Alicia0010405 Member Profile

...See more I [20female] have been dating my bf [26male] for a year. Since he's older than me he's had more experince with dating and women and I feel insecure with some of his past relationships. His exs are all tall blonde and beautiful women and i feel inadequate. I am fully that he wouldnt be dating me if he didnt like me but I can't get these intrusive thoughts out of my head. The main issue here happened a couple weeks ago on a night out. He wouldn't stop flirting with my blonde friend and she was definitely interested in him. He paid me no attention and i felt very insecure when he walked arm in arm with her and left me walking behind them. Here's where I know I messed up. I went through his phone. I looked at a message in which he was bragging about having opportunities to cheat. He did say he hadnt took the opportunities but I was already upset. I have been cheated on in a past relationship and he knows I have trust issues steming from that. I knew i shouldnt have been on his phone though so i was never going to mention it until I got drunk and had a fight with him and mentioned ehat i had read on his phone. I lied about how i had found that information but he eventually got it out of me that i had gone through his phone. He said he forgives me but the trust will take time to repaid but i still feel awful. I know i messed up and i expected him to dunp me but idk how to move on. I need to know how to get over these invasive thoughts of mine and my trust issues. Im projecting my stuff onto him and its not right. Please someone help me

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