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BlueFox369
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Relationship Stress / by BlueFox369
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 December 24th, 2018
...See more So I've been having a hard time satisfying my boyfriend and I want other opinions on what I should do. I know that the problems we have sexually is because of me and my inability to gain enough confidence or balls to do anything. He initiates most of our sexual activities. And because of this he thinks I'm not attracted to him. I do love him a lot, he's my everything but if I can't satisfy him in anyway I feel like I don't deserve him. And eventually he's gonna leave or cheat. He's the first and only guy I've done stuff with. So yea I'm inexperienced, most of the time I don't know what the heck I'm doing and watching videos to teach myself doesn't help at all. Well basically what I'm asking is if I should just break it off before he cheats. He admits to being a man hoe in his past and how if I do get boring he will leave. Idk if he really means it or not. It's really embarrassing for me when I can't satisfy him and I just feel like the lamest person ever. Idk what I should do.
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Relationship Stress / by BlueFox369
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 November 26th, 2018
...See more My boyfriend is starting to get really mad at me and idk how I should speak my mind to him. We've been arguing on and off about how I act and what I don't do. It's gotten so bad to where we both don't see a future together anymore. Most of this is my fault because my communication skills are little to nothing. But I don't want to tell him the truth because I don't want him feeling bad. Here's the problem. He wants me to be a traditional housewife which I'm ok with but my problem is that we live with his parents and I feel really uncomfortable even just being here. His parents are really nice but I still can't stop feeling awkward. Now our relationship is at risk when I know I can be what he wants me to be no problem. I just don't know how to tell him the truth. Plus I don't want to force him to move out when I won't be graduating until January so I won't be able to get a job until then. It seems simpler if I just move out and finish my schooling and work so I can get my own place and then maybe we can get back together. Idk what I should do and what the best option is for us.
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