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...See more I am a kind man, people been always describes me that way since I was a kid Don't get it wrong, I am tough and big but I come with a big heart Me and my gf been 2 and half years together When we are arguing I am the kind of person that won't say something mean that keep hurts you even after the argue is over, you know those a tuff that keeps you wake in the middle of the night remembering why they said that? On the other hand my gf always had a temper, sometimes she just lose it and start going "full mean mode" saying all kind of stuff, the rating of doing something that would hurt me that we agreed from day 1 in our relation we are not gonna get mear it Lately we are having some changes in our lives "not seen each other for 3 weeks" and that mean mod is happening a lot and it hurts me 3 times in a week is the number and now I am kind of scared tbh I am planning for us to get engaged soon, but I am thinking what if we are married with kids and something triggered her enough to start using every word she know to hurt me? She also is the kind of people would leave the home, ask for divorce a lot in the angry time and maybe take away the kids who know... I have shared this concerns with her many times and I explained my feeling that I would appreciate being in a relation that I knows small arguing and fight won't threat it's future, but it doesn't look like opening up is working? What should I do my friends?

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