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Breathless414
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Relationship Stress / by Breathless414
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 March 4th, 2018
...See more Been together 7 years married almost 4. He has 13yo we have 6 yo together. The 13 has never respected me and husband does not step in to make him listen to me. 13 is now taller than me and gets in my face screaming at me. Husband will go behind my back and give him something I told him no about. Husband is alcoholic and wont admit it. I cant take the constant drinking anymore We do not see eye to eye on most things anymore. He has accused me of cheating which I never have. He has smoked behind my back and lied about it even when he knew I found his cigarettes. It makes me worry what else he is capable of lying about. Whenever we have problems either he shuts me out or its all my fault. He will not go to counseling with me or for drinking. My gut tells me to leave but something holds me back. I dont know if its bc I still hope for a change or if its just the fear of the actual divorce process. I am so torn and feel such a mess. I feel like I am hopeless and a lost cause. All I do know is I cannot keep going like this anymore. I want to protect myself and my 6 yo but I also worry what this will do to him.
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