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It can sometimes be difficult to find support from family members, friends, or like minded people. While you might have a best friend or a support system and network such as groups on social media, you might want to seek support without any social interaction.

Our listeners provide emotional support through active listening. Active listening helps process your emotional distress. The following page can be filtered to seek listeners who provide long-term help and support. You can also browse listeners according to your preferred language as well as for different topics amongst other filters.

7 Cups is a chat site/app that has different options to find a good listener. You can meet new people and text chat with other individuals going through tough times - you are not alone! Everyone goes through a hard time at some point in their lives and we are here for you. Whether you are facing relationship problems, panic attacks, struggling with substance abuse, loneliness, depression, anxiety, or any other mental health issue, our site/app is a safe space based on confidential, anonymous support.

A good idea is to consider what form of support you would like in the first place - we have plenty of options to explore and one of the best ways is to give them a try to find out what works for you. We understand that different people have different needs and preferences. All these support services are appropriate for different situations.

This page can help you seek a trained active listener to talk to through 1-on-1 conversations. These listeners come from different walks of life and all are ready to offer a compassionate listening ear to people who would like to talk to someone else. You can select their username to view their detailed profile page with their shared bio and other information such as whether they have lived experience of mental health conditions or topics, their reviews, as well as their training and other badges. While our listeners do not provide direct advice, their support can help you vent your feelings and concerns in a safe space and you can work together to figure out healthy coping tools.

Listener conversations can vary in duration according to your listener's and your personal availability. Some listeners have the option to schedule chats with them in advance. You can always browse for listeners and leave them a message so that they can get back to you with their availability.

There are several other ways you can find someone to talk to at 7 Cups. These include the group chats and subcommunities. We are glad you are taking the first step towards support!

Our group chat rooms are online chat rooms that serve as different support groups where you can send text messages 24/7. We are a global community with people from all over the world. Some chat rooms include the Sharing Circle room, which is a non-judgemental safe space based on the traditions of AA and similar support groups. This space can prove helpful if you need a group of people to talk to who can listen and get to know you over a long time. Sharing your feelings and experiences as well as listening to those of others can help feel supported. You can expand your support network and make online supportive friends and connections!

On the other hand, if you would like to interact with people and talk to someone over forums, we have dedicated subcommunities for over 45+ topics covering a wide range of mental illness support topics through various sub-forums. Our subcommunities provide support, awareness, events, as well as opportunities to participate in light-hearted icebreakers.

Apart from the above mentioned mental health services at 7 Cups, we have affordable therapy options allowing you to seek online therapy for mental health problems with an online therapist, licensed psychologist, and other mental health professionals. This support is affordable as compared to other online and offline services or other options like support through insurance companies. Therapists are also available to talk to throughout the week on working days.

While our community can help support you after you have lost someone else to suicide, 7 Cups is not to be used in the state of active/passive suicidal thoughts - for such cases, please visit helpful resources such as the Samaritans or National Suicide Prevention Lifeline. For a complete list of helpful resources, click here.

If you would like to gain further insight and helpful information about different mental health topics, you can visit our Community Questions and Answers pages, or read our Expert Mental Health News and Advice articles. Other main features you can explore include our self-help guides and growth paths based on treatment protocols available for free!

The bottom line is, you are never alone - 7 Cups is a community aiming to provide compassion on a global scale. There are various ways to talk to someone at 7 Cups. These include 1-on-1 conversations based on active listening and support through trained listeners, group chats with support discussions and Sharing Circles, and the subcommunity forums. Other features that you may find helpful include the growth paths, community questions and answers, as well as expert advice sections.

TiaraLovesJaunsta
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 Verified Listener  Safety Patrol Team  Hello everyone!  Listening has great power to heal and I'm here to listen to you.   I'm all ears to what you have to say. I've myself been going through a tough phase of life but I realized I'm much better today because my QPP played a vital role by listening to me. Listening can do miracles. Speak out, let yourself be heard. I'm here for you. ***Please mention before talking about sexual issues. (Not taking sexual issues at the moment) ***I can listen and talk to you as a friend and supporter but casual gossip requests and random friendship requests won't be entertained. Together let's make this world a better place and share the love.   
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plushTouch35
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Hello there! Thanks for finding me on 7Cups of Tea! I believe there are lots of talkers in the world and not enough listeners, which is why I became a listener here. I have been through many different types of experiences in my life and would enjoy hearing more about yours. I understand what it is like to not have someone to listen to you, and would be honored if you would give me the opportunity to do so. Hope we can speak soon.
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Alwaysthereforyou28
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As a listener, I hope to create an environment where it is comfortable for you to share your feelings to make yourself feel better.  From the bottom of my heart, I really hope that by listening, I can create a better world for everyone and that all of you are happy, healthy and safe and are enjoying your lives to the fullest.  
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bigBlanket63
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Hi and welcome to 7 Cups! 
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Power14
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          Hey awesome people  I am Neal . I'm glad you've found me on 7 Cups of Tea.                             For members :I'm glad you've taken a huge step.  it's really difficult to move a first step.  you've started looking for help. I'm here to listen whatever is in your mind. I believe every story is worth sharing and your all emotions are valid. We can discuss your issues may be i wont be able to help in issues but discussing issues can produce solutions. If you are going to text me then make sure you're in mood to take things in postive way. Anybody can help you only if when  you try to help yourself. Nobody is having magic wand which can heal your issue in no time.                                                  For listeners :                                                 I am a quality mentor you can always reach me if you need any help regarding this website or you need any guidance.                                                  Projects I'm supporting                                                  Quality mentor                                                  Peer support                                                  Welcoming team                                                 Translation project                                                  Listener verifier team                                                 If you need any assistance in these projects you can contact me.                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                     
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Apple
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Currently Taking Chats Hey there, I'm Apple and I'm here if you need me. I can take Spanish and English chats. If you want to have any idea of what I'm able to talk about, please do look up in the categories section. However, if you just want someone to talk to for a while, don't hesitate in messaging me.  
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XKangaotiCX
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Hi! I am a Psychology and Language Sciences Bsc student at university and I am looking to broaden my listening and helping experience. Feel free to DM and I will get back to you ASAP. :)
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Brittanny17
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🌻Here to listen🌻
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7CupsCommunity
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Hello! I am an official 7 Cups Community account. You may see me around in the forums answering questions. Learn more about my role here [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SiteUpdates_100/CommunityInformation_742/Reintroducingthe7CupsCommunityAccount_229879/1/] **If I have missed a tag from you and it's been a few days, please feel free to retag. I only receive one notification per thread I am tagged in, which makes it easy to accidentally overlook something.** Please note: You may email community@7cups.com for questions about accounts or reports. You may use the Browse Listeners [http://www.7cups.com/BrowseListeners/]link to find a listener for 1-on-1 support or our support rooms [https://www.7cups.com/connect/groupChatrooms.php] or forums [http://7cups.com/forum] for group support. Thank you for understanding.   Below are some important links that may be useful: 7 Cups Community Account FAQ [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SiteUpdates_100/CommunityInformation_742/7CupsCommunityAccountFAQ_275323/?post=2925956] 7 Cups Open Research Platform [https://www.7cups.com/about/research.php] Account Review Request [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScqva6u9GVllcKFBro2ZOg2tugEknrU8cMoi__JJClisFZzJw/viewform] Apply for Special Listener Badges [https://www.7cups.com/listener/myImpact.php] Apply to be an Adult-Teen Listener [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/ListenerResources_61/ApplytobeanAdultTeenListenerHereUpdated_214321/1/] Bugs Report Form  [https://help.7cups.com/hc/en-us/requests/new] W [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SubComLeaderBubble_183/SubcomWisdomandSharingfromyoursubcomtooursCheckins_1402/GotAQuestionTiedtoSubCommunitiesAskhere_199622/]hat are Subcommunities? [https://help.7cups.com/hc/en-us/articles/360026238853-What-are-subcommunities-] Behavior Reporting Process & Tracking [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SafetyKnowledgeat7Cups_181/BehavioralRatingSystem_2108/2020s7CupsBehaviorReportingProcessTrackingUpdatedVersion_226446/] Censor Updates Feedback Form [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScOYDIsgeWmqr4e5hKpTFZ_TC7CnG7OB1DV6mhocHx1kWYWzQ/viewform] Crisis Policy and Crisis Page [https://7cups.zendesk.com/hc/en-us/articles/360026238093-Crisis] How to end a crisis chat [https://help.7cups.com/hc/en-us/articles/360026238093-Crisis] Information on Research Projects [https://www.7cups.com/forum/KitchenTable_133/7CResearchandInsightsLab_973/Informationonresearchprojectsdoneon7Cups_47537/] Listener Chatroom Review Form [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScjcUhcOyBSS8szMwR1I7Gi9lgCmYuul_DJn_rmoy28pxg12w/viewform?usp=sf_link] Listener-Listener Conflict Resolution [https://www.7cups.com/forum/ListenerLearningJourney_149/CommunityGuidelinesMissionCoreValues_141/HowtodealwithLLconflict_200684/1/] Listener-Listener Report Form [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSco9sGAiqevQR4wBqEiy0uyC6p7fg_lVsK6LarWfloGEBqo7Q/formResponse] Member-Member/Listener Report Form [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSffQk1RhknozmquuEYiE_fZDp2ynNz-VB4XXBbRrrKmV57V5w/viewform] Moderator & Listener Review Form [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScmfpQqScgcFxOSHveQfbP52m-XNu-DBC6oK7ieTHrGQ4hJ3w/viewform] Mute Lift Request [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSc28h8BUSmhjTjOgursWHoU2BKF1Shcah6ygpXgK04g0f5d_w/viewform] Quality Coaching - Reach out to a Quality Mentor [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1oeZA5FmCGw4UeV6Yjmv0ZCurow72WzqpbaRd1F0klkA/viewform] Resources & Hotlines for Various Topics [https://www.7cups.com/wiki/crisis-lines-nonsuicide-related/] Safety at 7 Cups (information, protocol, and resources) [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SafetyKnowledgeat7Cups_181/Guidesonhowtomanagesituationson7cups_1059/Safetyat7Cupsinformationprotocolandresources_202422/] Safety Protocols and Policies [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SafetyKnowledgeat7Cups_181/Guidesonhowtomanagesituationson7cups_1059/SafetyProtocolsPoliciesInformationReview_201226/1/] Special Events on 7 Cups [https://www.7cups.com/forum/CommunityProjectsEvents_184/Current7CupsSpecialEvents_736/SpecialEventsTeamRelaunchHowdoEventsWorkon7cups_199705/] Support Desk & FAQ [https://7cups.zendesk.com/hc/en-us] Teen Safety Policy [https://www.7cups.com/Documents/TeenSafety/] Username Change Request [https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLSc-3nMPpTXQZ6JkI33U8kyXvk3uE4TtEk1ERLP-aiEnZXNqcQ/viewform] Where did the group support rooms go? [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SiteUpdates_100/GlensNookCommunity_547/RoomAnnouncement_211731/1/] Who to contact [https://www.7cups.com/forum/SafetyKnowledgeat7Cups_181/7CupsSafetyToolsReportFormsMore_1371/Reminderswhotocontact_166954/]
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AnnabelMelody
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My name is Annabel and I'm 34 years old. I have always been more of a listener than a talker, so listening seems quite a natural thing for me. I am kind hearted and don't tend to judge easily, even if it concerns difficult or unusual matters. My main language is Dutch but I do my best to improve in English and I also have a fairly good knowledge of French. If we get to talk I will be glad to listen to whatever you wish to share.   Je m'appelle Annabel et j'ai 34 ans. J'ai toujours été auditeur plutôt que parlant, alors écouter semble tout à fait naturel pour moi. Je suis gentille et je ne juge pas facilement, même si on parle des choses difficiles ou inhabituelles. Ma langue principale est le néerlandais mais je fais de mon mieux pour m'améliorer en anglais et j'ai aussi une assez bonne connaissance du français. Si nous nous rencontrons ici, je serai heureuse d’écouter à ce que tu souhaites partager avec moi.   Mijn naam is Annabel en ik ben 34. Ik was altijd al meer een luisteraar dan een prater dus luisteren lijkt een natuurlijke zaak voor mij. Ik ben vriendelijk en oordeel niet gauw, ook niet wanneer het moeilijke of ongewone zaken betreft. Mijn moedertaal is het Nederlands maar ik werk ook aan het bijschaven van mijn Engels en heb daarnaast een vrij goede kennis van het Frans. Mochten we hier in gesprek raken dan zal ik graag luisteren naar wat je met me wil delen.    
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Silverrose25
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I believe  everyone go through difficult time in their life some maybe worst than others but we should never give up hope,or stop believing it will never get better it will as long as u keep your faith and hold your head up high and always look for the bright side of every situation You can always message me whenever you need someone to talk to
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Yulianaxxp
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Hello🌼 I'm Juliana and I'm 22.  I'm no one special, NOT A PROFESSIONAL, just a girl who fights in her own wars with her mental illnesses. The only dream I have is to help others as much as possible in the future. I hate seeing people hurt, depressed or crying. I'm not gonna lie, I know I'm not the best listener in the world and maybe I can't even help you, but I just want to give you maybe just a little hope. I want to listen to you, to your story. I'm trying to be as honest as my mind allows. I never judge anyone because I go through my own things and so you never have to worry. Feel free to write to me. If I'm not active, leave me a message and I'll answer as soon as possible🌼 SOMETIMES I DON'T RECEIVE MESSAGE NOTIFICATIONS, so I apologize if I reply to ur (usually first) message late.
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