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BrokenHeart3d
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Devastated and confused
Relationship Stress / by BrokenHeart3d
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 December 7th, 2021
...See more My husband and I have been married for 5 years. Earlier this year (March-ish) we decided to have a baby, who is now 2 weeks old. We thought it would be difficult to get pregnant since it had been 4 years with no protection whatsoever. Turns out it wasn’t, and we got pregnant the same month. About 2 years prior, our sex life fell off. Partly because of my own depression issues. Partly because he causes me pain sometimes. . So I kind of stopped having sex with him. We slowed down to maybe 1-2 times per month. Sometimes not at all. We are only in our early 30s. 2 months ago I found out that he had been having an affair that started in March of this year. The same time we agreed to have a baby. Long story short, she’s pregnant. And I don’t know what to do. We have a 2 week old newborn, and outside of the affair he is/was a perfect husband. He has always taken very good care of me, emotionally and physically. He’s always been very sweet. I don’t want to lose him. Aside from our sex life, our marriage was perfect. He was/is my soul mate. I want to forgive him. But I cannot deal with another baby. Am I wrong? Should I forgive or walk away?
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