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AnonymousFurb
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I am a 27 year old male, I love playing video games and watching anime. When it comes to live action shows I prefer to watch things that are sci-fi and medieval though I do like some modern styled shows.

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In a conflicted relationship, need help.
Relationship Stress / by AnonymousFurb
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 October 1st, 2020
...See more I've been in a relationship about a year and 4 months now... we became engaged like 4 months after dating and I believe it was all good and fine. I did see some red flags and ignored them whenever it seemed like she didn't approve of one of my friends and when I would try and hang out with other friends she wouldn't let me. Now, I do have anxiety and depression, a tendency to self victimize myself unintentionally and always feel like crap whenever something happened between me and her, and I've tried getting help before elsewhere other than here, but she has told me that if I don't get help then she couldn't be with me anymore. She got me to believe she'd never leave me and I never took that for granted and last Tuesday we had a LONG talk and I was so crushed during it, there was at least a 99% chance that it could've ended up with us breaking up but she said that the only way for us to get better is again for me to get therapy... why does this fit in break ups you may ask? Because at this point I think I'm already heart broken because it just seems like she isn't the woman I fell in love with. There's a lot more to this conflicted relationship and I would like to explain further if anyone would like me to but I want to ask... how does someone who doesn't want to hurt a person break up because they already feel so shattered? I'm trying my hardest to build up that confidence but it's so hard
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