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Blondeandhound25
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SAHM Advice
Women's Issues / by Blondeandhound25
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February 24th, 2025
...See more I’m a stay at home mom. I run our small family farm and manage our short term rental. I also clean 2 of our neighbors short term rentals. My spouse has one job M-F and every few months or so does some side work. He frequently tells me my work is not as important as his and rubs the fact that he makes more money in my face. It hurts my feelings and I feel I do a lot to contribute to the household. The house is clean I make the meals , run all the errands. I asked for help when our child wakes in the middle of the night and he says I need to help with that. I pushed back and said that the over night work would be a good time for him to contribute to our child’s needs at night. He thinks that is a ridiculous request and I still need to help at that time. Does anyone have advice on how they split work? Looking for other advice from stay at home moms. Where do you find balance or get a break?
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A man’s perspective on marriage
35 & Over Community / by Blondeandhound25
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January 10th, 2025
...See more Looking to get a man’s perspective on marriage and trust. I’ve never been unfaithful but I have been through a lot in my life. I have a very hard shell and it’s difficult for me to open up. My husband tells me I’m not supportive enough, nurturing enough. I think I try to fill these needs but her can’t really communicate what is helpful. Can anyone describe something that have helped them feel closer to their spouse. Feeling stuck.
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