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...See more My ex has always been the social butterfly type and this was all good for me as we were young and we didn't have kids. 7 years down the track we had my daughter. We always fought over anything but he would come home. Then there were times where he would run away to his mums which in turn became a ha The mum doesn't really care if he's at her place as she loves to have her kids on lockdown as she cannot drive and needs financial support from them. She doesnt even tell him to go home. In one of our fights he went to his mums house and went to a brothel and didnt go ahead of it because he said he loves me and was angry. Then another fight he went on an online dating site and dated a chick from a month only to find out she was fake. This was hard on me as we hadn't mum first daughter together. We always fight over small things and it every time we fight he talk so to girls. never gets solved on the spot. Now we have another child this year who is 4 on this and one time when I checked his phone history he was on a hooker site. He didn't take action but it makes you wonder if he is loyal because everytime we fight he runs way and talk s to girls girls online when we have a fightHe promised he wouldn't do This to me. We fight over small things like when I "nag" to tell him to keep the room clean and I never liked his family to begin with they're so demanding. I think he doesn't need like me saying these things anyways he told me he moved on. I wanted him to stay here and help me with the kids and he said he would and he didn't. We talked two days later he asked for his clothes and i told him I told my father how he goes to brothel and a hooker site. My dad was fuming and I think that's why my ex hasn't no come to collect his things. I still love him I even texted him every day but I can tell always be the one trying to fix things and chase him. I changed my SIM card on the phone because everytime we talk or text just end up fighting. I'm sick of the girl always making him happy ans myself miserable he was always drinking and hardly home and smoking weed. His life has being going downhill he even stole some timber from his job to payback the guy that gave him free weed. He has a bad temper when he is drunk and there a bottle at the police station. I think these are all red flags I still love him but I don't want to tell him that and I have been doing the NO Contact rule as it only makes matters worst for me. His mums house has fleas and dust mites so he won't be seeing the kids and he reckons when they get rid of them that the kids will go there but I won't let that happen. The last time we had a fight I caught him talking to another girl he never used to do this when he had no smartphone and wen we had no kids. I don't know how to move on but I still miss him and I told him I loved him but I've stopped now I've cut all contact. This has been going in circles our relationship has been going on and off for three years now. He plays mind games with me or tells me lies so I can't r ally trust him and he's not really responsible lucky I am living with my parents. He drank about 4 cans with my daughter in the car and him driving so I worry and his mum stays inside the house while my daughter isn outside with his 7 year old niece when she goes over there house. I decide to cut all ties what do people think?

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