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I am the sole money maker in the house and she can’t clean the house or even make it so we have adult activities in bed on any frequency please help
Relationship Stress / by AtrainOC
Last post
 November 22nd, 2025
...See more Married 17 years together 27 years. My wife has fibromyalgia, depression, and anxiety. I ask her to go to doctors for years now and she can’t get her self to go to see some one consistently. I am the only one that works. She does not take care of cleaning the house. If we have sex 1 time a month that’s a lot. We are very close to loosing everything and I have been asking her to find a job to help out with the bills and she says she is working on finding a job and gives me every excuse in the book why it has not happened. This has been going on for 6-7 years. I am ready to Loose my *** please help. I am ready to just give up but I have to 2 kids that count on me. Any recommendations would be greatly appreciated
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Relationship Stress / by AtrainOC
Last post
 October 19th, 2025
...See more I have been married 16 years almost 17 the beginning things were good but now my wife got hurt at work almost 10 years ago all the work comp stuff ended like 5 years ago and my wife struggles with anxiety and depression and Fibromyalgia. My wife has not worked since she got hurt at work in 2016 and she has mentally gotten worse year over year. She does not do much if anything to help her self get better. She missed lots of family and kids stuff and well as not taking care of the house. I work 4-5 jobs and do all I can to help my kids and her when I can with me working so much. I am a guy that likes adult activities in the bedroom and that does not happen very often and I am very frustrated. I am looking for suggestions. I truly need her to work but that does not happen. We are financially no doing well we are close to being evicted. Any guidance or advice would be great.
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Disabled Wife - Not working wife - Fibromyalgia
Relationship Stress / by AtrainOC
Last post
 November 6th, 2024
...See more OK, I will try this,  I have no idea what I am doing.  I have never asked for help and am not sure I know how.   I have been married to my wife for 16 years on Saturday.  Back in 2016, she was injured at work, workers compensation screwed her over and did nothing to help her with her injury.  Since her injury, she has fallen into an almost hermit state.  She is depressed and has anxiety and Fibromyalgia.  I have been the only one working since July 2016.  Things were okay for the First few years I was working in corporate America and we only had one child.  We now have 2 great kids.  So that gives you a little background. my daughter was born in 2017. Well here is where I am now.  I feel like I am the Cash cow for the family and that is all I am good for.  There are more often than not times that my wife says she is in pain or has a headache or Verdigo and can not do whatever is going on for that day.  The house does not get clean.  She does cook when she has to.  she does do laundry but folding at least her and my laundry is still in bags.  on top of that the Physical part of our relationship is very little too rarely there.  Please help me maybe have a different perspective.  I am at my wit's end I hate how I feel.    
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