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Animo95
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Being Practical or Stick to your Virtue?
Relationship Stress / by Animo95
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 August 15th, 2022
...See more Hi All, I have been in a relationship since last 2.5 years. 1st year everything was okay. But then my gf told me that she is suffering from depression and the symptoms are bit severe compared to first time she was diagonised about 2 yrs before we came into relationship. {We are kind of in long distance relationship since beginning considering me in full time job and she persuing her grad.} She asked me if i want to move on. I thought for sometime but decided to be with her no matter what. By then both of us had told at our home about each other. I didn't though mention this to my parents. We continued to be in relationship but as time passed by she kind of started pushing me away. Month across month she would block me and ask me to move ahead but then me still sticking to her led her to come back. This went for few months till this Jan when i last met her after which she has been talking very less and more determined to push me away. She has almost stopped talking to me. Though i have been in touch with her mom. Both of them are asking me to move on for better of both of us. I told my parents a week about her depression and they also told me to move on as future with her will be tough. I know she loves me a lot for sure as recently on our anniversary i sent her a gift and she unblocked me and expressed how much she loved that gift.. She talked with me for few days before blocking me again. My heart is saying that a disease shouldnt be a reason to move on and if yoy truly love her nothing should come as hindrance.. or whatever comes can be handled with love and care. But mind is saying that what if what others are saying comes true and my decision will ruin both of our lives. Well when everyone i know have been same side as my mind my heart is willing to stay there. Trust her, myself and our love. I know this decision has to be mine but if someone can share experience. PS: i have already read numerous posts already on internet.
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