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I'm always around if you need a safe spot to clear your head whether you just want a light distraction, someone to vent to, or a listening companion through a hard time. My role isn't to judge or criticize you; I'm just an ordinary person trying to help and listen to you while you vent or share what's on your mind. ✨ A quick note on my time & availability: I am not available every day; I only show up according to specific shadules when I am free. Please know that if I am away, it is never out of neglect or lack of care.My time and attention are shared between different things, so please be patient and stay calm while waiting for my reply. I promise I will get back to you as soon as I can! ⚠️ important Rules & Boundaries: Just to be clear,I am not a Therapist or permanent friend. I'm simply a quiet face passing by in your everyday life. No heavy expectations, no judgment, and no professional advice. Strictly in App-Only:Conversations happen exclusively right here. Exchanging personal social media accounts, handles, or phone numbers is strictly banned. No links Allowed: Sharing any type of links (websites, Social,Media,etc.) is completely prohibited in this chat Feel free to reach out whenever you're ready. Not every listener clicks with everyone, so don't feel bad at all if you need to find someone who fits your vibe better☺️🤍 

“success is not final, failure is not fatal: it is the courage to continue that counts.” —anonymous 🦋🦋🦋 Welcome to a Safe Space 🧘🏾‍♀️  hello there! i am a trained and verified listener, and my goal is to provide a safe, compassionate, and non-judgmental space where you can feel completely free to voice your thoughts and be truly heard.  i have been apart of the 7 Cups community since 2018. while i step away from time to time to balance my own wellness, i am happy to be back and holding space for others.  Current availability:  i am active online for chats on Mondays, Wednesdays and Fridays between the hours of 9:00am and 2:00pm EST. sessions usually run 30-60 minutes per person. to keep things flowing, if there’s 10 minutes of inactivity during a chat, i will disconnect so you can take your time—please feel free to reconnect whenever you feel comfortable! if my light is green, reach out anytime.  best wishes, chyni 💜 DISCLAIMER: i do not take chats of any sexual nature. i ask that you please respect my boundaries. thank you so much for your understanding. 

I’ve lost in almost every part of life — relationships, career, self-confidence, expectations, and sometimes even faith in myself. Not once or twice, but hundreds of times. I’ve felt like a complete loser at times. But somehow, I still kept getting back up… and eventually found ways to win. And if someone like me can do it, then why can’t you? Even now, I still struggle sometimes. I still have bad days. But I never lost hope, and that’s what kept me going. So if you feel lost, mentally exhausted, misunderstood, or like life keeps knocking you down, you’re not alone. Feel free to connect. Sometimes having someone who truly understands can make all the difference. I can be either way too serious or way too funny and sarcastic. 😄 It really depends on what kind of conversation you want. If you want to talk seriously, I’m here. If you want to laugh, joke around, or just take your mind off things, I’m up for that too. I also offer pvt 1:1 conversations for anyone who wants to talk, share their thoughts, vent, or simply have a genuine conversation.

I like talking to members who choose me 😇 I see you. I believe you. You are not alone. The bad things that happened to you do not make you a bad person. You are inherently worthy of love and belonging. I'm here to help you recognize your agency and power. ❤️

Let me clarify something: I am a staunch believer in the fact that empathy and bluntness have their own respective places. Some people seem to have misunderstood the role either of the two things are supposed to play in a conversation or an equation, so this is an attempt to disabuse those of this false notion. Being blunt does not mean lack of empathy. If you want to be mollycoddled, this probably isn't the right window.

Collecting moments of light and grace, Finding beauty in time and space. Proof that the sun will always rise, Look at the world through hopeful eyes. 🌅 Hiiii!!! I'm happy to talk about anything you would like! I'll always listen to you and talk with you! If anyone ever wants to have friends, just know me and you can be friends, you're not alone, okay? You all deserve good things coming to your life!🫶

I have spent my business career working in sales. I enjoy many sports theater concerts travel collect and drink wine. Enjoy being playful and having fun My favorite job is being a father. I volunteer with a men's team about being better husband father boyfriend , better at the job. Been in San Diego 30 years. I have 25 year old daughter who is a college graduate ad is working in Washington DC.

Life can be tough sometimes, and it's okay to feel lost or alone. It takes courage to reach out for help, and I want you to know you've taken a big step by considering chatting.  I have been where you are and know how it feels to be misunderstood and marginalized. But I know you can find support, love, and acceptance, so I'm here to help. I am a verified and trained listener with years of experience supporting and guiding individuals. No matter what you're going through, whether it's depression, anxiety, loneliness, finances, break-ups, or bullying, I'm here to listen and offer a safe space to talk about your feelings.  I know it's not always easy to trust someone with your thoughts and emotions, but I want you to know I will always listen with empathy and compassion. I will not judge you and always keep our conversations confidential.   When we chat, we'll talk about whatever is on your mind, and I'll provide you with the support and guidance you need to move forward. Together, we'll work through your struggles and help you find a way to live your life to the fullest.   So, please don't hesitate to reach out to me.  I am here for you, and I am ready to listen and support you through whatever struggles you're facing. Take care, and I look forward to chatting with you soon. A Heartwarming Experience with "JustMeForYou" A Sweetheart and a Fantastic Listener! With 50 years of listening experience, Chris deserves sincere appreciation for the exceptional qualities he brings to this platform. His non-judgmental approach, coupled with a profound sense of empathy and compassion, sets him apart and, in my experience, may place him among the very best. Chris has an extraordinary talent for uplifting spirits, offering invaluable guidance, and providing the support needed to navigate life's peaks and valleys. I am deeply grateful for all he has done for me. His genuine care and steadfast support have made a real difference, and I feel fortunate to have connected with such an exceptional listener. She was 92.  We cried together.  It was a happy cry. I want to share a true story with you that has shown me the incredible power of compassion. Recently, I visited a nursing home where I met a 92-year-old woman who felt lonely, scared, and depressed. As we spoke, I realized she needed connection with another person, someone who could offer comfort and companionship. At her request, I read a children's Bible.  As we read, I held her hand. We cried together, and in that moment, I felt her pain, but I also saw hope in her eyes. It was a small gesture, but it made a significant impact. By simply showing her kindness and compassion, I connected with her and brought some comfort.   It was an incredibly moving experience that reminded me of the importance of reaching out to those who may be lonely or isolated.  Seeing how a small act of kindness can instantly turn someone's day around is incredible.   So, if you can visit someone who is lonely or depressed, I encourage you to do so. Your presence and compassion can make all the difference, even if it's just for a short time. Let's spread kindness and love wherever we go and improve the world - one person at a time. My Happiness Philosophy When I was a little boy, around 11 or 12 years old, I experienced a sense of sadness that lingered for several weeks. My parents noticed my distress and approached me with concern, hoping to understand better what was troubling me. Despite their efforts, I struggled to pinpoint the root of my feelings and underwent several medical tests that yielded no answers. Something was clearly amiss, and I felt lost and disconnected from my usual self.  I turned to my mother for guidance, and she suggested I try reaching out to help someone in need. At such a young age, this was a challenge for me, but my mother encouraged me to offer my time and assistance to our neighborhood veterinarian by walking their dogs after school and on weekends, free of charge.   As it turned out, this simple act of kindness transformed my life and set me on a path of helping others. Over the years, I have expanded my efforts from animals to people and served as a listener and mentor for over 50 years. Even in retirement, I have plenty of free time to keep supporting those in need through systems like 7Cups and in my community. I'm grateful to have found purpose and fulfillment in helping others, and it brings me great joy to know I can make a positive difference in the lives of those around me.

I am always yearning to help someone, You never have to feel like a burden when talking to me, because I will always choose to listen and show my support to you willingly! Can’t wait to listen to you, amazing people! My available hours are typically between 5-9 later in the day. Although, I will try my best to take time out of my day to get to each and every one of you amazing people!

I am here to listen and support you. I want to listen to your problems and try to help you in any way I am able.

My purpose in 7c is being there for those who might need me for a while, as I myself, for a long time, knew how it felt having no one to talk to.

I’m here to listen and have real, meaningful conversations. Whether you need to vent, think out loud, or just have someone on the other side who actually pays attention. P.S. My communication style is direct, honest, and straightforward. I value openness and constructive conversations, but I understand that this approach may not resonate with everyone. If you're looking for a different style of support, another listener may be a better fit.