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...See more hello everyone my partner (31f) just recently cheated on me(30m) about two weeks ago which forced a break up. it is still very fresh to me and it has caused a lot of stress on my day to day life. I can’t eat, get a full nights of rest, watch tv or anything that requires my attention. a little back story. A coworker of hers had a birthday party at his house where he decided to cheat on his wife with a friend of his. After the incident he quickly called my gf at 3am asking for advice and how to navigate though it. We decided to go out for lunch with her co worker and his wife the next day to be of support. We start drinking having a good time. Our lunch was coming to an end but we decided to go to a local brewery in our neighborhood. At the brewery my ex and her co worker disappear for a suspicious amount of time I am at the table with his wife wondering where they went and what was going on, I texted my ex asking what the hold up was. She said she had been talking to her coworker about the night before with his friend. I thought that was a little weird but I brushed it off, once they made it back I kept noticing nervous eye contact between them. So I pulled my ex aside and asked about what happened with their disappearance. She said he just vented about cheating that was all. we all go home and I woke up to her coworkers wife letting me know that her husband has slept with my ex that night. she found deleted messages of them later that night. I was completely blindsided by it all, his wife also had to tell me that it was unprotected sex and he had fished on her chest. I was obliterated with all of the info the wife was providing. Cheating is unforgivable in my opinion so we broke up right away moved out the same day. Went no contact with her for the rest of the week. Week 2 we talk and meet in person that same day. Sat on the beach and just talked for 3 hours. After it all I was left confused and not knowing what I really wanted anymore. Is it healthy to keep contact with your cheating ex also occasionally seeing each other? Could I get past this issue while working things out with her? I don’t know. thank you listening.

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