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Britishuser100
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Lesbian sex issues
LGBTQ+ / MOGII Support / by Britishuser100
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 February 28th, 2021
...See more I have been with my girlfriend for 1 year & 6 months now & my previous relationship was with a man (for 7 years). I’m a female by the way. When we first met she wouldn’t let me touch her or anything, she would only have sex with me. She said she didn’t want to ‘give herself to me’ that early on in the relationship until she felt comfortable, so she only touched me. & before me I know she’s slept with a lot of girls, which made me feel insecure anyway. Anyway, we are now over a year in the relationship & it’s a real serious relationship. She knows my body down to a T & knows how to make me orgasm everytime. But I still haven’t got the hang of it :( she gets frustrated with me because I never do anything right when we are having sex. At the beginning of the relationship she used to get really angry with me & make me cry saying I’m bad in bed & I’m selfish. But I just can’t seem to get the hang of it. Don’t get me wrong, I have made her cum a fair amount of times but it’s nothing compared to her with me. She even guides me through it & she just doesn’t like anything I do to her. I don’t know what more to do because it’s absolutely destroyed all my confidence in the bedroom that I used to have before I met her. & now I get crazy anxiety every time I even think about coming onto her, incase she says I’m shit again and rejects me. This morning she said we have to have a “rule” now that I have to make her cum or she won’t touch me in bed anymore. It breaks my heart to know that she thinks I’m that bad in bed. & she also said this morning that she used to let all her previous girlfriends have sex with her all the time. I have no-one I can talk to about this because all of my friends are straight and I just don’t know what else to do... it’s driving me crazy and I’m scared it’s going to cost our relationship because of it. Please please pleassssse can a lesbian gal out there help me out!!! :(
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