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Alleynia
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Cynical and pessimistic artist and writer.

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Self-Isolation Decision - Good or Bad?
Anxiety Support / by Alleynia
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 April 15th, 2018
...See more Hi there, I am Alleyne. Due to friendship problems, I decided it is best if I self-isolate myself from everyone who can only contact me via online interaction. I didn't cut off all contact, but I decided to stay off all instant messengers so no one can contact me except through slower methods like e-mail. I don't share my phone number, so they can't contact me that way either. I did give the option of e-mail for an emergency, but other than that, I said I will not respond to anything. I made this decision because I feel like my friends are liars and not being honest about how much I burden them. Therefore I feel I am giving them what they truly want by distancing myself entirely and not giving them the option to speak to me. I'm always the person who has to message others first, and I feel like my kindness and presence is taken for granted. The fact that no one tried to contact me anyway is just a sign to me that my fears are correct and that I am really not worth fighting for. This was kind of a test to see how dedicated they really were, and not a single one bothered to fight and say "no please don't do this." Was it, therefore, a good idea that I decided to completely isolate myself? By the way, I have no friends in person. Every friend I have is online and are too far away to physically get in contact with me.
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