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...See more I feel very pathetic, I really do. Here I am. 28 year old girl with successful carrier, and maybe not Miss World, but really looking after myself (gym, food, beauty…) Here I am, after 3 weeks of break up with the guy I was seeing for only 4 months (I know this sounds even more ridiculous) still crying and not being able to enjoy life. I have to say- I had the most beautiful 4 month of my life seeing this guy- we did all the nice things we both really enjoyed. One BAD day, where everything just seemed wrong (work, family issues), he also cancelled our date on Friday, which I was so looking forward to due to work event. I failed, I put all my anger on him until I pissed him off. I was wrong and realized this next morning, went back apologizing by texts, calls and eventually went to meet him by his office with tears in my eyes, saying how sorry I was. He was stressed working like crazy for nearly 3-4 weeks. It seemed OK, but not completely. I knew he had a friend visit that weekend so I was not supposed to see him either Sat or Sunday. But still tried. Being very annoying went on and on and on with my texts trying to meet him at least for lunch. Eventually he said he is not sure about all this thing- “getting too much- work & stress”. I asked to meet him and talk in person, so we did. He seemed very depressed and tired from work (only could come and meet me for 20 mins and had to go back to work), we had a calm chat, I offered him Space and some time off, but he said he does not need this. That week we were supposed to spend Valentines weekend together. I had cinema tickets and dinner table booked. When I texted him a day after our chat- he said he had another day in hell at work and he doubt he can deal with work and relationship at the moment, his mood is really down now. Me trying with the last hope to fix the situation, still asking to go to cinema and have some proper time together, and if he doesn’t feel like it after that, I would back off. He said he will confirm tomorrow, maybe will have some better sleep. No we did not go to the cinema or dinner- he said he can’t enjoy anything at the moment and he is really sorry. I asked him if we can still have some time together, he said right now he only feels like getting some good rest which is not even possible. I was never a naive girl, always had a feeling when something wasn’t going right. Never had one here. I was never a needy girl, it was enough for me to see him during the weekend- I have a lot of my life too. I have never pushed him to anything- he was the one sending me post card while being abroad. But now, after so many advises I am totally lost. I feel very down and lost absolutely all of my confidence. Lots of my friends are telling me he will come back, he will realize. But maybe all this situation was just an excuse to break up? Maybe there is someone else. Hard to believe that though… I must say, before we started this relationship, we saw it other at the beginning of summer few times, but it seemed like he was not interested, so I left him alone. He was the one coming back to me after few months and asking me out I know I did a terrible mistake being needy and annoying.. I know I did.. But I havent killed anyone, I havent cheated on him. I was just so unsecured with all situation, that wanted to meet and solve it asap.. I wish I could turn time back, but I cant.. No I only wonder if there is smth I can do at al…

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