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...See more Hey guys so, the way I was brought up I'm a pretty old school person, not the whole sex before marriage thing but I do think that sex should be done in an intimate relationship only, no hook ups, no friends with benefits. I've always strongly said no to doing any sort of thing like that. ... However, I've come to realize, in today's society guys don't care about falling in love anymore. All guys want is a quick night with a girl and if it happens to be the same girl every night as long as they're getting sex it doesn't matter to them. So often I hear people talking about being intimate with other people, and of course I want a boyfriend but I know that's not something possible in todays society so I've made up my mind that I'm just going to make myself have sex with a guy to get it over with. With that decision made comes the actual action of going through with it, my only problem is that I have severe sexual anxiety to the point where I have little to no sex drive and even kissing a guy makes me feel sick, so I just wanted some advice from girls who like to hook up, how do you bring yourself to be so intimate with a guy you don't even know, also what are some ways to overcome sexual anxiety? I've seen some advice saying to communicate with your partner but a hookup isn't exactly a partner and guys don't like to wait around they just want a quick pleasure experience so I don't know what to do and I just want advice I'm not changing my mind on this plan. Thanks!

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