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...See more Hello everyone. I just need someone to listen and give advice if possible. I was in an abusive relationship a couple years ago, I left and now have a new boyfriend. I struggle with trusting this guy and I dont know if it is because I am insane from my last relationship or if my intuition is telling me something isnt right. I love him very much and he has done a lot for me and my 2 kids. But he just seems kinda distant. I dont know if thats just his personality or what. Me and him started dating a little over a year ago and he ghosted me after dating for 5 months and I didnt hear from him for about 2 months. I was upset but he ended up reaching back out to me and we hit it off again. He told me a couple of months ago that he ghosted me for another woman. I asked him if he still talks to other women and he told me about one girl that he talks to every now and again. She flirts with him and wants to be with him and he told me he likes the attention. I told him it bothers me because I give him attention and I dont know why that isnt enough for him. But I feel like I cant be too upset about him ghosting next since we werent technically together at the time but it still hurts because I did care for him at that time a lot. I feel like my love for him isnt the same. He tells me last night that hes got a lot of snaps on Snapchat and my mind wanders in dark places. Please help Im driving myself mad lol. Thank you for reading and offering advice

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