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Abbyrose23
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Is my military relationship slowing failing?...please help
Relationship Stress / by Abbyrose23
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 January 24th, 2020
...See more Ive currently been in a 5 1/2 month relationship with my boyfriend who is in the navy. We havent been together that long but our bond was/hopefully still is strong. We are about 1,500 miles apart and have been for the past 4 months. He comes home in 2 weeks and is so eager to see everyone. He struggled last month with mental health and was unsure about the relationship that he started pushing me away, ignoring me, and making me feel like an online booty call. He was struggling with being in the navy and admitted he had lost feelings and lost himself I helped him work through his mental down spiral and apologized for saying that and that I meant the world to him and he truly does want to be with me. I was my fault too because I was pressuring him about fixing our relationship because we both felt a drift. We took a break from the relationship for a week and decided at the end wether or not we would still want to be together. And we decided yes and that we would both work harder. Well weeks later hes showing red flags. He ignores me for hours when hes not busy, and when he answers its so dry. Its breaking my heart and whenever I try to talk about it he dismisses my feelings. He still shows that he cares but I am afraid that he is slowly losing interest in me. He will he getting deployed to Washington state in 2 months and wants me to go to college out there so we can be together...not sure what to do so any advice will be much appreciated. :)
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