything that might be on your mind. I'm a 30 year-old man. I haven't had any major traumatic life experiences or medical/psychological illnesses, but for the last few years I've been struggling with depression and finding happiness. I think reflecting on our emotions and being compassionate are central to working towards creating a sense of well-being and happiness for ourselves. I'll try not to judge. I hadn't logged on in about 2 years and all the previous conversations/usernames cleared, so if we've talked before and you want to talk again, feel free to message. Note: I never turn down a chat request so if the "continue waiting/cancel" screen comes up, I probably just stepped away from my computer for a second. So if I don't respond right away, please leave a message and I'll get back to you asap. If you hit cancel, I'm not able to see your username so I can't message you back unless you leave the first message in this case.

I m currently actively managing a community, so it is difficult for me to be available for 1-1 chat. If you wish to have conversation/ discussion then please be patient with me, as i m not available all the time. Otherwise You may contact any other listener. Thank you. Overthinking is like a swamp — the more a person gets trapped in the same thought, the deeper they continue to sink. If you hold a glass 🥛 in your hand, keeping it for one minute feels easy. But if you keep holding the same glass for an hour, your arm starts to go numb. The same is true for worries and problems. Thinking about an issue for a few moments is wisdom, but keeping it constantly on your mind weakens a person’s courage, peace, and ability to make decisions. Peace in life does not come from continuously thinking about everything. It comes from removing unnecessary burdens from the mind and taking practical steps. When a person learns to “put the glass down,” the burden naturally begins to feel lighter. 📖 Extract from "The Art of Not Overthinking"

मनोबुद्धयहंकारचित्तानि नाहम् न च श्रोत्र जिह्वे न च घ्राण नेत्रे न च व्योम भूमिर्न तेजॊ न वायु: चिदानन्द रूप: शिवोऽहम् शिवोऽहम् ॥1॥ मैं न तो मन हूं, न बुद्धि, न अहंकार, न ही चित्त हूं मैं न तो कान हूं, न जीभ, न नासिका, न ही नेत्र हूं मैं न तो आकाश हूं, न धरती, न अग्नि, न ही वायु हूं मैं तो शुद्ध चेतना हूं, अनादि, अनंत शिव हूं। न च प्राण संज्ञो न वै पञ्चवायु: न वा सप्तधातुर्न वा पञ्चकोश: न वाक्पाणिपादौ न चोपस्थपायू चिदानन्द रूप:शिवोऽहम् शिवोऽहम् ॥2॥ मैं न प्राण हूं, न ही पंच वायु हूं मैं न सात धातु हूं, और न ही पांच कोश हूं मैं न वाणी हूं, न हाथ हूं, न पैर, न ही उत्‍सर्जन की इन्द्रियां हूं मैं तो शुद्ध चेतना हूं, अनादि, अनंत शिव हूं। न मे द्वेष रागौ न मे लोभ मोहौ मदो नैव मे नैव मात्सर्य भाव: न धर्मो न चार्थो न कामो ना मोक्ष: चिदानन्द रूप: शिवोऽहम् शिवोऽहम् ॥3॥ न मुझे घृणा है, न लगाव है, न मुझे लोभ है, और न मोह न मुझे अभिमान है, न ईर्ष्या मैं धर्म, धन, काम एवं मोक्ष से परे हूं मैं तो शुद्ध चेतना हूं, अनादि, अनंत शिव हूं। न पुण्यं न पापं न सौख्यं न दु:खम् न मन्त्रो न तीर्थं न वेदार् न यज्ञा: अहं भोजनं नैव भोज्यं न भोक्ता चिदानन्द रूप:शिवोऽहम् शिवोऽहम् ॥4॥ मैं पुण्य, पाप, सुख और दुख से विलग हूं मैं न मंत्र हूं, न तीर्थ, न ज्ञान, न ही यज्ञ न मैं भोजन(भोगने की वस्‍तु) हूं, न ही भोग का अनुभव, और न ही भोक्ता हूं मैं तो शुद्ध चेतना हूं, अनादि, अनंत शिव हूं। न मे मृत्यु शंका न मे जातिभेद:पिता नैव मे नैव माता न जन्म: न बन्धुर्न मित्रं गुरुर्नैव शिष्य: चिदानन्द रूप: शिवोऽहम् शिवोऽहम् ॥5॥ न मुझे मृत्यु का डर है, न जाति का भेदभाव मेरा न कोई पिता है, न माता, न ही मैं कभी जन्मा था मेरा न कोई भाई है, न मित्र, न गुरू, न शिष्य, मैं तो शुद्ध चेतना हूं, अनादि, अनंत शिव हूं। अहं निर्विकल्पॊ निराकार रूपॊ विभुत्वाच्च सर्वत्र सर्वेन्द्रियाणाम् न चासंगतं नैव मुक्तिर्न मेय: चिदानन्द रूप: शिवोऽहम् शिवोऽहम् ॥6॥ मैं निर्विकल्प हूं, निराकार हूं मैं चैतन्‍य के रूप में सब जगह व्‍याप्‍त हूं, सभी इन्द्रियों में हूं, न मुझे किसी चीज में आसक्ति है, न ही मैं उससे मुक्त हूं, मैं तो शुद्ध चेतना हूं, अनादि‍, अनंत शिव हूं।

Hi, I’m glad you’re here. Life can get overwhelming sometimes, and you don’t have to handle it alone. I’m here to listen, support, and help you sort through whatever’s on your mind. You deserve to feel heard.

Hellooo👋 I am your happy go to person if you need someone to just lean on through anxiety, motherhood, work stress, chronic pain, auto-immune or just life in general💛 I am happily married, and full time juggler of life's chaos , I sneak in time for good laughs and interesting people, art, culture, cuisine, travel, tech, spiritual and social ideologies I donot discuss relationship issues/sexual health Just need a friend to walk alongside a few miles ? I am in!!☺️

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Hello there! I've been on 7 cups for a few years already. I enjoy being a listener and helping people. I want you to know that I will do my best to listen to your problems without judging and to help in any way I can, giving you my full undivided attention and support. So I'm commited on talking to only one person at a time. In case you want to talk to me and I'm not available or busy listening to someone else, please leave me a message and I will answer as soon as I can. 

Love to listen

Unforeseeable circumstances. I might not be able to reply as quickly as I would like to. I'm sorry! Hopefully, I'll be back sooon!! I'm just a guy who has gone through some stuff and had no one to lean on during those time. Let us hope I can be that shoulder to lean on for someone else. 

Interested to listen on Trauma,  general anxiety and depression. apart from issues related to family, marriage, divorce, career and education issues.  #vroomvrooom #hopefuloutlook #muslim