Aayla |
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Hi! I'm here because I believe everyone matters, and everyone deserves to be listened and supported. So if you need to talk, I'm here! 
Number of Ratings: 96
Number of Reviews: 59
Listens to Over 18
Languages English, Italian
Listener Since Jun 30, 2017
Last Active in last week
Gender Female
Progress Path Step 877
Cheers 52,515
People Helped 171
Chats 918
Group Support Chats 0
Listener Group Chats 20
Forum Posts 318
Forum Upvotes 374
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LGBTQ+
Feedback & Reviews
i began my conversation feeling so numb... i spoke very little but aayla didnt give up on me, and after a while she made me smile and laugh and convinced me to watch harry potter! thank you
Lovely person, so supportive and doesn't judge me for who I am. So happy to have met them today and would recommend to anyone who needs a friend!
Very helpful!!! :))
Despite being in completely different time zones, she always takes the time to talk to me when she is able and offers great advice.
was really open to the conversation topic
Thank you for taking my call, I really needed this conversation today. You've been very helpful and generous with your time.
She was so accommodating and gave me loads of resources and reassurance
Understanding and listening. Straight forward and to the point, but still in a kind and relaxed manner. She assisted me a lot with my current dilemma, and gave great advice!
An amasing listener and really good with the LGBTQ topic. They are friendly, compationate, empathetic, and awesome. They ask the right questions . They are great and very proffetional and helpful .
They are kind and really want to help. A sefless person.
She was really nice and really helpful x
Very helpfull and kind, thank you very much
great listener and helpful
very helpful
Awesome :)
thank you
nice and informative
Very nice but professional person, listens kindly and always has a piece of advice. Thank you for being here! :3
She was great and really put things in perspective for me.
thanks
You are really professional !
Amazing listener, caring and empathetic. Helped me deal with something no listener did before.
wonderful
Helpful Indeed.
She is giving me the enough time to tell her everything and she didn't make feel like a burden . Thank you for your listening and help I appreciate the time you are spending to help others❤
Such an amazing person.. she helped me a lot to feel better of myself and get along with the topic.
Very patient and professional.
Incredibly helpful and understanding.
I highly recommend speaking with her. Throughout our conversation, she was a great listener and also very attentive. The advice that I received was extremely helpful and it allowed me to change my perspective on my current issue. Thank you for your help! I’m truly grateful.
L'amica che tutti meritano di avere
She is a Great Listener.
Worked absolute wonders!
Wonderful person to talk to, compassionate and understanding, willing to talk about the problem. I appreciate it greatly, especially since I have no one close to talk about my issue.
Awesome!
Thank you so much.
Wonderful talking to her
She is absolutely wonderful!
I am glad someone like you is a listener on 7cups.
Aayla was absolutely phenomenal. I had a very complex situation to deal with and he/she was extremely insightful about how I could deal with things on a more personal level. Can't believe I actually got this level of help in such a short period of time. Thank you Aayla!
A wonderful listener, made me feel validated. I felt that I could trust them with my problem, and was able to work through things seamlessly.
very understanding
Really good listener.
Wonderful person... She has really listened to me and "read" me completely, giving me a new perspective and a start point to deal with my distress... Thank you so much!
Good
Aayla was great and was super encouraging
Lovely listener.
Great at giving advice!
Good listener
An amazing listener, one of those who truly listen and help you. Chatting with them has been very helpful!
A good listener. Give a wise advice. Brilliant.
Very helpful
A lovely supportive human being who made me think and showed great compassion
Best listener I have come across on 7 cups
Really helpful. She helped me think through my problems and find reasonable solutions,Gave me advice and how to follow my heart, Life changer. Very insightful. Very kind. Very helpful. Very easy to talk to. Just amazing. Thank you.
Amazing! Thank you so much for everything :)
Very kind and courteous feels like I'm talking to a family member
Really lovely and helpful. She helped me think through my problems and find reasonable solutions. Cannot praise her enough.
Pretty spot on told me what I needed to hear
Helpful and understanding . Gave me advice and how to follow my heart to make amends in old friendships
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Questions Answered
What's the best way to come out of the closet to your parents?
August 27th, 2019 12:08am
What's the easiest way to come out of the closet?
August 13th, 2019 11:57am
How do I know if I'm gay, lesbian, or bisexual?
August 19th, 2019 1:55am
When should I come out of the closet?
August 26th, 2019 11:37pm
Is staying in the closet forever a bad thing?
August 27th, 2018 8:15pm
How can I support my friend who is gay?
August 5th, 2019 11:25am
How can I support my friend who is transgender?
June 10th, 2019 9:48am
What is the difference between sex and gender?
June 19th, 2018 10:22pm
I don't want the same things other people do. Is there something wrong with me? Am I broken?
August 13th, 2018 11:28pm
What might help me figure out my sexual identity?
August 13th, 2019 11:32am
Is it really ok to be different or do people just say that to make you feel better about yourself?
May 20th, 2019 11:03pm
Why do we have to label our relationship?
July 8th, 2019 9:15pm
How have you dealt with biphobia and bi erasure within the LGBTQ community?
April 23rd, 2019 10:08am
Am I really who I want to be?
August 26th, 2019 12:24pm
Will people see me differently because of my sexual orientation?
July 9th, 2019 8:12am
What's the best way to get over relatives who are completely against it or ignore the fact that you might be gay?
August 5th, 2019 9:03pm
What are some good things to have in place before coming out to your parents that might not be accepting?
August 5th, 2019 2:03am
What is asexuality?
July 8th, 2019 10:41am
Sexual attraction: What's the difference between romantic attraction and sexual attraction?
May 22nd, 2019 12:02am
Why is it so hard for people to understand my sexuality?
August 5th, 2019 11:33am
How can I accept the fact that I'm a bisexual and not have it change my life?
July 4th, 2017 12:03am
Am I bisexual or am I lesbian?
June 17th, 2019 7:51pm
Is asexuality considered to be in the LGBTQ community?
August 22nd, 2017 11:46am
I know what I identify with but no one aknowledges it, how can I explain to my friends and family my sexual orientation?
June 11th, 2019 10:05pm
What's the difference between Pansexuality, Bisexuality and Polysexuality?
August 6th, 2019 5:07pm
Are you gay by birth or is it something you develop?
July 1st, 2019 1:22am
I don't identify as either gender consistently. What does this mean?
July 8th, 2019 1:59pm
Can I be attracted to a gender but not in a sexual way? Like I want to be with them but not have sex with them?
July 17th, 2018 9:14pm
Will my friends push me away if I tell them my sexual orientation?
August 5th, 2019 1:23am
What's the best way to tell your friends you are homosexual?
August 26th, 2019 11:41pm
How do you meet other members of the LGBTQ community in real life?
June 18th, 2019 10:00am
How do I deal with having to hide my girlfriend from my parents? It's wrong, but I'd rather not be disowned by the two people in my life that mean the most to me.
September 2nd, 2019 1:10pm
Is it wrong to be gay?
August 13th, 2019 12:13pm
How do I not fall for someone that is straight?
August 26th, 2019 12:03pm
Why are the chances of finding someone to love in the LGBT community so slim ?
August 5th, 2019 9:07pm
How can I explain to my friends that me being attracted to girls (without sounding rude or mean) doesn't necesarily mean I like them?
August 26th, 2019 6:21pm
How should I discuss my sexuality with my therapist?
August 5th, 2019 9:58pm
What's the best way to help your family understand your lifestyle?
June 11th, 2019 10:05am
Why so people think it's right to treat us like we are less of a human being than they are?
August 26th, 2019 11:45pm
Why cant we just live in a world where everyone is treated as a human, regardless of sexuality?
June 17th, 2019 7:44pm
Is it normal to not know who you actually are 100% till your an adult?
July 3rd, 2017 11:59pm
Are lesbians less likely to date a bisexual girl?
June 11th, 2019 9:55pm
What if there is no label that defines me?
July 3rd, 2017 7:51pm
I'm a bi girl but I'm concerned that women won't want to date me because they'd think I'd leave them and men will think I'm a cheater or just want sex. How can I get past this fear?
August 5th, 2019 10:12pm
How can I connect to other LGBTQ+ people in private?
August 26th, 2019 7:21pm
How can I know my sexuality?
August 13th, 2019 4:06pm
How can I explain homosexuality to my parents?
August 9th, 2019 10:21pm
How do you know if your bisexual?
July 1st, 2017 8:54pm
How can I spread LGBTQ awareness?
July 8th, 2019 4:50pm
Will I learn to deal with the scrutiny I receive for my orientation?
June 14th, 2019 8:35am
Why is it that I am not allowed to be who I am, when others are?
June 17th, 2019 12:35pm
If my partner is out of the closet and I'm not out yet, will this cause a lot of issues in our relationship?
July 8th, 2019 8:53pm
How can I be a great advocate for the trans community as a cisgender individual?
July 1st, 2019 12:57am
Will people learn to accept me as a LGBTQ member?
August 26th, 2019 7:28pm
What are some ways to navigate a romantic (non-sexual) relationship in such a sex-obsessed culture? Sometimes it's hard to avoid anxiety, stress, or feeling "fake."
June 18th, 2019 9:56am
How can I come out to my parents?
August 26th, 2019 7:23pm
I don't really identify as a girl, but I don't identify as a boy either...what other genders are there?
May 20th, 2019 9:25pm
How can I be a good ally to the LGBTQ+ community?
July 3rd, 2017 7:31pm
How come that me being a sexual orientation that is not straight or gay or lesbian feel alienated within LGBTQ communitity? What can I do to feel more accepted?
June 18th, 2019 9:51am
Do I have to label myself?
June 10th, 2019 1:38pm
Why am I not able to feel romantic love?
July 30th, 2019 10:18pm
(This one is for asexuals.) Why don't I feel sexually attracted to anyone? Am I broken?
June 10th, 2019 7:58pm
Why am I so scared of coming out when I know my family fully supports LGBTQ rights?
July 8th, 2019 2:11pm
Why do others feel the need to invalidate my sexual/gender/romantic identity?
July 8th, 2019 1:51pm
It is normal to have feelings about the same gender?
July 3rd, 2017 7:42pm
What is the difference between pansexuality, polysexuality and bisexuality?
August 6th, 2019 2:34am
Why do people think I'm different after they find out I'm bisexual? I'm still me.
July 1st, 2019 1:02am
Am I wrong for being the way I am ?
July 8th, 2019 4:40pm
Why does being LGBTQ+ always have a stigma with being unfaithful in relationships?
July 9th, 2019 8:08am
What can I say to people that tell me that my sexuality can be "cured" or fixed?
July 2nd, 2019 10:17pm
It's not safe for me to Come Out yet. How can I make it easier, emotionally, to be in the Closet?
July 8th, 2019 10:47am
Why do I have to tell my parents that I am queer but my straight friends do not have to tell their parents that they are straight?
June 17th, 2019 7:55pm
How can I tell if I am really ready to come out of the closet?
May 14th, 2019 5:52pm
How can I tell what gender I prefer?
August 26th, 2019 7:17pm
What's the best way to react to extended family's questions once you've come out?
August 5th, 2019 11:21am
My daughter is struggling with her sexual identity. Any advice on how to support her?
June 10th, 2019 6:22am
How can I come out to people in my school as bisexual?
August 26th, 2019 11:58am
What is the best way to come out to your family?
August 5th, 2019 1:15am
What its like being straight/heterosexual?
August 26th, 2019 11:31am
What is the difference between pansexual and bisexual?
August 6th, 2019 2:44am
Why are so many people close-minded when it comes to LGBTQ individuals?
June 17th, 2019 8:06pm
Why is it so hard to figure out who I am, and who I want to be?
July 3rd, 2017 7:23pm
Why do fellow LGBT people not want to discuss about their sexuality when they are just as alone in this as me?
June 10th, 2019 8:11pm
Why does my gender/sexuality seem so complicated?
June 10th, 2019 12:49am
Just because I am bisexual doesnt mean I want to be with just anyone, how do I make that clear to my friends that tease me?
July 17th, 2018 9:10pm
What is the best way to come out to older relatives?
June 10th, 2019 9:43am
What does it mean to live authentically as an LGBTQ person?
May 13th, 2019 3:23pm
How do I know for certain about my sexuality?
July 30th, 2019 10:12pm
How will I ever be able to start my transition and become who I really am?
August 12th, 2019 9:45am
Can my sexual orientation change?
August 12th, 2019 10:34am
How can I help my parents to understand this is not a phase, this is just who I am?
September 3rd, 2019 10:34pm
How can you handle when friends aren't accepting of you being LGBTQ?
August 5th, 2019 2:12am
Why do people feel the liberty to ask personal questions about my sexual life when I "come out" or let them know my sexual orientation?
August 12th, 2019 2:46pm
Is it better to use LGBTQIA or MOGII?
August 5th, 2019 1:31am
How can I tell my same-sex friends that I am gay/lesbian/bi without them thinking I like them?
August 26th, 2019 11:56am
How do I come out as asexual without people thinking something must have happened (hormonal, trauma, etc) to me?
July 17th, 2018 9:20pm
How do I fit into all these different labels for various sexualities?
September 2nd, 2019 12:21pm
How can I know for sure that this is who I am, and not just a "phase" like some people have said?
April 23rd, 2019 9:58am
Can someones romantic orientation and sexual orientation be very different (aromantic pansexual or asexual polyromantic) or do they have to go in hand (aromantic asexual, biromantic bisexual)?
June 10th, 2019 8:18pm
Would it be appropriate for me to tell people at work my sexual orientation?
July 1st, 2019 1:20am
How can I tell the difference between aesthetic, romantic, and sexual attraction?
August 26th, 2019 11:58pm
Why am I attracted to people of the same gender?
July 2nd, 2019 8:58pm
I am very confused about my sexuality. How can I determine what my sexuality really is?
June 17th, 2019 1:07pm
How do I sort out 'who I am inside' from the socialization that society has tried to impose on me?
July 1st, 2019 1:00am
Is being gay or lesbian or bisexual a sin?
June 19th, 2018 10:28pm
When is the best time to tell co-workers that you are gay?
August 5th, 2019 9:53pm
What are asexuality and demisexuality? Do I need to put a label on my feelings?
June 10th, 2019 8:15pm
Can I really go on with my life even if my family doesn't accept what I am?
July 17th, 2018 9:03pm
Do you have to accept the labels you're given? How can you avoid them?
August 5th, 2019 10:14pm
Are people born gay?
July 8th, 2019 2:06pm
Are you born gay or is it society which makes a person gay?
July 8th, 2019 9:07pm
What's the difference between Queer, Transgender and Intersex?
August 12th, 2019 3:04pm
Can gay people have stable romantic relationships?
August 20th, 2018 9:51am
What if you don't want to be labeled, but you want to explore without people guessing?
August 5th, 2019 2:27am
Why do so many things have masculine or feminine connotations?
June 11th, 2019 10:20am
What does it mean when you aren't attracted to anyone but you don't want to be alone?
June 10th, 2019 1:42pm
Am I an asexual? I lack sexual attraction but not sexual drive.
August 6th, 2019 3:00am
How to deal with falling in love for your best (and straight) friend?
August 9th, 2019 10:25pm
I'm most definitely in women and I think I'm a lesbian, however, sex doesn't interest me in the slightest. What's wrong with me?
December 26th, 2017 8:41pm
Do I even need to identify myself on the LGBTQ spectre?
June 17th, 2019 1:28pm
I don't like sexual relationships at all. Is it wrong?
June 10th, 2019 2:16am
What did my friend mean when he said I'm "versatile" ?
August 12th, 2019 10:47am
If you could choose, would you have preferred to have a different sexuality then you have?
August 19th, 2019 2:07am
Why can't I feel comfortable publicly or openly loving who I love?
June 17th, 2019 1:02pm
Why do people assume that all bisexuals sleep with anyone that comes up to them?
August 20th, 2018 9:41am
Why is it easier to "come out" to someone I just met than to my friends of years?
August 13th, 2018 11:45pm
Why do I always feel like I am the wrong sexuality?
June 10th, 2019 6:29am
Why can't I just be straight?
August 19th, 2019 2:12am
Is it okay to be confused around your sexuality?
June 10th, 2019 2:02am
How can i know for sure if im a lesbian or just bisexual?
June 10th, 2019 7:45pm
How can I know if the person I am in love with have my same sexual orientation?
August 26th, 2019 12:28pm
What is the difference between sex and gender identity?
July 3rd, 2017 7:53pm
Why does it feel like only certain types of LBGTQIAP+ people are accepted within the community?
June 10th, 2019 1:30pm
Do you have to come out to everyone?
August 20th, 2018 7:42pm
How do I know how to label myself?
August 5th, 2019 11:07am
Does not coming out as bisexual mean that I'm ashamed of it even though I don't think I feel that way?
May 21st, 2019 11:40pm
How can I know if I won't regret sex change treatments?
June 10th, 2019 1:15am
I'm I actually like this or is a phase?
August 12th, 2019 10:32am
Why do I worry so much about putting myself in a box and labeling myself?
July 8th, 2019 10:23am
What is my sexuality ? Is it wrong ?
August 5th, 2019 2:41am
I dreamt about kissing someone of the same-sex, what does it mean ?
August 26th, 2019 11:11am
Is it ok to not want to come out right now?
August 27th, 2018 8:26pm
How do you show your pride when you're constantly belittled or put down for your identity?
July 3rd, 2017 8:09pm
Why are transgender issues lumped in with gay and lesbian issues?
August 5th, 2019 1:38am
When is the right time to come out?
August 13th, 2019 12:10pm
Why do people think my sexuality is a mental disorder and/or invalid?
August 26th, 2019 7:32pm
Why am I always concerned about what my sexual orientation is?
August 12th, 2019 3:06pm
Is love between certain people more legitimate than love between other people?
June 11th, 2019 11:16pm
How do I deal with coming out to a Catholic family?
August 27th, 2019 12:17am
How can I stop being the 'me' other people think I am?
June 10th, 2019 1:19am
Why do some cultures reject people of the same sex for sharing love ?
August 12th, 2019 10:11am
How do I come out to my parents?
July 11th, 2019 12:18pm
Why does everyone hate me just because of my sexuality?
September 2nd, 2019 12:16pm
Why can't I just be "Normal"?
June 18th, 2019 7:31pm
Why are people questioning if being gay was a choice?
April 24th, 2018 7:48pm
How can I know if I'm bisexual if I had only one-gender experiences?
July 1st, 2019 12:50am
Can I know my sexual orientation without having any romantic or sexual experiences?
May 14th, 2019 4:43pm
Sometimes I really think I was meant to be a different gender, but then other times I really like my gender. What's wrong with me?
August 27th, 2019 12:05am
Why am I gay?
August 12th, 2019 10:53am
Why is it that people are so stuck on there being just 'female' and 'male'?
July 8th, 2019 4:44pm
Why are people so concerned with binary gender?
July 8th, 2019 1:48pm
How can I cope with my family not accepting me as being gay?
June 10th, 2019 7:51pm
How can I figure out if I am bisexual, or if I am just going through a phase?
August 8th, 2019 3:45pm
What does it mean when you're demi? I never fully understood.
August 13th, 2018 11:50pm
Why am I gay? I hate myself.
August 12th, 2019 11:33am
Why is my son gay?
August 5th, 2019 1:41am
Why is my daughter a lesbian?
August 5th, 2019 9:21pm
Does everyone secretly despise LGBTs although many openly claim to accept and love it, including LGBT members and allies? Are there really people who see LGBT as of equal worth as heterosexuals?
July 1st, 2017 8:09pm
Is there any chats/groups/forums specifically for Transgender teens 18 and under?
July 2nd, 2019 9:02pm
How do I come out as nonbinary?
July 31st, 2019 9:23pm
What's transexuality? And what's the difference between that and transgender?
August 5th, 2019 2:34am
Am I bisexual if I only get the urge to have sex with the same gender when I'm lonely?
July 3rd, 2017 8:02pm
I came out to my parents as transgender over six months ago, they have ignored it entirely. How can I gently bring up the subject again?
June 10th, 2019 12:43am
I don't know if I feel like a guy, or feel like a girl. I only know that I feel like a kid. Would that make me agender?
August 27th, 2019 12:14am
If I am demisexual, do I still need to come out to my friends and family, and if so, how do I explain?
August 6th, 2019 8:37am
How do I come out to deeply religious parents? My fiance's mother discovered..and may tell my mother. I'm so scared.
August 27th, 2019 12:16am
I am a male-to-female transgender but recently I have been feeling like I'm pretending when I am feminine and don't get upset when I am masculine... Is it possible that I'm not transgender after all?
June 17th, 2019 12:40pm
I'm not sure if I'm straight but I don't want to come out if I take it back in the future. What should I do?
June 17th, 2019 7:38pm
I've known I was transgender since I was 11 and my parents don't think I am... They support the LGBT but they said that they would have known at a younger age. Do I have to know at a young age?
August 5th, 2019 9:16pm
I think that I am transphobic even though I am trans myself and I don't know how to get over this. Any help?
July 2nd, 2019 8:56pm
I've heard a fair amount of bad rep about bisexuals, often from people who've never even dated one. Why is there so much unfair judgement, especially from people of the LGTBQ+ community?
June 11th, 2019 11:19pm
Can be internalized homophobia the cause of anxiety ?
July 4th, 2017 12:09am
I am so confused about my sexuality. I am attracted to men and some women but when I think of sex personally I am revolted the thought of doing something. Has anyone else felt this way?
August 5th, 2019 2:09am
I would date both genders, but I only want sexual relations with one gender. Can someone please tell me what that is called?
June 18th, 2019 10:15am
I have recently developed feelings for my same sex friend who is gay, but I’ve never had feelings for the same sex before. What do I do?
August 5th, 2019 2:20am
Where do you find other romantic asexuals? Or just other asexuals? It would be nice to have someone to talk to… because everyone else are so focused on sex.
August 26th, 2019 12:07pm
I don't know what my sexuality is. I sometimes like men, sometimes women other both but really often no one. What does that mean?
August 13th, 2019 12:01pm
So I think and feel that I'm bisexual but I don't want to label myself as bi because I'm only 17 and haven't really been in love yet, what should I do? Do I come out to/tell others if I'm not sure?
November 14th, 2017 11:13pm
Can I just be a person, not a girl or a boy?
August 13th, 2019 12:06pm
I feel like a boy but sometimes I see myself as a girl. Am I really trans?
May 21st, 2019 11:51pm
How can I stop hating myself for being bisexual?
June 17th, 2019 8:17pm
How can I determine my sexuality without having had any romantic attraction yet?
August 5th, 2019 10:18pm
what sexuality am i? Im a girl who likes boys and girls, but the girls have to dress tomboy. Just curious if that means anything?
August 12th, 2019 3:07pm
I'm scare if I tell everyone that I'm gay. They will treat me differently and keep distance. Why am I gay?
August 20th, 2018 9:44am
I have had bad luck with boys, and I have dreamt about girls for this past year. I'm questioning my sexuality now because the thought of a girl and me doesn't sound all that bad. What does this mean?
July 15th, 2019 9:48am
I am female and attracted to women, but I have no desire to date or have sex with other women. What does this mean and am I still considered as bi?
August 13th, 2018 11:40pm
I am scared of coming out because I've assured people I am straight for years. How do I come out without disappointing people?
June 17th, 2019 7:48pm
I'm emotionally attracted to men and women but only sexually attracted to men. Is there a word for that?
July 9th, 2019 8:04pm
I'm confused about my sexuality. I'm a male and only date women. , I also like oral sex on a male if a girl is involved. I've had mmf 3 somes and attracted to transexuals. Help?
August 12th, 2019 10:19am
I feel somewhat attracted to my same gender, but only want to date the opposite and would rather go all the way with them. I don't want to be bisexual because of religious beliefs. What do I do?
August 26th, 2019 6:34pm
for the past year or two i been questioning my sexuality i think am a lesbian i find my self attracted to females and even been thinking about what it would be like spending my life with a female ?
August 12th, 2019 3:10pm
I am sexually aroused by men but not women. Yet I am still attracted to women and can imagine a future with them but not men. What does this mean?
April 23rd, 2019 10:34am
Im attracted To only one person thats also a female. What does that make me?
June 18th, 2019 10:08am
Who should I come out to first? Family or friends?
July 2nd, 2019 10:25pm
My husband said he was gay is it a phase or no?
August 26th, 2019 11:35pm
I think I'm asexual, but I'm not sure. Is there anyway to verify it?
August 26th, 2019 7:04pm
How do i come out to my religious family?
August 26th, 2019 11:59pm
I identify as non-binary. Is it normal to still go by she/her pronouns just because that is what I am more comfortable with?
July 30th, 2019 10:14pm
is it easier to know your sexuality after having sex?
February 27th, 2018 11:23pm
How can I tell if Im bisexual or lesbian?
August 20th, 2018 7:25pm
I'm romantically attracted to males, but I think I'm sexually attracted to only females. I thought I was asexual, but now I'm not sure. Is this normal, or does it mean anything about my sexuality?
May 13th, 2019 3:38pm
How do i know if im a lesbian?
August 12th, 2019 9:41am
Im so confused, i like girls and i like to do girly things, but im a boy. What am i?
July 8th, 2019 10:30am
What if called when you are both romantically and sexually attracted to women but I'm still romantically to men? I'm occasionally sexually attracted to men but only some days?
June 18th, 2019 10:12am
Would it be normal to choose a gender neutral name that i feel more comfortable with if i identify as agender?
July 8th, 2019 9:01pm
What do i identify myself with if im emotionally attracted to boys but physically and emotionally attracted to girls?
May 20th, 2019 10:56pm
I'm a man and I feel comfortable in relationships with women, but I love to watch all male porn. I also love to wear women's lingerie. Does that mean I'm gay, bisexual or straight?
July 15th, 2019 9:44am
Is being bisexual a sin? Also, if anybody knows, my other bi friend likes me and I like her. Should we go for it?
May 20th, 2019 9:18pm
So im a boy and im gay. Ive recently been having dreams about my best friends that are girls sexually. I dont know if im gay straight or bi. Any ideas what this means?
August 12th, 2019 10:14am
I don't know if I'm straight or guy. I love girls and home some relation but now I love my friend however every time I feel that this wrong and continue. What should I do?
August 6th, 2019 8:18am
I adore my boyfriend and don’t want to leave him, but I also think I’m a lesbian. What do I do?
August 26th, 2019 7:09pm
How can i tell if i am pansexual or not?
August 6th, 2019 2:28am
I'm a 14 year old boy, I've had many girlfriends, kissed and some petting, I watch straight and lesbian porn, but I watch gay porn aswell does that make me gay?
August 6th, 2019 2:38am
I rather have sex with a girl rather than a boy but I still think guys are cute or whatever i don’t understand what I am... what do I do?
June 17th, 2019 12:58pm
I had a bad experience coming out as bisexual to my mom so I've put off exploring that part of myself for years. Now I have no idea where to start. How do you begin when you're late to the party?
June 11th, 2019 9:38pm
How do you come out as bisexual to your family who is catholic...? I came out to my two best friends today but I'm not comfortable with my family knowning yet...
August 26th, 2019 7:13pm
What is it called when you only have crushes on girls and genderfluids?
August 5th, 2019 1:20am
I like the idea of being gay, it just gives me a rush, but I'm a girl and i like guys but don't really like girls, i don't know what this is or how to deal with it. Can anyone help?
June 18th, 2019 10:04am
How do I tell my family and friends I'm asexual?
August 27th, 2018 7:38pm
Tips for someone who recently came out as bi?
August 13th, 2019 6:27pm
How to come out as agender to my family in a easy way?
August 27th, 2019 12:02am
If i used to like boys, but now only girls what am i?
May 14th, 2019 5:45pm
So I'm a girl. I've had fantasized about both genders and possibly had crushes on both. I also though one of my bi friends was flirting with me and then tried to flirt and wanted to date. Am I bi?
July 1st, 2019 1:04am
I am a girl who wants to be a boy but my dad hates women and physically, sexually, and emotionally abused me into hating women and myself. Should I listen to my wanting to be trans or not?
May 13th, 2019 3:30pm
my daughter thinks she might be bi-sexual. She is only 11. How can I help her?
May 13th, 2019 12:13am
I don't want to be gay I feel that I won't be happy, I want to be with woman but mind is telling me these things which I don't like am I gay?
July 8th, 2019 10:20am
Am I gay if I am attracted to someone who is the same sex?
July 1st, 2019 12:54am
What is it called if you don’t feel male or female but at the same time you feel like both?
August 5th, 2019 2:05am
Is being gay something you have to know early or is it possible to find out your gay after 20?
June 10th, 2019 1:52am
How do you write a coming out letter to your parents? (Transgender)
June 10th, 2019 2:06am
My boyfriend just told me he thinks he’s bisexual. That he’s attracted to dicks but doesn’t really know what that means. I’m 23 and we’ve been sexual for 10 years on off. How do I understand this?
June 10th, 2019 1:24am
So, I'm 100% sure that I am male to female transgender, However, I also have a powerful desire to be a different race as well (I'm white British). What does this mean?
August 6th, 2019 6:28pm
I don't like being a girl, but I don't want to be a guy, the idea of having a gender itself is terrifying to me. I've had crushes on girls, and I've been attracted to some guys. What's with me?
August 5th, 2019 1:12am
I am romantically attracted to men but sexually attracted to women. I am in love with a guy but am not sexually attracted to him. What do I do?
July 2nd, 2019 9:09pm
Can you call yourself bi if you’ve only had feelings for both genders, and never dated the opposite/same gender?
July 30th, 2019 10:20pm
Help! Who and what am I?
July 9th, 2019 8:01pm
How can I know if the person I like is gay?
August 5th, 2019 11:11am
I don’t feel the emotion of liking people in a romantic way. Is there something wrong with me?
June 10th, 2019 6:38am
I'm a girl and I'm bisexual but everyone starts to tease me and say I'm a lesbian what am I supposed to respond to them?
August 27th, 2018 8:08pm
After coming out as gay, did anyone else start to second guess their sexuality?
June 10th, 2019 1:10am
i'm sexually attracted to men and women. but i'm only romantically attracted to men. what am i?
August 27th, 2018 7:31pm
My parents accept gays but i still can't come out?
June 17th, 2019 12:17pm
i know i def like boys, but i’ve had sex dreams w girls and i don’t mind the thought of it or dating a girl. i’ve never had a crush on a girl tho. am i just looking too much into it?
April 23rd, 2019 9:51am
Do you recommend coming out to a teacher before your parents?
June 10th, 2019 1:35pm
How do I find out what sexuality I am?
July 15th, 2019 9:39am
How do I come out to my parents about being bi?
August 19th, 2019 1:46am
Fell in love with my close girlfriend. We’re both married for 15+ years with teenage children. We were together and handful of times 5 years ago and I still can’t get over it. Should I end friendship?
August 27th, 2019 5:21pm
I've finally come to terms with my sexuality (lesbian) but I don't know how to find my gender identity. I like boy clothes but it still feels so wrong to be masculine. Any tips?
April 23rd, 2019 10:17am
I recently lost a pregnancy. I know I’m not a cis female but lately it’s made my issues with that get out of control. Could I be trans or could the increased hatred of my body be from pregnancy loss?
June 17th, 2019 12:30pm
Why am I gay god said that man should marry women ?
June 10th, 2019 8:05pm
Why am I gay if it’s a sin?
August 12th, 2019 10:26am
How can LGBTQ+ community people achieve to speaking up upon what they think is right and their views and struggles they come from and their ethnic backgrounds too?
August 5th, 2019 9:10pm
Can you want to have lesbian sex but not be lesbian or bisexual?
August 6th, 2019 5:11pm
i don’t know if i’m gay or bi or what i’m just utterly confused. i don’t want to hear that i don’t need labels i just want to know why me?
September 2nd, 2019 12:14pm
I am headed off to college soon, and I am paranoid that I won't meet anyone to date. I know that sounds a little crazy, but I am really afraid that I won't meet another woman?
August 12th, 2019 10:22am
Am I lesbian or asexual? I've never been attracted to anyone and "hot or muscular men to look funny. Girls are nice to look at but I've never been attracted to one.
August 12th, 2019 12:06pm
I am a male who is sexually attracted to other males but emotionaly like women. What sexuality am I ?
July 8th, 2019 10:33am
Am I bisexual? Or am I just bicurious?
August 6th, 2019 8:34am
23 years old and confused am I bisexual?
April 24th, 2018 7:55pm
How do you identify your sexuality?
August 12th, 2019 11:56am
How do I tell my best friend (Who is also gay, like me) that I love him and want to be with him?
August 20th, 2019 12:49am
I love a straight girl what can I do?
August 5th, 2019 9:29pm
HI I think I might be bi but I don't know and I'm really confused right now. I have had a boyfriend but I also think a lot of girls are cute.what should I do?
July 9th, 2019 7:58pm
I'm bisexual and my straight boyfriend isn't homophobic when it comes to anyone else but me. He wants to try to fix it but he doesn't know how and i don't know what to tell him. Please help? :(
June 10th, 2019 1:03am
What should I say when someone comes out to me as LGBTQ+?
June 14th, 2019 8:40am
How do I come out as lesbian to my social worker?
August 27th, 2019 8:19pm
How can I show my support to my trans friends? Emotionally? I am very supportive of them, however I know that they are going through a a lot, but I want to off more than “love you” or “I’m here”
June 17th, 2019 12:46pm
I've started to develop really strong feelings for a girl in my class. I get nervous and happy when talking to her. I've never felt this way about a girl before. What should i do?
August 5th, 2019 1:34am
Should I wait to come out to my parents; what if they don't believe me at my age?
July 9th, 2019 8:18am
I am Only a young Teenager, and I am questioning my sexuality, are there any signs that I am Bisexual?
July 8th, 2019 10:26am
How do I know if I’m gay?
June 17th, 2019 12:22pm
I think Im asexual but i dont know what kind. I do not experience sexual attraction and I feel no need for a romantic relationship, but I still notice if someone of any gender is cute, help?
May 20th, 2019 10:31pm
I cant tell if Im bisexual or lesbian?
August 5th, 2019 2:15am
Can you still be asexual but want sex?
August 6th, 2019 2:41am
Not sure if I'm bisexual or just confused from questioning my sexuality?
August 12th, 2019 3:14pm
I'm bisexual and my straight boyfriend isn't homophobic when it comes to anyone else but me. He wants to try to fix being upset about things but he doesn't know how and i don't know what to tell him?
May 21st, 2019 11:45pm
So I’m scared of being bisexual? I know this I stupid but I’m so scared no one will actually like me. Every lesbian doesn’t want to be in a relationship with a bisexual, and every guy gets defensive?
August 27th, 2019 5:29pm
I have a crush on a girl at school. I think. I’ve never really had a serious crush. Idk if I like boys though. Am I bi or lesbian? I could even be hetero but I have no idea!
August 12th, 2019 11:59am
I always thought I was straight.. never questioned it (I'm 21). But I met a girl who I'm pretty sure I have a crush on. What are the odds I'm bi if she's the first girl I've thought of like that?
June 10th, 2019 1:59am
Why is pride forced? I just want to be normal and blend in, I don't understand why I should be proud about something I have no control over.
July 22nd, 2019 8:14am
I’m afraid of my parents being to supportive when i come out, I’m afraid they will look at me diffent even though they fully support lgbtq rights?
June 10th, 2019 1:06am
I'm straight but I might be demiromantic. Is that a thing? cause from what I've seen people are 50/50 about it
August 6th, 2019 8:28am
am i gay if i can only get off on lesbian porn? p.s. ive identified as straight my whole life (help!)
April 23rd, 2019 9:27am
please give me signs to know confirm that I'm trully a bisexual ?
August 5th, 2019 1:25am
I think that I am bisexual, but i have never had a crush on a girl. How should I think about my sexuality?
May 20th, 2019 10:42pm
I’m 13 and I know I like boys. I could only ever picture myself marrying a man. Does thinking a girl is pretty make me bi?
May 20th, 2019 10:51pm
I have no idea what my sexual orientation is?
August 12th, 2019 10:38am
Im confused about my sexuality. Im attracted to guys but Ive never had a crush on them or anyone tbh. Girls are pretty too, but I don't think want to have sex with them (or anyone as for now). Help??
August 27th, 2018 7:58pm
I don't know if I'm bisexual or just overthinking things. What do I do?
July 9th, 2019 8:05am
I'm demisexual - where do I fit into the LGBTQ+ community?
July 8th, 2019 4:46pm
how do i get a girlfriend, when I am a girl?
August 5th, 2019 9:42pm
I don't feel attracted to anybody at all, but I look them up and down. Is this normal? I'm scared to tell anybody in real life so I'm asking here instead. Can anybody help Me?
July 30th, 2019 10:26pm
I like sex but I don’t like relationships, Is this ok?
May 20th, 2019 10:37pm
Am I bisexual or am I just trying to fit in with my gay friends?
August 6th, 2019 5:15pm
Im not sure if im straight or bi, is it just that im find of girls cuz i only have girls as friends or that im genuinely bi, im not allowed to date before 18, im 16?
August 12th, 2019 11:30am
If I'm questioning if I'm bisexual or gay, should I come out to my parents? should I wait until I know? I just don't want people to think it's just a phase if I decide to change my label in the future
July 8th, 2019 10:45am
Is being Heterosexual/romantic panaesthetic a thing? sexually and romantically attracted to the opposite gender but aesthetically attracted to all. Is this correct?
June 17th, 2019 12:12pm
is heteroflexible a valid sexuality?
August 6th, 2019 2:49am
I'm really confused about my sexuality. Is 18 too old to figure out if I'm bi? How can I find out if I'm just going through a phase or if I'm also into girls?
August 12th, 2019 12:04pm
Am I too old (18) to even change my sexuality? I always identified as straight but now start questionning myself, as I have a crush on a girl. But does this automatically mean I'm bisexual?
August 12th, 2019 3:00pm
I've been questioning my sexuality for some time. I do feel I may be attracted to women. I've never been with a women yet but sometimes when I see them I feel so sort of attraction. Can you help me?
August 6th, 2019 2:53am
Am I bicurious if I find some girls really beautiful but can’t imagine myself doing anything sexual with them other than maybe kissing if even that?
August 6th, 2019 2:57am
If i like kissing Girls but nothing more,And i’m a girl but i can see myself only being into a relationship with a Man,am i bi?
August 12th, 2019 10:56am
How do you know what attraction is? What makes you sure you like boys/and or girls?
August 12th, 2019 10:49am
I've dated a few guys, but I'm not sure if I was attracted to any of them . I've never dated a female, but I know for certain I'm attracted to them(outside of the bedroom as well as in) What am I?
July 8th, 2019 9:21pm
boys give me a lot of anxiety, but i still find them attractive. girls are attractive to me but i dont notice them they way i do about boys. what the heck does all of this mean?
June 10th, 2019 12:35am
i think i am bisexual but i would love to date and kiss both men and woman but i would only have sex with the opposite sex as having sex with the same sex makes me cringe what does this mean?
August 6th, 2019 8:39am
how do i know i am ready to come out as a lesbian? just to family
July 8th, 2019 10:50am
How do i come out as bi to my parents if my bro is bi too?
July 30th, 2019 10:23pm
Im bisexual and I'm more sexually attracted to girls then I am guys, theres only been a few times that I've been sexually attracted to a guy. What does this mean?
August 13th, 2018 11:33pm
Am I too young to know my sexuality? I think I'm bisexual but my mom thinks I'm too young to know for sure and that I won't end up being bi when I'm older.
June 17th, 2019 1:26pm
Interested in another girl but couldn't see being sexual with girls, am fully interested in guys, thoughts?
August 5th, 2019 2:23am
I am confused about my sexuality. Im 16 and unsure about what my sexuality is. I do not wish to experiment because of slut shaming. How can I determinate my sexuality?
July 9th, 2019 11:28am
Can I be like pansexual, but without being attracted to males?
August 5th, 2019 2:37am
I’m attracted to a girl at my work, but I’ve always been attracted to men my whole life. What’s different this time?
August 27th, 2018 8:22pm
How to tell your parents that your bisexual if your younger?
June 10th, 2019 12:27am
I can imagine myself marrying another woman, cuddling her, kissing her, falling asleep with her, all that jazz. But I don't find myself incredibly sexually attracted to women. What is this?
August 6th, 2019 8:31am
I feel sexual attraction towards women, but I always picture sex with men. I don't know if it is because that's what I was trained to think, or if I am actually attracted to men. Can someone help?
August 27th, 2018 7:49pm
What’s it mean from a female perspective to be romantically and sexually attracted to men but have an aesthetic attraction to some women?
August 13th, 2019 12:15pm
How can i know that im into girls ?
August 12th, 2019 10:16am
I think I’m straight but I just made a new best friend and started having feelings for him and now I know I am I love with him. What should I do?
August 5th, 2019 1:28am
I'm attracted to people for their personality but I'm not interested in any type of romance with them, what's my sexuality?
August 5th, 2019 10:08pm
What gender would Identify in if I feel like a girl some time, but other i feel like a boy, neither, and both at the same time?
August 26th, 2019 11:53am
How do you tell people your bisexual?
August 5th, 2019 2:18am
It is possible for me to like girls one day and guys the next, but rarely at the same time?
June 11th, 2019 9:53pm
How or should i confess my bisexuality to my Gf when i know she may not approve?
June 17th, 2019 8:09pm
Do i deserve to be bullied? I'm trans and I'm starting to feel like terfs are right about me.
July 1st, 2019 1:18am
I’m a 19 year old guy. I’ve been 100% straight all my life but Out of no where for the last month it feels like my sexuality has changed to gay. What’s going on? I want my opposite sex attraction back
June 17th, 2019 8:03pm
I work with a gay man and he uses the women's restroom instead of the men's. Does he maybe identify himself as a man or as a woman?
August 12th, 2019 10:45am
I like the look of guys, but not sexually... Yet I like girls sexually but not I don’t look at them like it. Like I have a really strong emotional attraction to guys, but no sexual real sexual drive ?
August 12th, 2019 10:29am
Can you be asexual and still like dirty fanfition?
July 1st, 2019 1:12am
Is it really okay to be gay? If being gay and straight were both normal would you be gay if you had the choice?
August 19th, 2019 1:51am
How can I find other LGBT+ teens?
June 11th, 2019 9:28pm
What should I do? An openly gay friend is hiding his feelings for me (woman) and he is fighting it?
August 13th, 2019 3:57pm
What is my sexuality if my boyfriend is transgender (ftm) and I am sexually attracted to him but I am not attracted to females?
June 11th, 2019 10:11am
How do I figure out if I’m straight or something else?
July 8th, 2019 1:45pm
How can I find out if I’m gay, but too awkward to try anything?
July 8th, 2019 2:15pm
I'm pretty sure I'm bisexual, but I love this girl not in a sexual manner. Is it possible to be sexually attracted to males but romantically attracted to females?
June 10th, 2019 6:33am
Im pretty sure im bisexual, but i love this girl not in a sexual manner. Is it possible to be secually attracted to males but romantically attracted to females?
August 6th, 2019 5:03pm
What do you call a man that is attracted to women and feminine transgenders?
June 10th, 2019 1:52pm
I always identified as a straight male, but last year I forced myself to like guys and now I like guys too! The idea of being with a guy sounds awesome and safe. Does that make me bisexual?
August 19th, 2019 7:38am
I'm not a girl and I'm not a boy. I know who I am and what am. I don't feel comfortable being either gender. What do I do now?
May 21st, 2019 11:55pm
I know I’m bi but I can’t accept it fully. I don’t judge the LGBTQ+ community as long as they are being fair. I can’t help but think I must be wrong so I push my feelings aside. How do I accept this?
August 26th, 2019 11:30pm
Any parents of an lgbt teen that recently came out? I am and am struggling. Anyone else?
August 13th, 2019 4:04pm
Am I bi? I'm sure I'm attracted to men. But, I recently started dating a woman and while I'm emotionally infatuated, I don't have a strong sexual desire towards her [I'm OK with having sex with her]
July 8th, 2019 4:36pm
Why is it so hard to accept that I’m bi and I’m not going through a phase?
August 20th, 2019 12:52am
Can I be attracted to certain genders sexually and some just romanticly? How would I date in this way?
August 5th, 2019 1:55am
I’ve been trying to figure out my gender for awhile. But recently I’ve realized I’m kinda numb to gender roles. I don’t really care if I’m a boy or a girl so I’m not really sure what I’d identify as?
August 5th, 2019 1:19am
I don't know what my sexual orientation is, but I legitimately don't care and don't have a strong opinion on it. It just doesn't feel like a huge part of my identity. Is this normal?
July 8th, 2019 9:33pm
I have many out friends and supportive friends who would support me, so why can’t I bring myself to come out?
July 8th, 2019 9:25pm
I am bi, but what if my opposite sex crush thinks I’m lesbian?
August 5th, 2019 11:15am
I have no idea what my gender is. I've taken tons of tests and quizzes. I believe I'm genderfluid (born female) but I also prefer they/he. Sometimes I feel both genders sometimes neither or a weird mix. How can I tell?
August 27th, 2019 12:11am
Am I still bisexual if I'm attracted to the opposite sex 90% of the time?
August 5th, 2019 10:02pm
How can I tell my best friend and boyfriend that I'm bisexual? Is there certain things I should say or not say? Please help.
August 12th, 2019 2:51pm
What do I do if I can't decide if I am lesbian or bisexual? I can only see myself with a woman in the future, but I continue to question myself and it's really messing with my mind.
August 19th, 2019 2:03am
My mom doesn't accept me for me. I am bisexual but she's so christian. How can I get her to understand who I am without the religion included?
April 24th, 2019 5:14pm
Is it weird that I'm not sexually attracted to people? I've been like this since i was 14 when people my age were getting sexually attracted to others I wasn't, I'm now 29. Is there something wrong with me?
August 16th, 2019 1:39am