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What am I??? Am I gender fluid or what?
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by AndromedaGalaxy14
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 February 11th, 2023
...See more I came out to everyone three years ago (12yo) as trans ftm. Last year, I went from just he/him pronouns to he/they. But within the last week or so, it's become more and more obvious that something's not quite right with that. I used to be extremely upset by any female terms, then last year I was starting to get used to them, and now this year I almost like them? People call me she/her and I don't feel the need to correct them, not because I'm afraid of being assertive about my pronouns but because I genuinely don't mind it at all anymore. But the thing is, I feel... Bad about this. I spent three years trying my hardest to get people to see me as male, or to at least use the right name and pronouns. If I changed any of that I'd be reversing it. I already changed my name at the end of last year after deciding I didn't like my original chosen name, and I'm SO happy with my current name (Adonis). But, the other day some random girl came up to me and told me I looked like my name would be Andromeda. Since then, I haven't stopped thinking about that name. I've heard it once or twice since, and I just googled it to find out it has EXTREMELY similar roots as Adonis. Before that, I had been questioning my pronouns, but not my name. I'm still perfectly happy with my name, but I almost want both? I don't know if that's really an option or not, but I like both, they're pretty similar, and they both fit me. Both have origins in Greek mythology, which I've loved since I was little, and Andromeda is associated with space, which I've also always loved. My first chosen name was Jupiter, so the space thing definitely fits with me as a person. I don't know. I'm scared to talk to anyone about this. So far I've only told my girlfriend. I told her how I was questioning my pronouns and she told me not to worry about it too much, and now she hasn't really had much comment on the name, so I don't really know what to do.
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