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...See more ey I’m new here but I have an situation that I’m not sure of,I met a guy on an dating website he was 8 years older than myself ,I’m 26 and he’s 34 .he messaged me and immediately stated he wanted to marry me and be with me within the first day so we within 4 days I broke Things off with him because he was constantly insisting That we marry and have kids within 2 months .and he couldn’t respect that .so when I tried to dump him he stated he loved me and that kinda freaked me out because we just met 4 Days ago.how can you love someone that fast.so a couple weeks go by and reached back out to me this time he was apologetic and remorseful and said he was sorry he hasn’t been in a relationship in a while ,I gave him another chance .this time things were a little better but I noticed that he had an issue with me working 2 jobs and that I had an newer model car than his. at first he was sweet and planning On buying an engagement ring and getting An apartment then depending On what i said he would change his mood .he stated that he didn’t have many friends because he’s not an peoples person and that he doesn’t like people looking At him and that he’s crazy .,and the people who work with him are afraid Of him because he’s crazy or they think he’s in a gang or illegal activity and i jokingly said well I’m not afraid of you and said I’ll make You afraid of me.he didn’t like other dudes looking at me he didn’t want me to talk to other dudes when I was out ,he doesn’t have. An relationship with his mom ,so fast forward we finally met in person and shortly after the meeting he asked me when was I going To start working out and exercise and that he would help me lose weight but if I tried to leave him once I lost weight he said he would get me fat again .so I felt He was saying I was fat and I told Him if he’s looking for a certain girl he can go find her and we stopped talking after that .each time we would stop talking he would inbox me On the app so I blocked him and he made an new profile and the pattern continue .oh and prior to this incident he got mad because I wouldn’t call him daddy or baby consistently so we stopped talking again so the very last time was when for Christmas wanted me to come over he had stated to where he wanted sex and he wanted to become intimate but i didn’t feel comfortable because I didn’t Know if he had any stds I asked him to take an test and he refused and so I told him I wouldn’t sleep with him so he didn’t talk to me for like a week and then he agreed to do it so for Christmas week he wanted to spend time with me in a hotel and. At this point we hadn’t even went on any dates .and we have been talking On and off for 3 months .he still Said he will not get an std tesr done at this point I stopped talking to him I didn’t text or call him anymore I told him I was finished .but I noticed the next day he was viewing my ig stories so I removed him and 3 weeks later I reactivated The app and he views my profile but didn’t message me so I deleted the app I’m just concerned would be become angry or obsessed and want to harm Me .I don’t have any friends so I don’t Have no one else to Talk to any advice would do I’m sorry this is so long.also i haven’t spoken to him since then I haven’t texted or called him since Christmas week .And also during The time we were speaking to each other and he would constantly say he loves me All day and says he had strong feelings for me And that he wanted to has kids with me and get me pregnant and marry me within a couple weeks and I believed him.I’m just concerned would he become obsessed with me and try to find me or something I don’t know maybe im overthinking

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