Brooklyn8080 Member Profile

...See more I have anxiety. I am mad at everything and I can't relax. I've been home everyday for the past 2.5 months with my infant and toddler, working a full time job, and managing everything else. Basically I'm working 3 full time jobs - daycare/mother, day job, and home/yard/bills,etc. My husband is working during the week, long hours. And when he is home, he's worthless. He doesn't pay any bills, doesn't bring the kids to the doctor, slacks off when it comes to cleaning anything, and lies about everything. He finds anyway possible to leave so he doesn't have to watch the kids. He wasn't this way when I married him - I feel duped. He's not smart by any means. There are SO many examples but here is one: I'll go over a list with him for groceries and I'll take the time to make sure he sees what we need and he'll "agree". Then he goes to the store and asks what we need. I'm so stressed out - I have no friends and my family doesn't care to check in or talk to me. They say "You've got it, you can figure it out". That basically means that they'll spend time with my brother instead. My boss is sexist and he leaves me out of everything at work. I am literally the last one to know. (I recently turned him into our HR for saying I was only hired because I was a woman.) I work with a small group of guys and so some of them treat me about the same. I clean, I cook, I take care of the house. I've asked for help, but I get nothing but lies. How do I cope? Where do I turn?

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