, .hi.first things to know about me:
you don't need to worry about time, i am free, i got all the time in the world. i can talk with you for hours.
. we are a team. we need to trust each other and cooperate on solving the issue, we both need to be trying and willing. i am a friend not an enemy
if you have any diagnose of a cluster B trait (borderline, narc,, ASPD,histerionic) or any serious matter like PTSD or trauma related, i am well opened for it.i have some knowledge and personal experience in those aspects. and i certainly know the pain.what i will not talk about:(relationships,trivial matters like whether you should buy a dog or not)IMPORTANT BEFORE WE START TALKING:
if your issue is big/complicated i will need you to answer these questions:
1)tell me about your personality
2)tell me how do you define yourself
3)tell me how your emotions work for you
4)do you prefer rational or emotional support
5)what are the things i shouldnt say or ask
6)what are the things you like to be askedhow it will go:
i ask questions so we both could truly discover and understand you, the situation and the problem
i will try to give my opinion & advice & perspective. or lead you to a conclusion by:
2)working on your self awareness
so you could understand yourself and the problem more and be able to deal with it in a healthy way.if you REALLY need help, then talk to me
some good resources
->there's a differemce between true and what you want to be true. if you want something to be true, and then you found it's true, it doesn't neccissarly have to be true, but if
you found something to be true and it comes that you want that to be true, then this is more true than the former one.
if you wanted "s1" to be true, so you googled "s1 is true", then that's biased, but if you were making a full research, and found that s1 was proven to be true, then that's less bias, and more probable to be true. at the end: true true is always unknown.
I fight depression. I have lost due to it.
I know hard times.
I have a story behind me.
I have a great sense of humour. I can make you laugh or laugh with you. I am a writer. I love music. I'd like to hear your story and what makes you who you are. No problem anyone has is light or "stupid". If it was just that, it wouldn't bother us at all.
Hey! I'm glad you found me! how are you doing today? I am here with all my love for you to help you feel better. please feel free to leave a message in my in box if there is anything you want to talk about. I would love to listen!
I believe in fairy tales..
And what exactly do you think fairy tales are? They are a reminder that our lives will get better if we just hold on to hope. Your happy ending may not be what you expect; but that is what will make it so special✨
Hi there, my name is Kalicu!
I've have suffered from mental illness for most of my life and been in the hospital once. I'm in a position to help others now and feel that it is not only my duty, but my honour to try and help anyone who is suffering.
The world is a beautiful and terrible place but together we can make it an even better world - I'm here to listen and offer you tools that might help you during your struggles. If nothing else, I will always be there to listen.