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Relationship Stress / by Anatomicalpsychology
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 February 7th, 2025
...See more My friend told me she is an avoidant I find myself an anxious and I told her too, she shows many signs of care yet she always pulls away and I find her really afraid sometimes of certain things like when we meet or talk, truth is I just want her to be happy regardless of me so I tried pulling away because of my overthinking yet she stopped me every time with caring words I will never forget. I told her I love her a lot she said “but you are my close friend” now I’m stuck in this loop there is no way I can know the lie from the truth because of her attachment style and the wounds she has been through, I just want to know the best way I can make her happy this is all what I want and for this reason every action I take has been weighing a lot me (like calling her or asking to meet her) I tried not to reach out but she did reach out then kinda disappeared I guess whatever I try to do whether chase her or pull away from her I will always feel bad because I didnt take the best action
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