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AnonymousGhostie
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Relationship Stress / by AnonymousGhostie
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 December 6th, 2021
...See more I’m just a kid, how old? Young enough that I shouldn’t have to deal with this.. at least I think so 🤷🏻‍♀️ I’ve been friends with this girl I’ve known for a few years, and she was a good friend, but I believe she’s becoming bad influence on me.. I’m not a bad kid, i follow the rules, i don’t do drugs, i don’t date behind my parents back, and I never really did anything too bad. But when I met her I started doing more things I shouldn’t. Not too bad of things, i know where to draw the line. Still things I shouldnt do. My friend showed me Omegle one day, and If you know, you know. I saw things that made me uncomfortable, I told her and she said that we wouldn’t go on video, that was still uncomfortable for me but I didn’t do anything. Then she just wanted to ‘see’ the video part of Omegle again.. I felt to awkward to say that I didn’t want to see it again. Then recently, my friend found a drug dealer, okay whatever live your life, but then she’s wanting me to witness her get high?? I said no and she responded ‘I might hallucinate, so I have to have someone sober’ I said no again, I probably made her uncomfortable, but she should know better than to have someone a lot younger than her watch her get high.. Shes still a minor, but she’s almost an adult. i use to help her with problems as well, I was the therapist of the group after all, but whenever I was a little distraught or something the only response I would get is ‘oof’ or ‘I’m sorry dang’ and then she’s move on. I don’t have anxiety or depression like she says she has, but I still think my feelings should be valid enough to get some concernent.. she says she has trouble helping people because she doesn’t know what to say, but it would still be nice for her to just be there for me. I don’t know what to do. Am I a bad friend for thinking like this of her? Am I being dramatic, should I still be friends? I’ve been thinking that I shouldn’t be friends for a while, but the thing is; we have the same friend group, if I stop being friends with her, I’ll lose all my other friends.. and everyone I know kind of ignore me.. advice anyone?? Thank you therapy family <3
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