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...See more My girlfriend broke up with me due to her mental health. She claims she wants to be with me still, but since she can’t be there for me at the moment or come up with the energy to spend time with me anymore, she ended things. I felt her slowly drifting apart from me for about a year now, she never spent time with me, missed my birthday/holiday, and just used every excuse in the book. She kept asking for space, which I was giving her as much as I possibly could without getting upset myself about things. Over time it wore on me, we just never did anything ever and I called her out and kept calling her out for it. I quite frankly was pissed because I kept putting in 100% effort and was given none in return. so anyway, she broke up with me and explained her situation which I completely understand!! I just don’t get why it had to last so long and hurt me so much 😭😭😭 she says she wants to ultimately get back together and get back to the way things used to be but I don’t even know if I believe that is possible… also, what if this happens again?? I just don’t wanna wait around for ever you know what I mean? I love her to death and would do anything for her, but it has been 2 months and I just don’t know when it is the right time to try to move on because it isn’t going anywhere. I keep having these breakdowns and texting her to see if her plans to get back together are still in place but she gets upset when I do that and says it “resets” her healing process. like I really don’t know what to do

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