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Brixr
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What should I do about a relationship I previously said no to but now regret?
Relationship Stress / by Brixr
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 December 29th, 2022
...See more When I started working at my first job I met a coworker who I eventually grew to have feelings for. She’s sweet and smart and we were always on the same wave. Thinking the same thing and feeling the same thing. She was probably the most perfect person I have ever met. We went out on what I called dates to others but to her I called it hanging out to keep my feelings low in case she didn’t feel the same way. Eventually I opened up to her and told her I liked her and she felt the same. We didn’t make it official and she crashed her car so we didn’t really talk about it for a while. Then she told me she was polyamorous which I am not. I thought I wouldn’t mind it but then she told me she was starting to like a guy. I told her I wasn’t interested in dating guys and I wasn’t really sure if I wanted to share her with someone else. We talked it out and I told her I didn’t think we would work. At the time I didn’t know it but I said no because I was scared of her leaving me for someone else. I feel like I regret my decision but I don’t think I can tell her because she is now dating the guy she liked. I keep having dreams about her and it’s driving me insane how much I miss her. What should I do? Should I forget her and move on? Should I tell her how I’ve been feeling? Idk what to do and I’m really stressed and I really really miss her. Sorry for the very long writing I just want to give as much context as possible.
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