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AceCake9197
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Asexual with a surprising amount of healthy coping mechanisms who's honestly too lazy and unmotivated to do anything except work and sleep


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Some advice please?
Relationship Stress / by AceCake9197
Last post
 July 12th, 2024
...See more So here goes, I'm just sitting doing my reports and stuff after doing some chores this morning and making myself some tea. Now this was early this morning before 9am. Fast forward to lunch time (1-2pm) I hear my partner clattering in the kitchen, so he's just making himself some lunch, no biggie, I go in and just ask "whatcha doing" and he replies in his own lil way "what's it look like?" (He was cutting some spring onions for his lil omelette) We just go about our own lil thing and I make myself a ham sandwich and go back into our office to eat my food while working away on my reports, he calls out if I'm done with the bread and I reply saying yes (after hesitation due to not hearing him right) I go to eat my sandwich and see there's mould on the bread so I immediately go into the kitchen to tell him and he just coldly replies "yea I know it expired yesterday" continuing to make his food. I bin mine and grab snacks to tide me over until dinner as it's nearly 3pm at this stage Then he's acting like somethings up so I ask him "what's wrong" I get the reply of " go away, I don't want to see you right now" while he's just making himself food, not even looking in my direction. This was a while ago now and he's shut himself in the bedroom basically all day and I've just not got the gall to ask because he's 30 years old and tbh has to stop acting so childish and tell me what happened?
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Hey everyone!
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by AceCake9197
Last post
 April 15th, 2023
...See more Happy Ace here! I'm happy I joined this app I feel better about everything already!
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Break up help
Relationship Stress / by AceCake9197
Last post
 April 16th, 2023
...See more So I've been with this guy for around 4 months and I had to basically rebuild my life due to emotional distress and work related issues, he was fantastic at the start and was there when I needed him but now he's becoming more and more narcissistic and plays victim (as well as constantly causing issues out of nothing) and has tried literally blaming me for his insecurities. I'm not one to break people down but this is really getting to me, we spent no time together at all now and I just need help and guidance on the best way to break up with him that'll hurt him no more than it has to I've told him I'm free on Thursday so we can talk and I can do it then
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