I'm a normal human being in an abnormal world... I'm the most understanding and trusted person one will ever find. I really want to help people and their happiness will make me happy. That's all I want. People should be happy.
Do you need someone to talk with?.....then you have come to the right place....my name is Bibin and i am here for you to guide you through your difficult path...You are free to share your things with me 😊
Self motivated individual with an enthusiasm for life. Avid reader on various topics especially, self help books. Loves and follows Spirituality. Trained and certified in Healing and Positive Thinking. A verified listener, here to listen and provide support to those in genuine need of a true friend. Trustworthy and non judgemental, ready to provide support by listening and sharing the wisdom gathered over the years solving challenges and mysteries of this beautiful life. Feel free to unburden and share
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Hi! My name is Lynn, and I'm glad you've found me! I'm a trained listener with a degree in English and psychology as well as professional training in peer counseling. I am NOT a professional psychologist, and I cannot provide therapy services. My scholarly focuses were in ethnic, cultural and gender studies, and psychological studies in abnormal psychology and human sexuality. You'll find me to be exceptionally open-minded and able to talk about practically anything that is on your mind. I am GLBTQ+ friendly. I have personal experience with a number of things, and my professional training has focused mostly on sexuality, depression/anxiety management, and autism spectrum disorder. In my free time, I enjoy writing, movies, and MUSIC!!! Feel free to reach out to me anytime I'm online, and if I'm not, I'll respond to messages as soon as I can after getting notice.
Please read previous member reviews before connecting with me. If you're a fellow listener, I appreciate your interest, but I will hold you accountable to the listener agreement and will not provide emotional wellness support outside the parameters of that agreement, no exceptions!
I am, in general, an acute situation listener. I focus on immediate needs. This means I'm not likely to "just chat" though I am open to doing so. Just note that I focus on emotional crisis first. I do not have long-term relationship availability at this time.
I am also a person living with ASD. My vocabulary and style of speech has been accused of being mean, harsh, aggressive, you name it, I've heard it. I cannot help it, and I cannot change it. Believe me, I've tried. If you're sensitive to that sort of thing, it's best to move on! This being said, I am a person and I have feelings. All I can do is try my best, but I limit my support list for a reason and ask certain questions at the start so we can be on the same page.
My style is to talk about progressive approaches and necessary steps, whether or not they "feel good"... I'm not one to try and package up harsh realities in fuzzy packages. I firmly believe that every adult has the ultimate responsibility for their feelings and their response to those feelings, so a discussion with me will be about accountability, self-honesty and can sometimes be a "rude" reality check. My expectation for members that talk to me is that they have read this description and accept that this is what they will get from me; that I expect them to be a grown adult, able to speak about issues with maturity and a desire for affirmation and change, and will understand that it is up to them and them alone where the power lies. I am simply a facilitator in your own conversation with yourself; if something I say is sharp, hits home, there is a reason.
Generally speaking, I do not provide support for relationship issues, domestic violence, sexual trauma, discussions of incest and/or other non-consensual sexual experiences. I do not provide detailed discussions of sexual desires, fetishes or dysfunctions; if you need help in this area, I recommend working with a professional.I cannot discuss self-harm, suicidal ideation/events, or abuse events. Please seek support from another listener if you need this kind of help, or reach out to suicide.org
As any listener on here has the right to do, I reserve the right and ability to set conversational boundaries and protect myself as an emotional being. If at any time I feel that either involved party is at risk during our conversations, I will advise as much and do my best to direct the member to the best path.
While I have professional training and education, I cannot provide therapy services or fill in as a replacement for your mental health professional.
Notes: NOT taking any relationship problem and sexual chatsThank you for reading my profileMy Online Schedule (ET)
Friday: 7pm to 12:00am
Saturday: 1:00am to 9am and 7:00pm to 9:00pm
You can use https://shirley7cups.youcanbook.me to schedule a time with meMy Online State
When I am online, I am available to take member chats.
When I am busy, I am on 7cups but I am doing other things. You can leave me a message, and I will respond to you as soon as possible.
When I am offline, I am not on 7cups. You can leave me a message, and I will respond to you when I come back to 7cups.Chatting Style
During an hour chat, I'm here to listen and support you, yet I can't provide you any advice. After the chat, we can set up a time to talk again.I only talk with a member at the same time, so when I'm talking with a member, other members have to wait me or set up a time to talk.
English isn't my first language, and I'm not really good at English, so I have some grammar mistakes and a little bit meaning mistakes. Maybe I delay responding to you because I need to check the dictionary if I don't know those words. My first language is Cantonese, and I also speak Mandarin, Taiwanese and English, and I type Chinese and English. If you are a Chinese speaker, feel free to message me.Chatting Topic
General Mental Health
Obsessive Compulsive Disorder
Student LifeIf your topic that you want to talk with me is without this list, that means I do not have experiences about the topic. Please seek for other listeners' support. Thank you for understanding. Useful online resources(24/7)
1. If you are suicidal, having suicial thoughts, currently self-harming, or in any crisis situations, please click www.imalive.org to seek support.
2. If you are suffering abuse, please click www.rainn.org to seek support.
3. If you are suffering abuse in military, please click safehelpline.org to seek support
4. If you are 11-35 years old, in Hong Kong and in crisis, please click www.openup.hk to seek supportMy Role
1. Adult-Teen Listener - No matter who you are, feel free to message me when you need support.
2. Peer Supporter - After trigger chats, I am able to support you.
3. Verifier - If you want to get verified listener badge, feel free to message me, and I can help you to get the badge.
4. Translator and Chinese Team Leader - I am helping 7cups to translate Chinese and leading Chinese team.
5. Adult Listener Discussion Leader - I hold group discussions in adult listener room
6. Safety Patrol Team Member -- If you see any profile has to be flagged, feel free to pm me or use https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSeGECC4E9NeQzQp2Skspwu6VQBJfMYB2Ag-Btm93DN5w0vh8A/viewform to flag themMy Favourite Songs
1. God Will Make A Way https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RsMAXhc0QTs
2. I Can Only Imagine https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZNDEyxEMNp0About Me
I am Shirley, an active listener in 7cups, a Christian, an 18 years old girl, who comes from Hong Kong.
I am diagnosed with Depression, Autism Spectrum Disorder and Oppositional Defiant Disorder (ODD), so I have direct experiences about those situation. In fact, I'm not good at relationship, for I am diagnosed with ASD, so I have some communication barriers. I had self-harmed in 2016-2017, so I can help you with how to cope with this problem. Otherwise, I am suffering with depression, so I am finding some coping methods. Also, my mum is diagnosed with Schizophrenia and Bipolar, so I know a little bit knowledge about it. This is my personal experience and my coping methods about depression: https://www.7cups.com/forum/DepressionSupportCommunity_52/DepressionGeneralthreads_30/BECAREFULTOCLICKINLONGPOSTMyDepressionExperience_223473/1/
My electives at school are Biology, Chemistry, and Mathematics. My hobbies are shooting of air gun, travelling bus, watching birds, Biology and Mathematics. Feel free to talk with me those topics if you want!
In fact, I have a male tortoise who is called stupid(死蠢) at home, and it is a really crazy thing that he is my mum, so my mum is stupid haha(You can imagine what I look like haha). This is my tortoise: https://imgur.com/a/H45Aqnp
If you read to here, I am so appreciate your attention
i am Sabina here to help everyone i understand how it gose I have depression and problems and I love the job that I do here and I am glad to help anyone of you
Open-minded, safe and judgment-free place! I'm here to help the best I can! :) I greatly enjoy talking about lgbtq+ and relationship stress! (but we can talk about anything!) Everything's a secret, you’re secret
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I do not mind, nor intellect, nor ego, nor the reflections of the inner self. I am not the five senses. I am beyond that. I am not the ether, nor the earth, nor the fire, nor the wind (i.e. the five elements). I am true, That eternal knowing and bliss, love and pure consciousness.
Neither can I be termed as energy, nor five types of breath, nor the seven material essences (that), nor the five coverings. Neither am I the five instruments of elimination, procreation, motion, grasping, or speaking. I am true, That eternal knowing and bliss, Shiva, love and pure consciousness.
I have no hatred or dislike, nor affiliation or liking, nor greed, nor delusion, nor pride or haughtiness, nor feelings of envy or jealousy
Hi, thank you for being here
I believe in kindness and in the power we have to do good, as well as the power to do bad. I believe kindness and warmth is a choice we all have, though I also think that at in times and circomstances its a very hard choice. I believe that with an open mind, tolerance for each others mistakes and differences, kindness, compassion and empathy we can spread kindness and the belief in humanity.
I've been through a lot myself and im still struggling, so even though I know eveyr story is different I want to support you through this rough time and I hope that I can offer some understanding and a friend. I have seen and felt datkness in many shapes and forms, from within and without.