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I need advice
Relationship Stress / by Billy88
Last post
May 21st, 2025
...See more Thank you for listening. I guess I'll just start from the beginning. She reconnected with a childhood friend. I have some physical health issues so I can't do certain things and my wife loves working out and running every day and she found out that one of her childhood friends that she hasn't seen in 20 something years works out every day at the YMCA and so she asked if she could work out with him. I didn't see a problem with it. I met the guy seemed like a nice dude a few months go by. I started having weird feelings that something was going on. I asked her she said no l asked her. She said no about 2 1/2 weeks ago. I had a really bad anxiety attack and just had a really bad feeling so I went through her phone And found out that she's been just having an emotional and a little physical affair talking texting and they kissed a handful of times four or five different times which she allowed it to happen for a few minutes before she realized what was doing the first time and stopped him and told him that she was married and she can't do this. Well he kissed her again and this time she didn’t stop him and kissed him back. She said they kissed for about ten minutes on five separate occasions and then she ended because she felt guilty but she never told me about it. And I do believe her because I read all the text messages that she had sent to him. He said he was sorry for making a move on her and that he couldn’t help how he felt. She said this has to stop because she doesn’t want to lose her family and she’s being stupid and that she still loved me. But like I said she didn’t tell me and she misses him as a friend. So I don’t know what to do!!!
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Leave or stay?
Relationship Stress / by Billy88
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May 22nd, 2025
...See more Would you leave your significant other if you found out that they were having an emotional affair and a small physical affair and what I mean by that is just kissing it happened five different times after the fifth time she told him no I can’t do this anymore I’m married. I’m sorry, but she never told me about it. I found out about it by sneaking on her phone. So now I feel like all she is going to do is lie and hide things for me.
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